love-things most of us go thru
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Posted 3/21/09
how would u handle these situations...
1) having a crush on someone but knowing for sure they don't love u
2) having a good friend that u don't love say they love u
3) having a crush on someone who you're too afraid to confess to


BONUS QUESTION!
how would you try to get the person you have a crush on to like you back
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M / Wa Wa Land
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Posted 3/21/09
I'm sure this is a Dub..

Go ask them, as simple as that.
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An hero nao OP!
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1) if i had a crush who doesn't like/love me back then I wouldn't really take it seriously, id try my best to just be friends with that person.
2) if my good friend told me he loved me, id ask why, and tell him how i feel and that i don't want to ruin the friendship we have now.
3) if i had a crush who i was too afraid to confess to, well that situation would be really hard, i guess i'll wait for the right time, theirs time for everything, plus i shouldn't rush myself.

BONUS: i don't really know how to make someone im crushing on like me back. hmm. all i know is i should show him who i am, and if he likes me for me and feelings develop, then Thank God.
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1) having a crush on someone but knowing for sure they don't love u
Hmm..slowly but surely let him go, one sided love isn't fun at all.

2) having a good friend that u don't love say they love u
I'd tell him the truth that his friendship means more to me, and that's how I've always seen him.

3) having a crush on someone who you're too afraid to confess to
Sometimes it's okay for a while, daydream and things, but it's also hard to know what he's thinking and if he thinks about you like you think of him. Usually in this situation, I'd have my friends find out for me or if i have enough courage, i'd tell him.

BONUS QUESTION!
how would you try to get the person you have a crush on to like you back

be yourself, if he can't like you for who you are, then he's just not worth it.
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1) First, ask to make sure. Even after the rejection, you can still love him/her- no one can control your feelings. Over time your love will go away if its not reciprocated - nothing lasts forever including love.

2) Reply with the truth since its your good friend - he/she will understand.

3)Weigh the pros and cons in whether to confess or not then decide. Imagine having a relationship with this person.

Bonus: the first step is to let them know your feelings - the rest is up to you...
Posted 3/21/09
Stalking much =___=;;

Damn people these day's love stalking huh
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how would u handle these situations...
1) having a crush on someone but knowing for sure they don't love u

- I'd force myself to give up, either gradually or as soon as I can.
2) having a good friend that u don't love say they love u

- I'd still be friends, or stop being their friend, depending on the person and situation.
Then again, my current boyfriend said this to me after around 3 years of friendship, except it was an "I like you".

3) having a crush on someone who you're too afraid to confess to
- I'd never confess, or confess eventually. Then run away.

BONUS QUESTION!
how would you try to get the person you have a crush on to like you back
- Just act normal. If they like me eventually, they will. If they don't, they don't
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how would u handle these situations...
1) having a crush on someone but knowing for sure they don't love u

I'd get over it and suck it up. You can't always get happy endings.. (But I'd be depressed, kinda.) It depends on the situation and person (people?) though.

2) having a good friend that u don't love say they love u

.. Tell them I don't love them.. It will just hurt them if I lie and tell them after time.. But of course I'd give them a chance.. If it doesn't work out after that change, it just doesn't. But it's always depending on the situation.

3) having a crush on someone who you're too afraid to confess to

Isn't that how it always is? I just get over it.

BONUS QUESTION!
how would you try to get the person you have a crush on to like you back

Depends who it is.
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Posted 3/22/09
how would u handle these situations...
1) having a crush on someone but knowing for sure they don't love u
2) having a good friend that u don't love say they love u
3) having a crush on someone who you're too afraid to confess to


BONUS QUESTION!
how would you try to get the person you have a crush on to like you back

1. try hard to make him fall in love, if not, theres more fish in the ocean!
2. [[hard]] well try the relationship but not end badly, and keep being friends after all
3. confess, lets see wat happens,, after all is only a boy....
bonus...being who you are, if he doesnt like you then... byebye!
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1) I'll stay friends with him It's okay if he won't love me back as long as he still cares for me (knowing that friends care for each other :P)
2) I won't take it seriously so that our friendship would last for long or maybe I'll just say I love him too, but as a FRIEND... so that his feelings won't be hurt
3) I'd better not confess It'll just make things a lot more complicated The both of us will somehow feel awkward being with one another once he finally knew that I like him

Bonus Question:

Stay natural. I won't act like I'm somebody else because eventually, I'lll get tired of being that 'somebody else' just because he likes me that way.. and the result: he won't love me anymore because the person he knew & loved was the fake me, not the real me...

The bottomline is...
Just show the real you and he'll love you for who you really are
Posted 3/22/09
I'll just sleep through the day.
Posted 3/22/09
Sorry but I don't really see the point of this thread.
If you break up the questions then they will have been covered by previous threads anyway. Just use the forum search to find them.

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