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Arranged Marriage
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26 / F / california.
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Posted 6/3/07
it would be really sad. i heard about my mom asking me about that.
and i really thought that she was gonna make me get one.
but i would've killed myself if that happened. i can't force myself to love someone.
it would be really hard.
Posted 6/3/07
I think it's dumb.
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46 / france
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Posted 6/3/07
only when you have no other choice otherwise no
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22 / M / Cliff of Hope
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Posted 6/3/07
it suck i'll be really piss if that happen to me
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22 / M / Cliff of Hope
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Posted 6/3/07
and i'll beat who ever arrange that up
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Posted 6/3/07
It's really stupid. I would rather be alone for 10 years than have that happen to me.
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31 / F / missouri
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Posted 6/3/07
i don't know it could be a good thing if the other person treats you right, but if they beat you or something your parents won't try to get you out of it.
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F / Chicago, IL
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Posted 6/3/07
i don't think there is anything wrong with arranged marriages. some people marriage out of love, some people marry for other reasons (as long as the arrangement isn't forced between the two people).
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29 / F / MINNESOTA
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Posted 6/3/07
how about my culture where..if the guy really wants you, he can kidnap you!! Then you have to be married cuz he kidnapped you overnight! Since you spent the night (even if you did nothing) you have to get married or else everyone will think your a whore.
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22 / F / New Jersey
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Posted 6/3/07
My opinion is that it's really unfair, especially if you don't know that person. Marriage should be for love, not a set-up.
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31 / F / missouri
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Posted 6/3/07
what culture is that? i have never heard that before...
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F / Chicago, IL
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Posted 6/3/07

ynaomiy wrote:

how about my culture where..if the guy really wants you, he can kidnap you!! Then you have to be married cuz he kidnapped you overnight! Since you spent the night (even if you did nothing) you have to get married or else everyone will think your a whore.


hahaha. you got jokes.

Posted 6/3/07
its illegal in the US
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29 / F / MINNESOTA
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Posted 6/3/07

becky124 wrote:

what culture is that? i have never heard that before...



I'm Hmong. It's true, people still do it today. Sure, you can fight back...but then you'll be considered a whore and be shunned. Men do this to women and the men will ask their own brothers, uncles and other family members to help kidnap the girl.
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^ i have heard mongolians have a similar tradition
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