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why do we feel sorry for the other man in a man-woman-man love triangle?
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Posted 5/2/09

jvz05 wrote:

I never feel sorry for people in dramas.


how mean.. hahaha.. peace
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garcon wrote:

i feel sorry for nakatsu in hana kimi..
cause when he's sad and jealous of sano..he loses his comical sense..(and those parts are the draggy parts of hanakimi)
IRL..i feel sorry for a guy friend of mine---he likes this certain girl-does everything for the girl-loves too much the girl-yet in the end the girl didnt choose him...what a pity


hey, i feel sorry for nakatsu.
but i think he's not the only 'other guy' who touched our hearts.
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It usually has to do with how the 2nd girl is made out to be, if she is selfish and mean then of course we are not going to like her. In most 2nd lead guy roles, they are unbelieveable sweet and kind, considerate of the main girl feelings that u cant help ur self and feel sorry for him.
Posted 5/2/09

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nissikisses wrote:

mostly, we feel sorry for the other guy, but we don't feel sorry for the other girl.
in almost all dramas the main actor would have someone who loves him and the main actress would have a lover/secret lover.
but we mostly feel sorry for the other guy and not the other girl.
tsk.. tsk.. tsk..
do you agree? or disagree?
what's your opinion?




this is too easy to even think about:

the other guy is always portrayed as nicer than the lead guy. he always puts the girls feelings ahead of his own.. and is basically selfless.

the other girl is always portrayed as meaner than hte lead girl. she always puts herself before the guy she likes (like doesnt consider his feelings)... and is basically selfish.

i have seen some dramas in which i like the second girl if she acts like the usual second guy (as mentioned above) like in HYD where shizuka? breaks up with domiyoji cuz she thinks its best for him. so basically...

wen the script writers write these 2nd girl/guy they make their character one that we either like or hate... like in goong.. hyorin waas a MAJOR biiiiiiiiiaaaa becasue she was selfish thruout and didnt think about shin's feelings at all and how shin liked CG. but yul was always there for CG whenever shin cheated on her, etc.


u get what im saying>?


Well, that pretty much sums it up. Also in Goong, when Yul Goon started to get a bit obsessed and selfish, I noticed that I started disliking him until he turned selfless again.
Posted 5/2/09

mailine wrote:

i don't feel sorry 4 da guy
ewww...never
i feel sorry 4 da girl...
she is da victim...
i say the guy should die...
just like in school days..
haha xD



I'm totally agree with u buddy!
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mailine wrote:

i don't feel sorry 4 da guy
ewww...never
i feel sorry 4 da girl...
she is da victim...
i say the guy should die...
just like in school days..
haha xD



I'm totally agree with u buddy!


haha xD


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mailine wrote:

i don't feel sorry 4 da guy
ewww...never
i feel sorry 4 da girl...
she is da victim...
i say the guy should die...
just like in school days..
haha xD



oh come on, why you got to say a spoiler like that about School days??? I been meaning to watch that! ..........sigh, i hope yer breath smells horrible tomorrow and everyone avoids you.................. :P


it's just my opinion duhh? and if u want to watch it no one is going 2 stop u T_T


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mailine wrote:

i don't feel sorry 4 da guy
ewww...never
i feel sorry 4 da girl...
she is da victim...
i say the guy should die...
just like in school days..
haha xD



but what if the girl isn't the victim?


hmm...MAYBE i'll feel sorry 4 da
guy 2



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cause the girl goes for the bad boy and leave the good boy alone
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wen there is a love triangle with boy 1 loves girl loves boy 2 and vice versa
i do feel soz for boy 1 because usually in dramas boy1 is always nicer towards girl
than boy 2 even if they both love the girl same amount

but i hav to say that none of u hav ever felt soz for any boy 1 ever unless u hav watchd 'the rose'
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shams025 wrote:


nissikisses wrote:

mostly, we feel sorry for the other guy, but we don't feel sorry for the other girl.
in almost all dramas the main actor would have someone who loves him and the main actress would have a lover/secret lover.
but we mostly feel sorry for the other guy and not the other girl.
tsk.. tsk.. tsk..
do you agree? or disagree?
what's your opinion?




this is too easy to even think about:

the other guy is always portrayed as nicer than the lead guy. he always puts the girls feelings ahead of his own.. and is basically selfless.

the other girl is always portrayed as meaner than hte lead girl. she always puts herself before the guy she likes (like doesnt consider his feelings)... and is basically selfish.

i have seen some dramas in which i like the second girl if she acts like the usual second guy (as mentioned above) like in HYD where shizuka? breaks up with domiyoji cuz she thinks its best for him. so basically...

wen the script writers write these 2nd girl/guy they make their character one that we either like or hate... like in goong.. hyorin waas a MAJOR biiiiiiiiiaaaa becasue she was selfish thruout and didnt think about shin's feelings at all and how shin liked CG. but yul was always there for CG whenever shin cheated on her, etc.


u get what im saying>?

I totally agree with that like basically in, It started with a kiss is a very good example of that kind of thing. (in my opinion)
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piggyinthemiddle wrote:

wen there is a love triangle with boy 1 loves girl loves boy 2 and vice versa
i do feel soz for boy 1 because usually in dramas boy1 is always nicer towards girl
than boy 2 even if they both love the girl same amount

but i hav to say that none of u hav ever felt soz for any boy 1 ever unless u hav watchd 'the rose'


gotta agree.
i feel very sorry for jiro in ISWAK.
the scene when he proposed made me cry. (there's no smiley who's crying..)
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quiet_pple wrote:

cause the girl goes for the bad boy and leave the good boy alone


maybe because opposites attract?
sometimes nice girls always don't go to nice boys.
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Soyfood wrote:


shams025 wrote:


nissikisses wrote:

mostly, we feel sorry for the other guy, but we don't feel sorry for the other girl.
in almost all dramas the main actor would have someone who loves him and the main actress would have a lover/secret lover.
but we mostly feel sorry for the other guy and not the other girl.
tsk.. tsk.. tsk..
do you agree? or disagree?
what's your opinion?




this is too easy to even think about:

the other guy is always portrayed as nicer than the lead guy. he always puts the girls feelings ahead of his own.. and is basically selfless.

the other girl is always portrayed as meaner than hte lead girl. she always puts herself before the guy she likes (like doesnt consider his feelings)... and is basically selfish.

i have seen some dramas in which i like the second girl if she acts like the usual second guy (as mentioned above) like in HYD where shizuka? breaks up with domiyoji cuz she thinks its best for him. so basically...

wen the script writers write these 2nd girl/guy they make their character one that we either like or hate... like in goong.. hyorin waas a MAJOR biiiiiiiiiaaaa becasue she was selfish thruout and didnt think about shin's feelings at all and how shin liked CG. but yul was always there for CG whenever shin cheated on her, etc.


u get what im saying>?

I totally agree with that like basically in, It started with a kiss is a very good example of that kind of thing. (in my opinion)



gotta agree.
i feel very sorry for jiro in ISWAK.
the scene when he proposed made me cry. Image (there's no smiley who's crying..)
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Posted 5/5/09

nissikisses wrote:


piggyinthemiddle wrote:

wen there is a love triangle with boy 1 loves girl loves boy 2 and vice versa
i do feel soz for boy 1 because usually in dramas boy1 is always nicer towards girl
than boy 2 even if they both love the girl same amount

but i hav to say that none of u hav ever felt soz for any boy 1 ever unless u hav watchd 'the rose'


gotta agree.
i feel very sorry for jiro in ISWAK.
the scene when he proposed made me cry. (there's no smiley who's crying..)


have u ever watched the drama "THE ROSE"? it also stars joe cheng
it was first eva drama to make me cry
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