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Are there any GUYS out there saving their virginity?
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Posted 2/28/09 , edited 3/2/09
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If /masturbating don't take your virginity away.
I still have mine, and i think won't lose it until I've found the 'lucky' one
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Posted 2/28/09
^ so can u actully get sex right now if you could? but your not giving it up for your future spouse?
Posted 2/28/09
well iwasnt asked did i want to lsoe it or not =(..ym big sis girlfriend too k it when i was drunk >.<
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Are there guys that can actually get some but choose not to lose their virginity out there? Im a virgin, but when i started takling with my girlfriend about sex i found out she already lost her virginity. Idk why but that kinda hurt me really bad and it bugged me for a few weeks. My other friends were like losing your virginity is no big deal, and they didn't think much of it.


At first i was ready to have sex with my girlfriend but i remembered how hurt i was thinking some other guy had her before me (she showed me a picture of him too, it was still saved on her comp ) and i thought, damn i don't want my future wife to deal with this...and your virginity is a one time thing once you lose it you can't go back no matter how much you tell yourself.

Are there any other GUYS who ACTUALLY HAVE ACCESS TO SEX who think the same as me? comment and discuss


I don't really have easy access to it, but I have had a lot of opportunities to lose it and turned them down. I feel like sex shouldn't be just purely carnal pleasure, but should be the ultimate physical expression of how much you care for someone (not necessarily love, but strong infatuation or something in that area). If someone wants carnal pleasure then masturbation works just as well, if they're going to go through all the trouble of convincing someone to have sex with them, then they might as well make it more meaningful. I'm not against sex before marriage, but against sex just because it makes your genitals happy.

If you have the willpower to wait until marriage then good luck to you, but realize that not many people in our generation are doing the same thing, so there's a good chance your future wife won't be a virgin either. I don't think most people really care if you've had sex before, but rather how many people you've had sex with and what you might have picked up from them.
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My guy friend told me one time that he regrets losing it.

He said that it's bad and good either saving it or losing it. You learn from your first 'time' but you also get that feeling that you want to save it for the 'special' someone. But if you save it for the special someone you wouldn't know what to do when the time comes.

Am I making sense?

It really just depends on the guy.
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Posted 2/28/09

Cuddlebuns wrote:


LemonyPanda wrote:

Are there guys that can actually get some but choose not to lose their virginity out there? Im a virgin, but when i started takling with my girlfriend about sex i found out she already lost her virginity. Idk why but that kinda hurt me really bad and it bugged me for a few weeks. My other friends were like losing your virginity is no big deal, and they didn't think much of it.


At first i was ready to have sex with my girlfriend but i remembered how hurt i was thinking some other guy had her before me (she showed me a picture of him too, it was still saved on her comp ) and i thought, damn i don't want my future wife to deal with this...and your virginity is a one time thing once you lose it you can't go back no matter how much you tell yourself.

Are there any other GUYS who ACTUALLY HAVE ACCESS TO SEX who think the same as me? comment and discuss


I don't really have easy access to it, but I have had a lot of opportunities to lose it and turned them down. I feel like sex shouldn't be just purely carnal pleasure, but should be the ultimate physical expression of how much you care for someone (not necessarily love, but strong infatuation or something in that area). If someone wants carnal pleasure then masturbation works just as well, if they're going to go through all the trouble of convincing someone to have sex with them, then they might as well make it more meaningful. I'm not against sex before marriage, but against sex just because it makes your genitals happy.

If you have the willpower to wait until marriage then good luck to you, but realize that not many people in our generation are doing the same thing, so there's a good chance your future wife won't be a virgin either. I don't think most people really care if you've had sex before, but rather how many people you've had sex with and what you might have picked up from them.


my girlfriend only had it once with one guy (not sure if shes completely telling the truth tho) and i was still kind of hurt. I mean whenever i think of her i just see that guy banging her and its been disturbing me for weeks. Idk, just seeing someone I love making love to someone else (even before she met me) just kind of sickens me.
Posted 2/28/09

smil3es wrote:

My guy friend told me one time that he regrets losing it.

He said that it's bad and good either saving it or losing it. You learn from your first 'time' but you also get that feeling that you want to save it for the 'special' someone. But if you save it for the special someone you wouldn't know what to do when the time comes.

lol but you've to know that video's/books exist to help you right :3

Am I making sense?

It really just depends on the guy.


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Posted 2/28/09

Baka-Master wrote:


smil3es wrote:

My guy friend told me one time that he regrets losing it.

He said that it's bad and good either saving it or losing it. You learn from your first 'time' but you also get that feeling that you want to save it for the 'special' someone. But if you save it for the special someone you wouldn't know what to do when the time comes.



Am I making sense?

It really just depends on the guy.


lol but you've to know that video's/books exist to help you right :3



I don't know... I guess so?
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Posted 2/28/09
get the comic book "american virgin"
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LemonyPanda wrote:

my girlfriend only had it once with one guy (not sure if shes completely telling the truth tho) and i was still kind of hurt. I mean whenever i think of her i just see that guy banging her and its been disturbing me for weeks. Idk, just seeing someone I love making love to someone else (even before she met me) just kind of sickens me.


Well your only options are to accept it and move on, or dump her and find a virgin. If you can just accept that it's a part of her past that doesn't matter now, and that now she only cares about you, then it's easier to move on. I'm assuming she's kissed other guys, you don't think of them when you two kiss do you? (assuming you guys do kiss) If you can kiss her without thinking about the other guys that have been in her mouth, then you should be able to do the same with sex.
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smil3es wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:


smil3es wrote:

My guy friend told me one time that he regrets losing it.

He said that it's bad and good either saving it or losing it. You learn from your first 'time' but you also get that feeling that you want to save it for the 'special' someone. But if you save it for the special someone you wouldn't know what to do when the time comes.



Am I making sense?

It really just depends on the guy.


lol but you've to know that video's/books exist to help you right :3



I don't know... I guess so?


=.=

buy a doll to try it on her before you're doing it with your gf/bf
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Posted 2/28/09

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LemonyPanda wrote:

my girlfriend only had it once with one guy (not sure if shes completely telling the truth tho) and i was still kind of hurt. I mean whenever i think of her i just see that guy banging her and its been disturbing me for weeks. Idk, just seeing someone I love making love to someone else (even before she met me) just kind of sickens me.


Well your only options are to accept it and move on, or dump her and find a virgin. If you can just accept that it's a part of her past that doesn't matter now, and that now she only cares about you, then it's easier to move on. I'm assuming she's kissed other guys, you don't think of them when you two kiss do you? (assuming you guys do kiss) If you can kiss her without thinking about the other guys that have been in her mouth, then you should be able to do the same with sex.


maybe..but thats a stupid reason, dumping your girlfriend cuz she's not a virgin

o well idk lets see how it works out...
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i'm in the exact situation as the OP. I can safely say that I had about a dozen chances to 'lose it'(excluding whores ofc :P) and I opted to take the moral high ground instead.
It isn't a crime, though people treat me like I'm HIV-positive if I dare mention I'm still a virgin.
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Posted 2/28/09

Baka-Master wrote:


smil3es wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:


smil3es wrote:

My guy friend told me one time that he regrets losing it.

He said that it's bad and good either saving it or losing it. You learn from your first 'time' but you also get that feeling that you want to save it for the 'special' someone. But if you save it for the special someone you wouldn't know what to do when the time comes.



Am I making sense?

It really just depends on the guy.


lol but you've to know that video's/books exist to help you right :3



I don't know... I guess so?


=.=

buy a doll to try it on her before you're doing it with your gf/bf

That kinda seems like you lost your viginity with the doll, no point saving it.
Your not getting my point, so nevermind.
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