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Posted 5/15/07
I was just curious if anybody here has the culture of "arrange marriage..." anyway..what do you think about arrange marriage? Would you agree if you were to be arrange with someone? Any opinions about arrange marriage?
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my opion about this is easy, where i life its not be a part of ower life any more.
but in the past it wass, but there are other culture its normal.
but its not my place to say its not normal any more.
i do not aprove arrange marriage but in some culture its normal.
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i dont know.. after watching soo many movies and reading fanfics about arranged marriages.. hahahaha it doesn't seem as bad as people say it is. lol. well that is, in all those movies, the people arranged to be married eventually falls in love with each other. GOONG for example. but i don't know... those ARE just dramas/movies made for entertainment purposes. if my marriage was arranged.. i dont know, i guess i would be alright with it as long as the dude isn't like.. really old or super young. and of course if HE is alright with it. i cant be arranged to marry someone who is completely against marrying me.
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arrange marriage!!??
well i think if the guy is worth to be your husband it's okey but i don't think it works on other people who already have someone who love!

maybe it's okey for me!! no we don't have that culture in our family!!
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well..honestly speaking...we have this kind of culture....some told me it was old fashioned...and i honestly didn't want to tell you guys about it...i was afraid of what you might say...well..nwei...

for me arrange marriage is a good thing..lol..because i don't have to think about lovelife and all those stuffs...coz i know the time will come...about the guy being too young and too old..i think my parents wouldn't make me marry someone who's too young for me or too old...^____^ they know my type so i don't have to worry..about the people who have someone they love already..well..that's why we are restricted to fall in love..but its ok...^_____^
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well!!
in the philippines now??
we have freedom not like at the past!
^^do live in some kind tribes something like cordillera??
well yah! arrange marriage is fine but the thing is if you and your husband will get along...maybe some don't.. but maybe it's kinda useful!
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the reason why i do not aprove is bequise it also normal in my mothers cultere, and i had 1 when i wass 18.
but that wass also for my self my day of my sex chance, so inplace o that that girl wass going mary a man she got a woman.
that wass the last day i saw my mother.
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If you're a loser and nobody likes you, then arranged marriage is a good thing! .... just not for the other person
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stupid!!^^
how come somebody marries you if nobody really likes you..then they'll just leave you afterall!!(sorry kurropt it's just my opinion!! )...

some really force they're children to marry someone but if you don't like someone and your okey about the guy your parents choose then go for it!
but if you don't like that guy your parents choose for you then go away and find the man of your dreams!!
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Posted 5/15/07

KuRRopT wrote:

If you're a loser and nobody likes you, then arranged marriage is a good thing! .... just not for the other person


waaaa...that was kindda mean..but i respect your opinion about it...
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wahh? wat did i say wrong?!

I'm just saying if you can't get anyone... and ur forced into marriage... isn't that good for you ey?
yes? no? maybe? I don't know?
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but you said it in a bad way!! so my interpretation was in a bad way too!!
just say it directly and straight to the point!!
well sorry!! hehe...
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@ KuRRopt: oh..im sorry for the wrong interpretation...

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I don't have a problem with an arranged marriage. I mean make sure you don't confuse arranged with forced. Because these are two separate entitys.

Arranged is essentially a dating agency with your parents, uncles, aunts etc as the match makers. The idea behind it is that while you are young, you don't really know what you want in a partner (except for good looks ) Where as your parents should know. So the parents suggest people from the community that they know should be compatible with you. You then say if ur interested and if u want to take it further, and then meet with the potential partner and his or her parents and family. Then if both parties say yes, the marriage can go ahead.

Don't forget that marriage is always going to be a difficult think, and whether you have a 'love' marriage or an arranged. You still won't necessaly get the happy ending. Who ever you marry will require constant compromise, sacrifice and endless patience. Thats why i dont intend to get married. I'm too selfish
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If that person is a creature out of this world, then yes, it could be a lucky thing.
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