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What would you say or do if your ex wants you back?
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okeyy ..my friend asks me this.. 'what would you say if your ex wants you back?'
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nahhhh~ ask him/her to be sex buddy. bet they nid it =P
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if you still like them say yes. if not, say no. easy as that.
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depends on the situation.

if it's an abusive relationship (physically or emotionally), it's a big no-no.
if the reason for the breakup is something stupid, if feelings still exist, go for it.

my ex calls me everyday, curses me out on my voicemail one day and the next he tells me he needs me. if your friend is going through something like that, that's a HELL NO.
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28 / F / In your dreams!
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Hell and no. You guys broke up for a reason, why put yourselves through it again?
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Depends on the situation. It's not really all black & white sometimes. Sometimes it is worth making the effort to try to work things out. If you broke up for some undefined reason, or something that could have been worked out but at the time for one reason or another, you didn't - then I say at least make an attempt...that is if there is still any feeling there for the other person. If it still doesn't work out, then at least you will have tried.

If you broke up because of a situation like flippizzle described, then you are much better off apart and a restraining order may be a prudent next step.

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Absolutely not. All my exes are either cheaters or crazy ass psychos (yes, I'm into many kinks, but fucking dogs & chickens is not one, kthnx).
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35 / F / virginia beach
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i said no, cuz my ex is a cheater and a liar all he likes, but yes it does depend on the reason on why he wants you back. I usually give 3 chances and then 3rd time your out. If they didnt cheat on you that is.
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30 / F / Houston, TX
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what people don't often realize is that it's definitely easier said than done. you can clearly imagine a situation, like "ok if a guy cheats on me it's over!" and you come to that conclusion because it's just your imagination. in real life, you form a bond with that person and get drawn to them. sometimes you love or feel so strongly about that person that a lot of people make that "mistake" of taking them back over and over again. "Blinded by love" if you will. Everything is foggy in that perspective whereas it's much easier to us spectators to spit whatever comes to mind.

as stupid as i may sound, me and my ex kept going on and off even when i knew for sure it was never gonna work out, but i kept giving him a chance hoping that he might change because i really had feelings for him before he went all obsessive. i didn't learn my lesson until he scared the crap out of me and i realized this "love" is destructive. i had to get out forever, and look, he's still pursuing me
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f ur exxxx want you really back den he must do anything you want
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29 / F / Canada
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I would say yes! He was absoulutely wonderful and because i lacked confidence in our relationship i screwed it up! So yeah, i would like to give it another go!
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27 / F / Singapore
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Posted 5/15/07

Elizabutt wrote:

Hell and no. You guys broke up for a reason, why put yourselves through it again?


I totally agree. Especially if it was a horrible breakup. I'll probably just walk away.

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I have actually had this happen on several occasions and like Elizabutt I say Hell NO!! The one time I went back on this rule I regretted it horribly! Cause the guy just tore my heart out again and stomped on it a second time!! So I say "Hell NO!!"
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28 / M / Philippines
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no tnx...............
Posted 5/15/07
I wouldn't take back any of my exes even though they're all wonderful guys. I broke up w/ them b/c we couldn't make it work. Obviously I wasn't invested enough in the relationships. It's silly to go back when my feelings for them or theirs for me were so shallow. I could probably make excuses like: I was too young, I was too insecure at that moment in time etc... but it still comes down to my not having strong enough feelings for the other person to fight for the relationship.

Also, I'm crazy in love already so I wouldn't even consider anyone else.
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