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Are there any GUYS out there saving their virginity?
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Posted 2/28/09

Cuddlebuns wrote:
But is the experience that you'd get from simply thrusting your hips into someone without any real concern about their pleasure (which is all people do when they have sex just because the other person is hawt) the kind of experience that is worth having? Wouldn't that just cause a person to become emotionally detached from sex when/if they do it with someone they actually care about?


Ofc you must try to make her come as well. Not only doing it for your own satisfaction.
There's a big difference in "regular sex" and "sex with someone you like". But you learn things in both. And if you learned things having "regular sex", it will make "sex with someone you like" better. And that is a good thing.


If you're with someone you really care for and they care for you, then they should be understanding of your lack of experience and give you guidance.


Sure there can be understanding. But maybe the girl can't give you guidance. Maybe it is you that must give HER guidance. If thats the case, it can be good to have some exp.



When you're older it's a good thing, but at my age "trouble" is more than convincing someone to have sex with you, there's the issue of dodging parents and teachers, which tends to lead to a rushed and unsatisfying experience, and often times irresponsibility which leads to pregnancy and STDs


Lets just say that I was "too young" when I lost mine. I was on vacation with my family.
I was with a girl in her vacation-house (directly behind mine). So our families wasn't really far away. I don't know why but it was exciting.
And I was nervous as hell. And it WAS an unsatisfying experience. But at least it WAS an experience.
This may sound boring but is is the truth:
just be yourself. If you are shy a small amount of alcohol may help.
And be responsible.



If you ignore the fact that they have the potential to ruin a person's life, then they aren't so scary.

That's why you should be careful, as I said. Use condom, day after-pills and everything that comes with it.


Posted 2/28/09
My older sister took mine >.>

Im saving now tho cause sex early just gets girls hooked on you >.> shoo shoo
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Posted 2/28/09

CryAngel wrote:


Hedbrant wrote:

FACT: first time is never good.



High five, man~!!



hehe Im not used to being called "man" from a girl

But sure
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Posted 2/28/09

KinkyBear wrote:

im saving it for the special someone!


Wow. Kinky, you really got my respect this time
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Posted 2/28/09
^ thx! i may be kinky but not horny!
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Posted 2/28/09

KinkyBear wrote:

^ thx! i may be kinky but not horny!


^^ Kinky you have my respect. Or not... Still you are on my k00l kidz list.
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^ safe! ur on my 'doable' list
Posted 2/28/09
I have guy friends, that are still virgins and they can get some, like just like that.
But they haven't found someone they really wanna have sex with.
Also, if you like her, then why does it matter that's she not a virgin?
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It is no big deal seriously.
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Posted 2/28/09
I hope so. 'Cause if you're a Christian and you're not, DAMN BITCH you better go to confession
Posted 2/28/09
There are some for sure. There would always be.
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I'm still a virgin and I plan to stay as a virgin till I get married. That's the plan of God. I'm only going to have sex with the person that God has planned me to be with, the love of my life.

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Oh too bad, next time ask the girl if she's a virgin to get some laughs.

You know, instead of being sad for nothing (such immature child) why don't you try having it with her. At least you can get ample experience so that if the right girl comes along, you'll not have any emotional problems that you have now. But I do think that what your gf did (still has ex's photo on comp etc) is bad. It makes you think that she still thinks of him, but that's part of life, nothing's sure.

Me being a NOT a virgin since 16, I regret it.... It makes me feel so thirsty for female flesh! So guys, make sure you have ample supplies of girls to be partnered with because once you're addicted, there's no turning back.

Oh, and I think that "Oh I'll be a virgin till I'm married" is a bad idea especially if you don't know if you're sexually compatible with your partner (ex. not all girls would like to do what you want them to do and vice versa). So do practice if you're ready.
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I was sooooo into saving my virginity. Like, honestly. Until one night it just kinda happened. Went for 7 seconds total before I had to stop because I felt so terrible.
But people say I'm still a virgin because I didn't "finish." x_x I'm not sure if that's true or not.

But yeah. Seriously. It haunts me to this day that I did what I did. I really really wish I could take it back. I valued my virginity above so many things.
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Posted 2/28/09

IsakuRain wrote:

I'm still a virgin and I plan to stay as a virgin till I get married. That's the plan of God. I'm only going to have sex with the person that God has planned me to be with, the love of my life.



thats easy to say now. But what if you get divorced?
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