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Being Honest About Your Feelings
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26 / F / Manchester, UK
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Posted 5/9/07
i gues falling for a friend cant be helped especially if she is alwayz der 4 u.. Think 1st b4 u act.. if u confess u'll feel much better but ask urself if u r ready to loose her nd ur friendship... BUT if u keep ur feelings.. u wud never know.. maybe she likes u back nd waiting 4 u 2 do d first move... Confusing ryt?! well that's wat luv is!
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I prefer not to burden people with my emotional weakness…. I would much rather keep it to myself and create an emotional fortitude that allows me to go on without the need to tax other people with my dismal rants and complaining. But, I have my venting areas… Poetry, fantasy, and writing in general. I use these to get my bottled up feelings out, and then I pretend like I’m a robot! :-D This is saving rage, cuz I’ve got temper problems… I hate that about me.
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i think in order to avoid this love conflict... maybe in the first place before you befriend a friend, make it clear first that you want to be friends only.. no more no less...
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23 / F / Philippines
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Posted 5/9/07
well...i agree that falling for a friend is really tricky....coz actually i've gone through that...lol...it was hard...esp. when he does small things for you...and you tend to give them meanings..

i actually didn't just fall for a friend..what's worse was i fell for my bestest friend...haha...and what's more worse was that i wasn't allowed to fall in love..i mean i was restricting myself from falling for someone coz i don't want to hurt anybody when the time comes that my parents have already chosen my fiance...[arranged marriage]

My bestfriend was really a gentleman...and often girls fall for guys who are really nice and kind..and that kinds of stuff...He would do things for me.. He would carry my bag... He would help me with anything.

I pretended not to have feelings for him which was really hard...I would tease him with other girls..and laugh every time he gets mad about it. I would often cry...[yeah...i would cry...which is embarrassing...but i was very young then..]because I don't want to fall in love...

hmm...well..i can advice you guys to try and keep a distance away from the friend you are starting to fall for...so you can avoid the heartaches you'll feel when time comes...
nwei..hope it helped...^_____________^
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76 / F / in the club
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Posted 5/9/07
Pretending not to love a person never works, it will pains you more than expected.
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27 / M / Fort Hood Texas
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Posted 7/7/07
ur choice lol if it goes wrong it might belil awkward being wit he/r after that so i got no advice 4 ya
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25 / F / phillipines
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Posted 7/7/07
you knew what..its really hard to confess much more if he/she is your friend for there is a big risk..your friendship ..well there's no harm on trying..after all its hard to regret the things you wish you have done..but then if he/she doesnt feel the same its really awkward he/she may move lil far from you but you may still ask for the friendship like before..well its really hard i'm telling you..
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31 / M / Iloilo City, PH
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Posted 7/7/07
how cute... anyway just tell it to him jokingly several times and if he's smart he'll notice the hints and he'll act weird and avoid you for a while then he calls in the middle of the night unsure whether he has feelings for you or not... chances are he has...

it'll never work if the bloke's as dumb as a block though or already spoken for... but if you're persistent go ahead...
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Posted 7/7/07
I guess if you do like your friend then the right thing to do is find out if your friend likes you to. Maybe ask someone who is close to your friend. If you do find out that your friend does feel the same way then its time to make your move.
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CrashAriMP5N2O wrote:

What's there to lose if you're confessing? If he/she is truly a friend, then even if they don't return the feelings, they'd still be your friend. Then they could help you find someone else.



Would not be that sure... If you're rejected I think you can never be friends again (like it used to be)...
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Posted 7/7/07
just be as blunt as possible. that way, you might fry her brain for a few seconds and you can get a kiss in. worked for me.
Posted 7/7/07
i have difficulty with that...besides, talking about feelings is bullshit
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Posted 7/7/07
To OP, the friend zone is the most dangerous and difficult place to be in you are interested in the attention of a girl. My advice is play it slow and see if the feelings are returned.
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Posted 7/7/07
well, one thing ive learned over my years playing and losing two women i really loved, seize the fish! if you dont hook'em, just keep fishing. until your heart cant break anymore and you want to die. and then! thats when you finally realize, its not really worth all the hassle. just have fun. ask the world, what is love?
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Posted 7/7/07
^ But what you risk is losing a close friend, which unlike other women don't come around everyday.
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