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How can you tell if its friendship or deep appreciation?(opposite sex)
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clearly i can't seem to understand the difference between an act of nice friendship and an act of love. In my area, women are another story. theres no such thing as confrontation for them or any clear signs. Its all in their actions and i'm not that great of an observer so influence me. Example: a girl compliements you for alot of things you do. Lover or friendship? (please do keep in mind that i refer to lover as a person who likes you and friendship to a person whose trying to just be nice)
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I'm starting to get confused, too. What is the difference between friendship and love?
You hear about so many people who start off as friends and than fall in love...I don't get it.

But my friend bought me things, but I just thought of it as an act of friendship. Those things being candy, soda, rings ect.

A guy got my friend a rose and some candy, which I guess was an act of love.

Just because someone compliements you, doesn't mean they're in love with you, but it's hard to tell what people are really trying to do.
Posted 3/24/09
Friends=Fucking ugly
Love=I'm next in line
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What are you talking about? Friendship Love and Romantic Love are different. Its not that complicated.
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It's truly how you look at the opposite sex.

If you want to bang her = no relationship.
Don't like her/him in that way = friendship.
You can't describe what you are feeling to the opposite sex = deep appreciation?

I have no clue—your question confuses me, I hope that helps.
Btw, those example are how I look at the opposite sex.
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i think friends ship and lovers are almost the same... cuz friendship is the start of the relationship... and love will soon end too friendship if he/she is not the one......^^
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well ........ friendship can turn out to love .... even 4 the same sex ^^ * blushes *
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Posted 3/24/09
it depends...
sometimes...y0u'LL think that it is just liking as a friend but the truth is that...you've never realized that you already love that person...
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Oh god. Another "how do I tell if the person likes me?!" thread.
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^ Not exactly. People's opinions and personal experiences will be shared it's a discussion.
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Mypinkyrulez wrote:

^ Not exactly. People's opinions and personal experiences will be shared it's a discussion.



clearly i can't seem to understand the difference between an act of nice friendship and an act of love. In my area, women are another story. theres no such thing as confrontation for them or any clear signs. Its all in their actions and i'm not that great of an observer so influence me. Example: a girl compliements you for alot of things you do. Lover or friendship? (please do keep in mind that i refer to lover as a person who likes you and friendship to a person whose trying to just be nice)

so this guy is just asking for help

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Mypinkyrulez wrote:

^ Not exactly. People's opinions and personal experiences will be shared it's a discussion.


Yeah. And you can also discuss your opinions and your personal experience in all the other "how can I tell if this person likes me or is just a friend?" threads.
These types of threads have been created so many times. It's all the same.
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Kippu wrote:


Mypinkyrulez wrote:

^ Not exactly. People's opinions and personal experiences will be shared it's a discussion.


Yeah. And you can also discuss your opinions and your personal experience in all the other "how can I tell if this person likes me or is just a friend?" threads.
These types of threads have been created so many times. It's all the same.


This was not directed towards you just in case you misunderstood. *Points to person above your orginal post.*
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Baka-Master wrote:


Mypinkyrulez wrote:

^ Not exactly. People's opinions and personal experiences will be shared it's a discussion.



clearly i can't seem to understand the difference between an act of nice friendship and an act of love. In my area, women are another story. theres no such thing as confrontation for them or any clear signs. Its all in their actions and i'm not that great of an observer so influence me. Example: a girl compliements you for alot of things you do. Lover or friendship? (please do keep in mind that i refer to lover as a person who likes you and friendship to a person whose trying to just be nice)

so this guy is just asking for help



Discussion worthy in my opinion. Oh well. I do see many of these threads up.
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