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how do you know when you are in love?
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Posted 3/7/09
because i dont know.
i question my relationship alot.
so this is consider not love riight??



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Duplicate. I believe... (Not entirely sure)

Anyway, if your sad when you are not with the person you are in a relationship with.

And when your around them you feel joyous.

If you question your relationship then it's not working out.
Posted 3/7/09
idk..
im completely emotionless..
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it is natural to question your relationship sometimes, it could be because things are starting to get serious or you sense that something is wrong between you and your bf/gf. but for me the only way to ever know if your in love is when that person gives you a strong feeling and when you choose to love that person. but that almost sounds like LOVE LOVE, lol...in a relationship, especially if its new, love with find a way to build up, and when it does, you will try everything in your heart to make it work.
whew, tough question, haha!
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Fujiwara10 wrote:

Duplicate. I believe... (Not entirely sure)

Anyway, if your sad when you are not with the person you are in a relationship with.

And when your around them you feel joyous.

If you question your relationship then it's not working out.





but eyyyy, i am sad wehen im not with him
&&think aboiut him alot.
but then again...i have doubts
and not so much confidents in our relationship..


so iono. wth...
Posted 3/7/09
When you can just be with them without the need to hug, kiss, or fuck.
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Ruki_x wrote:

When you can just be with them without the need to hug, kiss, or fuck.




hey i never thought it like thatt....
are you sure????
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wouldnt there needs to be some attrastions??
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but eyyyy, i am sad wehen im not with him
&&think aboiut him alot.
but then again...i have doubts
and not so much confidents in our relationship..


so iono. wth...


Hm, is he always there and does his "I love you"'s mean anything to you?
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Posted 3/7/09

Fujiwara10 wrote:


tia_yangel wrote:




but eyyyy, i am sad wehen im not with him
&&think aboiut him alot.
but then again...i have doubts
and not so much confidents in our relationship..


so iono. wth...


Hm, is he always there and does his "I love you"'s mean anything to you?



uhm, iono really.
let me think about it...
yes.?

Posted 3/7/09

tia_yangel wrote:


Ruki_x wrote:

When you can just be with them without the need to hug, kiss, or fuck.




hey i never thought it like thatt....
are you sure????


Yeah. I mean, hugs, kisses, and all that are really great and are definitely needed in relationships. But if you can just be next to them, without touching them and you can know they love you, I think that's when you're in love.

Oooh, when did I get so corny? D:
Posted 3/7/09

tia_yangel wrote:


Fujiwara10 wrote:



Hm, is he always there and does his "I love you"'s mean anything to you?



uhm, iono really.
let me think about it...
yes.?



I'm sure your fine for now then, just keep your hopes up.
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fate_tertium wrote:

idk..
im completely emotionless..


That is sad.


It's okay to question a relationship, it's only natural to question almost everything in life (religion, sexuality, etc.)
What is important is if you are happy or not. In the begining of a relationship, you get this "high" and you laugh more and smile more and just feel amazing. After a while, the "high" fades, but that doesn't mean love disappears. Love is a choice. You can choose to love someone, to put up with them, to help them, to be with them. Or, you can choose not too.

So what does being in love feel like? It's constantly changing. Love can be that amazing "high," or love can make you hurt. What is up to you is to decided whether you want to stick with it or not. And it's not a bad thing if you don't. Sometimes it's good to take a break from a relationship and just live life for yourself.
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Posted 3/7/09

Ruki_x wrote:


tia_yangel wrote:


Ruki_x wrote:

When you can just be with them without the need to hug, kiss, or fuck.




hey i never thought it like thatt....
are you sure????


Yeah. I mean, hugs, kisses, and all that are really great and are definitely needed in relationships. But if you can just be next to them, without touching them and you can know they love you, I think that's when you're in love.

Oooh, when did I get so corny? D:



Agreed. Attraction needs to be there, but it doesn't have to be there all the time.

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well, if you're having doubts then maybe it's not working out. do you care for him? if a person cares for someone, they won't have doubts and would try to sustain their relationship. if not, then that's fine and dandy also.

there are possibilities why you're possibly having doubts:

1. you're afraid

2. maybe after going out for awhile, you realize that there's something missing within the relationship. (spark? chemistry?)

3. you just see him as a friend after all that dating.

idk also but these are my thoughts on it...
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