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Being Honest About Your Feelings
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25 / Texas
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Posted 8/1/07
im never honest about them
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24 / F / Paradise
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Posted 8/1/07
it is hard to be really honest with ur friends... especially when u just wanna yell at them or say something so u get ur point across. i mean, even i wish that i had the courage to tell a good friend of mine my feelings because of a terrible fight we had that cost me my friendship with him...

i still haven't had any courage at all to say what i really feel, so when u supress ur emotions it gets harder and harder to be honest and open. i feel that when i get honest and open, i'll suddenly make the mood go from happy to sad, so i think i tend to hold what i feel more inside, rather than saying it right out loud. but hey, that's only me.
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22 / F / A Hole Undergroun...
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Posted 8/1/07
it depends.

sumtimes u can be honest if its not sumfin big but....
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F / ಌNYC, the BIG APPLEಌ
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Posted 8/1/07
sometimes i do and sometimes i dont.. i usually express more "honest" feelings online than real life... but usually i sometimes be honest about my feelings and sometimes dont... it depends which situation im in..
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22 / F / New Jersey
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Posted 8/1/07
It's hard to express your feelings, especially when you're shy.

What I think is best, is sending a little note, text, e-mail, or whatever form of communication that doesn't involve real eye-to-eye contact.

It works, even if you're expressing your love, or your anger. =]
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22 / M / You dont wanna know
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Posted 8/1/07
That happened to me but I'm not gonna let something like that make me fall down or push me. I'm going to look forword . Even if I like that person . I'm not going to let something like that break our friendship cause I'm not ready for a relationship.
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76 / M
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Posted 8/1/07
i went out with my best friend..........back in high school...i use to pick on her alot...its not until than that i find myself having feeling for her.....the confession part is nerve recking to be honest....but the hardest part to accept is the fact that the friend ur so use to is the person u had feeling for....
if u like ur friend/best friend.......than CONFESS..u got nothing to lose....friends will alway be friend no matter what....
if ur friend happen to be the same sex as u.....than maybe u should really reconsider
but if both of u r oppisite than what is there to lose...

i had numerous relationship before......but the one with my best friend is the funnest, and the most memerble.....u got nothing to lose as long as ur being honest with ur feeling and had no regret................
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F / wherever here on...
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Posted 8/1/07
it won't hurt, but then again it's sad if you tell that person and then he/she doesn't feel the same way. it's worth a try though 'coz you never know.
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Posted 3/30/08
i dont know about you guys, but actually its really easy for me to reveal my feelings instead of concealing them. when i like somebody i tell him right away, whether he's a friend or not. when he doesnt feel the same way, its fine with me. i could get over it real fast. bein plastic is the hardest thing i can do so id rather be myself even though a lot of people are hatin me for it. i can pretend all the time though its hard, but i cannot satisfy myself. =/
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20 / F / Philippines
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Posted 3/31/08
well, I think you should say this:

'' you're really good to me and very considerate over me... I appreciate all that you did for me and all that you still do... as expected from a friend like you... but I just don't understand what I am feeling right now... I'm afraid to tell you what I really feel because I'm afraid to lose you even as a friend.. not long I realized that I'm constantly falling for you.. I know it's hard to believe but I do...
I tried to tell you but I am afraid to lose a friend like you... but I just want to let you know dat I love you... "

I'm not really good in this situations.... but if I were you I would do... just what I thought would be better
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28 / M / Tiny Island of Guam
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Posted 3/31/08
If she really was a friend, that wouldn't change anything. I confessed to my best friend of 8yrs thats I've had a crush on her since we were 9. We laughed it off, it felt good to get it off my chest. Though she is in a 3 year relationship now, I've been supportive. Basically once I told her about my feelings...I didn't really give a shit. I mean shes my best friend thats all she will ever be..and I've learned to accept that. So my advice...be honest...tell her how you feel....if she doesn't accept your feelings then tough shit remain friends. If she becomes hard headed and avoids you and all then she really wasn't a friend to begin with. With all this feeling awkward crap, its all a mental thing. Just keep you cool...laugh it off and have fun...
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25 / inside my heart
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Posted 3/31/08
i have no idea what to comment in this thread

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27 / F / Michigan
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Posted 3/31/08
i have a very sad story. i had this friend since we were born and he was my best friend in the world. and i had a crush on him since 7th grade. i asked him out and he said no because he didn't date friends. we continued to be friends and then my junior year he asked me out and i told him that i didn't know because i didn't want us to break up and not be friends anymore. he continued to tell me that it wouldn't happen so finally i agreed. we went out for like 9 months and then out of the blue he broke up with me. i got so mad becuse he didn't give me a reason or anything and was telling his friends and my friends different reasons why. we haven't talked since. it's really sad that 18 years later i lost my best friend. because of that i make it a point not to date friends just because i don't want to lose another good friend.
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30 / F / Darkness
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Posted 5/11/08
i'll say what i feel and then... i dont know...
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