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Why is it that some people just cant fit in?
Posted 6/11/09

Machina_God wrote:

wonkywilla wrote:
Quit over analyzing yourself and just have fun.

huh? what that mean o.o


it means you're thinking about it too much
you don't fit in because you are withdrawing from people.
"blacks" are all gangstas and thugs ...so you stay away from them
"whites" are distrusted by your family ...so you stay away from them
"asians" are all too cool, and you'd just come off as a weeaboo to them ...so you stay away from them.
(hint: that probably means that you -are- a bit of a weeaboo. but whatever, everyone gets a bit fascinated when they are introduced to a completely different culture. just get used to it, and don'tthink of it as "impossibly amazing", and the shine (and weeaboo) wears off. ANYWAYS...)

so, do you notice the common trait there? "...so you stay away from them"
same thing applies to preps, goths, punks, etc etc etc.
any -group- you judge (which is what you're doing) AS a group.. will always have things about you that don't fit.
look at people, instead. approach them instead. "hi i'm jamal. that's a pretty cool [whatever] you got." doesn't get too much simpler than that.

and if you can't find people to go out and meet... have them come to you. see waht it would take to start an anime club at your school. or see if someone else already started one.

it isn't about groups. it's about stepping up and taking the risk to meet people.

also, after looking at your profile, you might need to lay off the "thug" attitude yourself. check your speech and grammar, put your hat on straight. it might look cool if you're a big name rapper, but it looks like a bad case of posing when you see a teenage kid trying ot act all "hard" like that. then again.. *looks at the banana-yellow pants i'm wearing* maybe i ain't no fashion prince either? hahaha
Posted 6/11/09 , edited 6/11/09

tzxazrael wrote:


Machina_God wrote:

wonkywilla wrote:
Quit over analyzing yourself and just have fun.

huh? what that mean o.o


it means you're thinking about it too much
you don't fit in because you are withdrawing from people.
"blacks" are all gangstas and thugs ...so you stay away from them
"whites" are distrusted by your family ...so you stay away from them
"asians" are all too cool, and you'd just come off as a weeaboo to them ...so you stay away from them.
(hint: that probably means that you -are- a bit of a weeaboo. but whatever, everyone gets a bit fascinated when they are introduced to a completely different culture. just get used to it, and don'tthink of it as "impossibly amazing", and the shine (and weeaboo) wears off. ANYWAYS...)

so, do you notice the common trait there? "...so you stay away from them"
same thing applies to preps, goths, punks, etc etc etc.
any -group- you judge (which is what you're doing) AS a group.. will always have things about you that don't fit.
look at people, instead. approach them instead. "hi i'm jamal. that's a pretty cool [whatever] you got." doesn't get too much simpler than that.

and if you can't find people to go out and meet... have them come to you. see waht it would take to start an anime club at your school. or see if someone else already started one.

it isn't about groups. it's about stepping up and taking the risk to meet people.

also, after looking at your profile, you might need to lay off the "thug" attitude yourself. check your speech and grammar, put your hat on straight. it might look cool if you're a big name rapper, but it looks like a bad case of posing when you see a teenage kid trying ot act all "hard" like that. then again.. *looks at the banana-yellow pants i'm wearing* maybe i ain't no fashion prince either? hahaha


lol haha xD okay advice taken

lol you said i had a thug atitude lol xD my atitude is far from it xD
Posted 6/11/09

Baka-God wrote:

I wonder; do you actually have friends?


really only one
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Posted 6/12/09

Machina_God wrote:


Baka-God wrote:

I wonder; do you actually have friends?


really only one


Is it your mom? Or you don't fit in your family too?
Posted 6/12/09

Machina_God wrote:

Well?
I dont know whats pocessing me to do so... but ill use myself as an example although i fear someones gonna call me an emo but anywho =O....

well ive tried fitting, be something im not just to reamin in a group, hell ive tried being myself but at last that failed epically.EPICALLY!!!! XO
ive pretty much been through ever race and or group.
Race

Blacks- i dont like rap or being around fake thugs/wannabe rappers and using the term bitch as describing women or saying the n word to describe my freinds however nerdy that may be
whites- my family isnt racist..... its just that they wont trust them =O and tbh im a little catious being around them.
asains- i really think they see me and see nothing..... maybe they think just because i watch alot anime and listening to japaneese music im a weaboo or somfing =O
hispanics/latinos- hmm tricky some like me some cant stand me.
Groups
prep- im way to quiet to be prepy and i tend to think deeper then what some can offer me.
jocks- im like a nerd so you can imagine how that went over (complete self-esteem shattered)
punks- yeah mosh pit arent my cup of tea
goth- ummm yeah a little creepy o.o i dont feel like joining a damn cult =O
emo- ugh omg these people are so damn annoying i think i hate them more than any other group, theyre rejects, way too into twighlight or as i like it worst book and movie of the century i mean get a damn life ure not a vampire, they self-proclaimed atheist and always talking about some conspiracy theorys <.<...stfu and gtfo with that dumb shit....

*sighs* so as you can see my ideas and personality is too different to be placed in a group or unfortunatly my own race =/

i think u should go out more
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Posted 6/12/09
Race and stereotype have little to do with who I'm friends with.
I have Asian friends, black friends, white friends and Mexican friends.
I have "emo" friends, VK friends, preppy friends, theater people, and people who just don't fit in anywhere else.

Your version of emo is massive failure, just saying. Preppy girls like Twilight more than emos do (as far as I've seen).
Posted 6/12/09
It's either they're not friendly or just wan to be alone.
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Posted 6/12/09
because they stand out.
Posted 6/12/09
i didnt read it all.
but, btw, you cant be a weebo.

your black.
haha.
i'm not racist...but its true.
lols.

your way overthinking this though.
just find something your comfortable with, and stick with it.
:D
Posted 6/12/09

Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Baka-God wrote:

I wonder; do you actually have friends?


really only one


Is it your mom? Or you don't fit in your family too?


no xD hes from my old school. and i appreciate if you didnt make me out to be a complete loser
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Posted 6/12/09 , edited 6/12/09
go on www.4chan.org head over to the random board and then you will start to feel apart of something.

you could just be the typical loner stereotype nerdy guy. I see that you have not tried to hang out with fellow nerds either. Stop reaching above your station.

btw I am the loner guy.
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Posted 6/12/09

Machina_God wrote:


Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Baka-God wrote:

I wonder; do you actually have friends?


really only one


Is it your mom? Or you don't fit in your family too?


no xD hes from my old school. and i appreciate if you didnt make me out to be a complete loser


Then what is your problem? You have a family that loves you,a true good friend...There's nothing to complain about, just treausre the things you have instead of wanting something else.
PLUS: stop making threads such as these. Nobody really cares if you're miserable so you might as well be happy
Best of luck to you. Cheers
Posted 6/12/09

Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Baka-God wrote:

I wonder; do you actually have friends?


really only one


Is it your mom? Or you don't fit in your family too?


no xD hes from my old school. and i appreciate if you didnt make me out to be a complete loser


Then what is your problem? You have a family that loves you,a true good friend...There's nothing to complain about, just treausre the things you have instead of wanting something else.
PLUS: stop making threads such as these. Nobody really cares if you're miserable so you might as well be happy
Best of luck to you. Cheers


lol im not miserable xP ... i just wanna know
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Posted 6/12/09

Machina_God wrote:


Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Baka-God wrote:

I wonder; do you actually have friends?


really only one


Is it your mom? Or you don't fit in your family too?


no xD hes from my old school. and i appreciate if you didnt make me out to be a complete loser


Then what is your problem? You have a family that loves you,a true good friend...There's nothing to complain about, just treausre the things you have instead of wanting something else.
PLUS: stop making threads such as these. Nobody really cares if you're miserable so you might as well be happy
Best of luck to you. Cheers


lol im not miserable xP ... i just wanna know


To know that you are actually miserable or bored out of your mind since you bothered making such a thread?
Posted 6/12/09

Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Stef wrote:


Machina_God wrote:


Baka-God wrote:

I wonder; do you actually have friends?


really only one


Is it your mom? Or you don't fit in your family too?


no xD hes from my old school. and i appreciate if you didnt make me out to be a complete loser


Then what is your problem? You have a family that loves you,a true good friend...There's nothing to complain about, just treausre the things you have instead of wanting something else.
PLUS: stop making threads such as these. Nobody really cares if you're miserable so you might as well be happy
Best of luck to you. Cheers


lol im not miserable xP ... i just wanna know


To know that you are actually miserable or bored out of your mind since you bothered making such a thread?


lol xD nevermind then
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