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Being Honest About Your Feelings
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Posted 7/7/07
thats also one thing ive learned. guys and girls can never really be 'close friends'. there will always be some kind of tension between them. most likely sexual. and it'll probably be one sided also, dont matter if its from the girl or from the guy. you can be casual friends, but when you get that close to a person of the opposite sex, its a situation you cant avoid forever. either you bring it up so you two can move on and away from it, or there'll always be that dark cloud floating around. unless you just like being pelted by the rain from that grey cloud(torture i know).
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Posted 7/7/07
^ Well the plutonic female friend, is the one you don't want to let go of. And while you can have them, they are few and far between. And I guess your right, there does seem to be a fair bit of romantic or sexual tension between OP and said friend. In that case takes he should take your (xilith's) advice just dive in and hope for the best.
Posted 7/7/07
You can't be general about this. It varies, depending on the situation.
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Posted 7/7/07

KarenSeline wrote:

You can't be general about this. It varies, depending on the situation.


I was gonna say something like that. :l

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I like one of my guy friends too. But he's in love with one of my old friends. They dated in secrete last summer. Oh she has a bf by the way. I really hate her with a passion. I dont think i like who is now but i fell for something he use to be. I think thats why i cant get over him...
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Posted 7/7/07
ummm... im the type who is too shy and scared 2 b honest bout my feelings......so i wouldnt b any help on this subject....
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Posted 7/7/07
its complicated...things are not always straight forward..people tend to take the long way round
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27 / F / Philippines
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Posted 7/21/07
I can say that there's a big possibility that ur friendship will be ruined if ur going to confess...Might as well observe ur friend's feelings first if he's feeling the same way too.
Posted 7/21/07
I would ask if they have feelings for someone and if it isn't me, then I'll just keep my mouth shut. Come to think of it, I've never told anyone that I liked them even after they told me they liked me.
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Posted 7/21/07
Well, I know it really depends on the situation... and there is a lot at risk, but don't you think it's worth finding out what might happen? I mean, say you don't say anything ever and things just remain the way they always do, you'll just continue wondering, right?

I was in the same situation... almost two years ago and I told my best friend that I liked him (not love yet, because at the time I didn't know what love was) and now... well, we're still together.

I know that's under the best circumstances, but it's worth a shot, right?
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Posted 7/21/07
hmm... to be honest... i let him go.. there is a right time... but i think in your situation, you might as well tell him/her.. once a friend told me.. **if its a guy** guys forget easily...(that's what he told me ok!) if you confessed your feelings to him.. and doesn't have feelings for you.. they tend to forget it.. **if its a girl** let them have it.. avoid them so quite sumtym.. then let them ask you why..
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76 / F / HELL,, -_-
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Posted 7/22/07
waaaaaaaaaaaah,, :c
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Posted 7/22/07
I will say to him '' you know what I don't care what you would think of me but I'm happy that I told you the truth that all this time I started to fall on you'' just say it that way but for me I haven't experienced because I did not fall from my closew friends...
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24 / F / WPG, Canada♥
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Posted 7/22/07
it started out as friends then what??
NVM.

my feelings: hmm im really tired of being yelled at by my parents haha but i cant help it
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Posted 8/1/07
It's hard being honest with your feelings, and definitely for people for the who never interact with people a lot(Anti-social) to them it's a difficult situation or experience but it's only my opinion.
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