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Older sibling dating your friend.What will you do?
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Posted 1/28/10
thta happened to me and i was just like ok thats gross, and i wanted them to break up really bad but i didnt pressure them into breaking up er anything, i just lived through it even though iwill admit i was relieved when they did break up
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Posted 1/28/10
It would depend on which friend
Posted 1/28/10
We don't do that me and brothers and sister. Don't care what. Because it cause problems between family and if my friend can't expect that we can't be friends.
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19 / M / Clouds
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Posted 1/28/10
That'd be awkward,
but my brother don't plan on dating,
and I am friends with a lot of girls..
but I'm mean to them. : d
Soo I dunno what that means.
Posted 1/28/10
that would actually be so awkward..... i mean lyk, well..... its just gonna be weird!!!
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22 / M / Calibaby.........
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Posted 1/28/10
Leave them alone lol..
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Posted 1/28/10
I feel kind of bad for you...but like all this great responses...you should get over it...
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29 / M / Yakima Valley...WA
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Posted 1/29/10
Rofl...

I am the older sibling. The oldest actually. My sister's ex-friend is still my girlfriend today... 7 years later.

In the case that it was my little brother's crush... dude, you have to have more respect for your little brother. If my brother is as crazy as I am, I would fear for my life and would not be able to sleep in the same house.

On the other hand... if she isn't right for him... f*** it... minus the pedophile charges. She better be 18 at the very least. Every older brother knows the kid brother and what is good for him. (That is if they are as close as me and my kid brother)
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Posted 1/29/10 , edited 1/29/10
This happened to me too.......Me and this guy has been friends since i was like 5(of course my big sister knew him also) we use to hang all the time the one day at the gym **Suprise, Suprise she tells me "I think i like Jimmy" at the time i was like.."Umm...Okay, what do you want me to say" then 2 weeks later i found out they started going out.....It was awkward for a while, with the tag-along BF/GF being a sibling,,,,When we got over that there were good times to be had.....Then a few mini break-ups, talks about marriage, and 4 years after they started dating greater than my wrost fears came true.....THEY HAD THE NASTYEST BREAK-UP I EVER SEEN......I mean it was baddddd.....and now i havent seen or heard from him in going on 2 years.....i mean a guy who went to every family party, who i use to spend full weekends at his house, since i was 5 ended like that...........................Moral of the story kids

DON'T EVER DATE YOUR YOUNGER SIBILINGS BEST/ CLOSE/ OLDEST FRIEND(EVEN IF THEY ARE YOUR AGE)
Okay......Thats just wrong.......find some non friend person and leave those best or close or oldest friends along......Dont even date someone i know well enough to call a friend.....

So i FEEL FOR YOU MAN.....I was in the same boat, except we were just boy & girl friends and had no feelings for each other....but i got over it....you learn to get over it......now i am nore mad at the way he hurt my big sister than vise versa and dont really care to speak to him right now.....
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Posted 1/29/10
DUDE!!! that guys is such a pedofile 24 messing around with a 16 thats just straight f**ked

why not just call the cops on ur brother atleast thats what i would do if i knew who that pedofile was

shit man thats disgusting
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25 / M / A rainy paradise...
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Posted 1/29/10

snuckles108 wrote:

I was shocked to know my friend is dating my older brother. She is like 16 and my brother is 24 ,"what the fuck?". Now my friend comes to my house everyday just to have that *clap clap* with my brother. We were best friends until my brother hit on my friend we're not actually boyfriends and girlfriends,but I'm planning too. He knows I have feelings for her now I'm feeling pissed off because the girl I knew in Middle School is now dating my brother.

I'm going to get him for this making sure to tell all this story to his current girlfriend revenge for making feel ticked off.



You have yourself to blame as well. If you like a girl, you need to strike early. If it wasn't your brother...it could have been another guy. Learn from this for the next girl.
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O. That really sucks. Honestly, I don't know how I'd feel if my bro were to start dating one of my friends. He's 2 years older, so the age difference wouldn't be bad. But I guess it really does depend which friend of mine he ends up dating, or person that I might know. I just don't like the fact that he'd be dating someone my age. There was this one time my bro had a thing for this girl that was around my age, and of course, I didn't like that. Rather, I'd have him date someone his age or older. But knowing my bro, if he were to date one of my close friends, I'd be cheering them on. Then again, it will definitely be awkward at first but eventually I'll get over it.
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Posted 7/26/12
I dated the friend of my younger sister. We didn't tell her at first, because we knew she'd freak out. The girl made the mistake of telling my sister without me being around. It was not pretty. I couldn't get the girl to talk to me again until a few years later.
Posted 7/26/12 , edited 7/26/12
@ OP

Its been three years so im sure you've dealt with it. But if you'd posted yesterday i would have said just that. Deal with it. In my case I am the older sibling. And this is a bit different from your situation since my siblimghouse is a girl and she didnt want awkward tension with her friends but closing off avenues of potential options is not always cut and dry. My sister knows and is friends with half the damn women or more at ASU. Thats prime real estate for women of all types. If I wanted to honor her wishes, I'd have to date a high schooler or a cougar. The first is a prison sentence so thats out. The second is a shit ton of baggage wrapped up in an emotionally detached sex fiend who has commitment issues which leaves the 18-22 crowd left. There are a few grad or returning students but just about all are married, have kids who are their sole priority in life or are too busy with classes because they need them for career advancement or job changes. So to close out college age women as well means I might as well move states. Screw that, my house is paid off! Sis can shut up and deal with hearing about me more from her friends.
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Posted 7/30/12
never ever experienced this... but I think it's nasty, Yes, love has no age limits.. but she's YOUR friend, not his... I'm guessing they barely knew each other...
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