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Open Relationships
Posted 5/13/09 , edited 5/13/09


Question:

Would you or would you not agree with your partner when he/she offers you an open relationship? If yes state your reason why and discuss some things you would like to be on your agreement (ex. no kissing, no touchin, no rubbing, no sex , etc...) that concerns with the persons outside your relationship.

Definition 1

An open relationship is a relationship where one person does not own the other. The couple are not exclusively seeing each other and can date, flirt and hook up with other people should they wish to do so. In a true open relationship the couple will be fully honest with each other (unlike most regular relationships). They will not get pissed at each other for stupid things such as not ringing the day before, wearing a slutty top, passing out cold in a club, kissing that lesbian in the lift. Infact they will just love each other for who they are and support each other through times of need. Although other people will say they are sluts and it will never work, they onlys say this because they are jealous. In the end the couple will get bored of seeing other people because they realise they are the best two out there. Then they get married and have beautiful children.


Definition 2

is when a couple has decided to see other people but still keep the relationship that they have and still have the same feeling that they had befor. it takes two very mature people to let you patner see someone else


Definition 3

A relationship in which two people agree that they want to be together, but can't exactly promise that they won't see other people too. Basically, to have it all: a significant other and the freedom to hook up with other people. Common during college for many post-high school relationships.


source:
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=open%20relationship


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Posted 5/13/09
It's either we're friends or we're in a relationship.

p.s open relationship is crap. this is my opinion too. and plus, open relationships confuse me. lol
Posted 5/13/09
I dont like it...
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Posted 5/13/09
No way. IMO there is no such thing as an "open relationship".

You are either friends with benefits, or you are dating. You can't have both.
Posted 5/13/09
^ i agree
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Call me a controlling misandrist, but I fantasize about a bunch of bunch of guys who are committed to me, but I can go to and fro from.
Like a "Harem" of sorts.

Which means I'm more into polygamy than openess. I want to date multiple guys at once.
Guys who will only date and love me.
Posted 5/13/09
i don't like it...

in a relationship, i don't want to come in second...
either, we're lovers or just friends >.>

Posted 5/13/09
No. Open Relationship is just another fancy word for "just friends"


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Posted 5/13/09
I like it, but it will never work unless you find the right partner, and you yourself are in the right mindset.

So you start out in that open relationship, thinking it will be badass (Oh hells yes, i'm going to fuck me some girls, and my girlfriend won't even care!).. So you go do that, and while you do that your girlfriend is hooking up with some guy. Cool, you got what you wanted, to get laid by another girl to switch things up, and your girlfriend and you tell each other about your night. She says "He was better at kissing than you" .. you get jealous and mad but brush it off. You go fuck 10 girls in revenge for her saying that and come back to her saying "I just fucked 2 girls, and both of them were a better fuck." Then your girlfriend goes out and fucks 3 guys, and does the same thing "I just fucked 3 guys, and all of their cocks were bigger." .. It's a maturity issue. It will fail unless both sides are completely sure that they know what they're getting into, how to handle the situation, and most of all, not get jealous. If i could find the right partner, i would do it, but i never will. Because humans are naturally jealous.
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Posted 5/13/09
Friends w/ benefits .
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Posted 5/13/09 , edited 8/7/09
Sounds like a disaster to me. O_O
What if you end up getting aids/HIV or something since your boyfriend is free to fuck other girls all he wants?
I agree with spensaur's post. But would never do it. Plus I'm not into the whole cheating thing. And even though in open relationships it's allowed and isn't considered cheating. It would still eat me alive.

edit:
We're talking about actual relationships, right?
Not friends with benefits kind of thing..right?
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Posted 5/13/09
hell no...i would never agree to such a thing...if u like someone enough to be in a relationship wih them then u wouldnt wanna see them with other ppl...friends with benefits is okay
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Posted 5/13/09

Ukonkivi wrote:

Call me a controlling misandrist, but I fantasize about a bunch of bunch of guys who are committed to me, but I can go to and fro from.
Like a "Harem" of sorts.

Which means I'm more into polygamy than openess. I want to date multiple guys at once.
Guys who will only date and love me.


Ngl, that'd be awesome.
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Posted 5/13/09
no, solely for the fact that i dont wanna catch some other assholes herp.
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Posted 5/13/09
Open relationship?...
oooh you mean sex with no strings attached lol

Seriously, who thinks up these things? Open relationships? come on...
If you really like a person, you shouldn't be feeling like dating someone else...
Unless you are not ready to commit and wants to date around.
In that case, just get a friend with benefits...

contrary to what you say, it DOESN'T take 'two very mature people' for an open relationship;
It just takes two confused horny teenagers who want to sleep around or try 'new things'.
If you're really that mature, you'd know what commitment is.
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