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why do we feel sorry for the other man in a man-woman-man love triangle?
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mostly, we feel sorry for the other guy, but we don't feel sorry for the other girl.
in almost all dramas the main actor would have someone who loves him and the main actress would have a lover/secret lover.
but we mostly feel sorry for the other guy and not the other girl.
tsk.. tsk.. tsk..
do you agree? or disagree?
what's your opinion?
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i don't feel sorry 4 da guy
ewww...never
i feel sorry 4 da girl...
she is da victim...
i say the guy should die...
just like in school days..
haha xD

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nissikisses wrote:

mostly, we feel sorry for the other guy, but we don't feel sorry for the other girl.
in almost all dramas the main actor would have someone who loves him and the main actress would have a lover/secret lover.
but we mostly feel sorry for the other guy and not the other girl.
tsk.. tsk.. tsk..
do you agree? or disagree?
what's your opinion?




this is too easy to even think about:

the other guy is always portrayed as nicer than the lead guy. he always puts the girls feelings ahead of his own.. and is basically selfless.

the other girl is always portrayed as meaner than hte lead girl. she always puts herself before the guy she likes (like doesnt consider his feelings)... and is basically selfish.

i have seen some dramas in which i like the second girl if she acts like the usual second guy (as mentioned above) like in HYD where shizuka? breaks up with domiyoji cuz she thinks its best for him. so basically...

wen the script writers write these 2nd girl/guy they make their character one that we either like or hate... like in goong.. hyorin waas a MAJOR biiiiiiiiiaaaa becasue she was selfish thruout and didnt think about shin's feelings at all and how shin liked CG. but yul was always there for CG whenever shin cheated on her, etc.


u get what im saying>?
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Posted 5/2/09
of course.....
they don't get the girl they want
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shams025 wrote:


nissikisses wrote:

mostly, we feel sorry for the other guy, but we don't feel sorry for the other girl.
in almost all dramas the main actor would have someone who loves him and the main actress would have a lover/secret lover.
but we mostly feel sorry for the other guy and not the other girl.
tsk.. tsk.. tsk..
do you agree? or disagree?
what's your opinion?




this is too easy to even think about:

the other guy is always portrayed as nicer than the lead guy. he always puts the girls feelings ahead of his own.. and is basically selfless.

the other girl is always portrayed as meaner than hte lead girl. she always puts herself before the guy she likes (like doesnt consider his feelings)... and is basically selfish.

i have seen some dramas in which i like the second girl if she acts like the usual second guy (as mentioned above) like in HYD where shizuka? breaks up with domiyoji cuz she thinks its best for him. so basically...

wen the script writers write these 2nd girl/guy they make their character one that we either like or hate... like in goong.. hyorin waas a MAJOR biiiiiiiiiaaaa becasue she was selfish thruout and didnt think about shin's feelings at all and how shin liked CG. but yul was always there for CG whenever shin cheated on her, etc.


u get what im saying>?



uhuh, most of the times the other girl is portrayed as a meaan bia***, like in fated to love you, the other girl is the reason why the lead girl's baby died.
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shams025 wrote:


nissikisses wrote:

mostly, we feel sorry for the other guy, but we don't feel sorry for the other girl.
in almost all dramas the main actor would have someone who loves him and the main actress would have a lover/secret lover.
but we mostly feel sorry for the other guy and not the other girl.
tsk.. tsk.. tsk..
do you agree? or disagree?
what's your opinion?




this is too easy to even think about:

the other guy is always portrayed as nicer than the lead guy. he always puts the girls feelings ahead of his own.. and is basically selfless.

the other girl is always portrayed as meaner than hte lead girl. she always puts herself before the guy she likes (like doesnt consider his feelings)... and is basically selfish.

i have seen some dramas in which i like the second girl if she acts like the usual second guy (as mentioned above) like in HYD where shizuka? breaks up with domiyoji cuz she thinks its best for him. so basically...

wen the script writers write these 2nd girl/guy they make their character one that we either like or hate... like in goong.. hyorin waas a MAJOR biiiiiiiiiaaaa becasue she was selfish thruout and didnt think about shin's feelings at all and how shin liked CG. but yul was always there for CG whenever shin cheated on her, etc.


u get what im saying>?





I agree with you, that is exactly why we usualy feel sorry for the other guy but not the other girl
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Posted 5/2/09

hamstie wrote:

of course.....
they don't get the girl they want


hahaha, but the girl doesn't get the guy that she loves?
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mailine wrote:

i don't feel sorry 4 da guy
ewww...never
i feel sorry 4 da girl...
she is da victim...
i say the guy should die...
just like in school days..
haha xD



but what if the girl isn't the victim?
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My opinion is if I think too much of this love triangle.
It's going to hurt my brain >_<;
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Heh, i been in that situation, and it almost caused me to lose one of my best friends! And wierdly, i felt more sorry for Her. She was torn between two guys. Show was engaged to one, and loved him to death, he brought her out of her lonliness. but she also loved me, i made her laugh and gave her all my attention. In the end, i backed off. He got to her first, and i didnt want to lose him as a friend. Heh, as hard as it was for me and my friend, SHE was the one who was torn in two, not knowing what to do ........So, my point is that that girl can be in the worst position
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I dont feel sorry for the other man...I just felt sorry for Nakatsu ( Ikuta Toma ) in Hana Kimi...And you ask why? I think it was becauce he wasnt like the other mans in other series who are stalker of the girl or who have mental problems....Nakatsu was just like: I love her but when she loves Sano ( Oguri Shun ) , then its okay for me because I want her to be happy.
And thats a great Attitude!
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mailine wrote:

i don't feel sorry 4 da guy
ewww...never
i feel sorry 4 da girl...
she is da victim...
i say the guy should die...
just like in school days..
haha xD



oh come on, why you got to say a spoiler like that about School days??? I been meaning to watch that! ..........sigh, i hope yer breath smells horrible tomorrow and everyone avoids you..................
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i feel sorry for nakatsu in hana kimi..
cause when he's sad and jealous of sano..he loses his comical sense..(and those parts are the draggy parts of hanakimi)
IRL..i feel sorry for a guy friend of mine---he likes this certain girl-does everything for the girl-loves too much the girl-yet in the end the girl didnt choose him...what a pity
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I never feel sorry for people in dramas.
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uhmmm... yup...


but... its up to the girl... whom she should fell to...

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