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ur chart is soooo confusing!!!
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MattChristy wrote:

Well technically your not related by blood, so I don't see the problem. A friend of mine had a similar problem. his dad got remarried and he ended up falling for his step sister. It didn't work out but they dated for quite a while behind their parents backs.
It's not your fault that your cousins ended up falling in love. Why should their love prevent you from having love? If you like her, go for it.


You can't marry your wife's relatives either when she passes away. that's the law in my country. it's an ancient roman law, but lately it has been kind of changed.

If you want to know whether you can marry her or not, you need to know how to calculate to what degree people are relatives to you. This is quite hard to calculate, and the way you calculate is different in countries all over the world. Espacially in Belgium we have this difficult roman/canononic system. I learned ghow to calculate this, but it's of no use because I don't know what system is used in the country you are from.

But even in the belgian suystem, or the ancient roman system you would not be related.


Belgium huh, I think here in the Netherlands it doesn't matter with who you're going to marry.





well you can't marry blood related family till a certain (high) degree, that's for sure. I don't know for in-laws though
Posted 3/29/09

willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:


willby wrote:


MattChristy wrote:

Well technically your not related by blood, so I don't see the problem. A friend of mine had a similar problem. his dad got remarried and he ended up falling for his step sister. It didn't work out but they dated for quite a while behind their parents backs.
It's not your fault that your cousins ended up falling in love. Why should their love prevent you from having love? If you like her, go for it.


You can't marry your wife's relatives either when she passes away. that's the law in my country. it's an ancient roman law, but lately it has been kind of changed.

If you want to know whether you can marry her or not, you need to know how to calculate to what degree people are relatives to you. This is quite hard to calculate, and the way you calculate is different in countries all over the world. Espacially in Belgium we have this difficult roman/canononic system. I learned ghow to calculate this, but it's of no use because I don't know what system is used in the country you are from.

But even in the belgian suystem, or the ancient roman system you would not be related.


Belgium huh, I think here in the Netherlands it doesn't matter with who you're going to marry.





well you can't marry blood related family till a certain (high) degree, that's for sure. I don't know for in-laws though


Hmm, I've heard if you got ''permission'' to ''marry'' (which isn't on topic) you can marry your own cousin, but marring your own sister is a different story.

Actually, I don't their point with it's against the ''nature''/god or what ever you want.
you can see gays everywhere marrying, people changing their gender yet is that not against the ''nature''.

The laws are contradicting their self.

even the Bible ish

>__>
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Posted 3/29/09

Baka-Master wrote:


willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:


willby wrote:


MattChristy wrote:

Well technically your not related by blood, so I don't see the problem. A friend of mine had a similar problem. his dad got remarried and he ended up falling for his step sister. It didn't work out but they dated for quite a while behind their parents backs.
It's not your fault that your cousins ended up falling in love. Why should their love prevent you from having love? If you like her, go for it.


You can't marry your wife's relatives either when she passes away. that's the law in my country. it's an ancient roman law, but lately it has been kind of changed.

If you want to know whether you can marry her or not, you need to know how to calculate to what degree people are relatives to you. This is quite hard to calculate, and the way you calculate is different in countries all over the world. Espacially in Belgium we have this difficult roman/canononic system. I learned ghow to calculate this, but it's of no use because I don't know what system is used in the country you are from.

But even in the belgian suystem, or the ancient roman system you would not be related.


Belgium huh, I think here in the Netherlands it doesn't matter with who you're going to marry.





well you can't marry blood related family till a certain (high) degree, that's for sure. I don't know for in-laws though


Hmm, I've heard if you got ''permission'' to ''marry'' (which isn't on topic) you can marry your own cousin, but marring your own sister is a different story.

Actually, I don't their point with it's against the ''nature''/god or what ever you want.
you can see gays everywhere marrying, people changing their gender yet is that not against the ''nature''.

The laws are contradicting their self.

even the Bible ish

>__>


Well you can't marry your own family because that's incest. in the past you also couldn't marry your in-laws because:
1) back in the old days you had to take revenge when someone hurt you or your family. But it was not done to take revenge on you own family. So the more families that became your relatives, the less killings there were.
2) back in those days everyone lived together. By forbidding to marry your in-laws, people were less likely to sleep with for instance the sister of their wife.
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I don't think it's incest,because were not blood relative only related by our cousins marriage.
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Incest is what I would call Bull shit XD

In my opinion ish that you can love and marry who you want, laws shouldn't intervene with ''love''
Just blame your bad taste for falling in love with your own family.

besides what you're talking about is the past not now, I don't really see people sleep with their husband/wife his/her sister/brother for revenge.

If they want revenge they could just rape them, why the impediment to ''marry'' for revenge. o.O

They should change the laws, or why the heck may people marry with their own gender, if you can't even love/marry your own sister/cousin or who ever it is from your own family.

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Just do her if your kids end up with defects then...
There's your answer


Um we are not related by blood just by marriage by our cousin. Is it okay to love a girl who's related to you by marriage by our cousin marriage?


theres like 50 bagillion girls in the world why would u have to pick this one..

u kno its just that u wanna do it so just do it


Dude it's by chances how the hell will I know?
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Incest is what I would call Bull shit XD

In my opinion ish that you can love and marry who you want, laws shouldn't intervene with ''love''
Just blame your bad taste for falling in love with your own family.

besides what you're talking about is the past not now, I don't really see people sleep with their husband/wife his/her sister/brother for revenge.

If they want revenge they could just rape them, why the impediment to ''marry'' for revenge. o.O

They should change the laws, or why the heck may people marry with their own gender, if you can't even love/marry your own sister/cousin or who ever it is from your own family.



EDIT: you don't seem to understand it. You don't take blood revenge on your own family. that was the rule. people who did, went to hell. So the more families became related to you, the less likely you where killing someone on the street because the more likely they were related to you.

As for the "rape" thing, you are nuts

Well maybe you should realise that after all mariage is about having kids and incest kids = genetic mutation



snuckles108 wrote:

I don't think it's incest,because were not blood relative only related by our cousins marriage.


that's what i am saying

Posted 3/29/09

willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:



Incest is what I would call Bull shit XD

In my opinion ish that you can love and marry who you want, laws shouldn't intervene with ''love''
Just blame your bad taste for falling in love with your own family.

besides what you're talking about is the past not now, I don't really see people sleep with their husband/wife his/her sister/brother for revenge.

If they want revenge they could just rape them, why the impediment to ''marry'' for revenge. o.O

They should change the laws, or why the heck may people marry with their own gender, if you can't even love/marry your own sister/cousin or who ever it is from your own family.



Well maybe you should realise that after all mariage is about having kids and incest kids = genetic mutation



snuckles108 wrote:

I don't think it's incest,because were not blood relative only related by our cousins marriage.


that's what i am saying



Genetic or not, laws shouldn't intervene with ''love'', that was the only thing i wanted to point out, no need to go that far =P

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Baka-Master wrote:


willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:



Incest is what I would call Bull shit XD

In my opinion ish that you can love and marry who you want, laws shouldn't intervene with ''love''
Just blame your bad taste for falling in love with your own family.

besides what you're talking about is the past not now, I don't really see people sleep with their husband/wife his/her sister/brother for revenge.

If they want revenge they could just rape them, why the impediment to ''marry'' for revenge. o.O

They should change the laws, or why the heck may people marry with their own gender, if you can't even love/marry your own sister/cousin or who ever it is from your own family.



Well maybe you should realise that after all mariage is about having kids and incest kids = genetic mutation



snuckles108 wrote:

I don't think it's incest,because were not blood relative only related by our cousins marriage.


that's what i am saying



Genetic or not, laws shouldn't intervene with ''love'', that was the only thing i wanted to point out, no need to go that far =P



i don't agree. laws have to be reasonable because some people aren't ...
Posted 3/29/09


Those ''some people'' you're talking about are just a few people in the whole world, my friend.

and indeed laws have to be reasonable, but I don't really see the point of ''that law''
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Those ''some people'' you're talking about are just a few people in the whole world, my friend.

and indeed laws have to be reasonable, but I don't really see the point of ''that law''


if you don't see the point of that law you are not reasonable. luckily the law is.
Posted 3/29/09

willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:



Those ''some people'' you're talking about are just a few people in the whole world, my friend.

and indeed laws have to be reasonable, but I don't really see the point of ''that law''


if you don't see the point of that law you are not reasonable. luckily the law is.



And care to tell me why it is ''reasonable'' so I can become ''reasonable'' aswell


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Posted 3/29/09 , edited 3/29/09

Baka-Master wrote:


willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:



Those ''some people'' you're talking about are just a few people in the whole world, my friend.

and indeed laws have to be reasonable, but I don't really see the point of ''that law''


if you don't see the point of that law you are not reasonable. luckily the law is.



And care to tell me why it is ''reasonable'' so I can become ''reasonable'' aswell




to All people who read this: can you believe I need to convince someone that incest is bad??
Posted 3/29/09

willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:


willby wrote:


Baka-Master wrote:



Those ''some people'' you're talking about are just a few people in the whole world, my friend.

and indeed laws have to be reasonable, but I don't really see the point of ''that law''


if you don't see the point of that law you are not reasonable. luckily the law is.



And care to tell me why it is ''reasonable'' so I can become ''reasonable'' aswell




to All people who read this: can you believe I need to convince someone that incest is bad??


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