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Posted 6/13/09
you need friend advice? is she/he going out with a bad guy/girl and she/he doesn't know it, is he/she going through a rough time tell me about it and i'll help
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Posted 8/22/09
GOTH i need help
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Posted 8/22/09

what is it?

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Posted 8/22/09
My friends are fighting and I don't know how to get them to make up Itied making them talk to each other and made it worst
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Posted 8/22/09
just leave them alone they'll have to make up eventually.
and if you interfere it might make things worse.
give me updates on every detail
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Posted 8/30/09
The fight ended but they never made up I haven't talked to one of them for about 3 days now
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Posted 8/30/09
you can start talking to them now if its safe it sounds like its getting better things will go back to normal soon
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Posted 8/31/09
Ok thanks
Posted 10/11/09
Etto,well,I have this one friend who i really LOVE . But she doesn't trust me and i kinda' find her very proud. She's always boasting and she keeps saying that she's way smarter than me . I well,do forgive her even though she doesn't apologise.But it isn't fair cuz' whenever my friends or I do something wrong to her we HAVE to apologise and we do,without her telling us. She always says that she's way smarter than us,well I know she is but she doesn't have to say it that way right? There was also this one time where my friend joked and said that we were both ugly and my friend thought he only said that i was ugly and she laughed at me. Then,i told her that he also said that she was ugly and she said that i was wearing specs so i was ugly,not her.I seriously can't take her! Butbut,she's the only close friend I have ... and my other friends well ... they aren't really trustable ? Well,I don't really care if i lose her but,the thing is i'm scared she'll tell my secrets ya know ?
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Posted 10/11/09

erika-chan1996 wrote:

Etto,well,I have this one friend who i really LOVE . But she doesn't trust me and i kinda' find her very proud. She's always boasting and she keeps saying that she's way smarter than me . I well,do forgive her even though she doesn't apologise.But it isn't fair cuz' whenever my friends or I do something wrong to her we HAVE to apologise and we do,without her telling us. She always says that she's way smarter than us,well I know she is but she doesn't have to say it that way right? There was also this one time where my friend joked and said that we were both ugly and my friend thought he only said that i was ugly and she laughed at me. Then,i told her that he also said that she was ugly and she said that i was wearing specs so i was ugly,not her.I seriously can't take her! Butbut,she's the only close friend I have ... and my other friends well ... they aren't really trustable ? Well,I don't really care if i lose her but,the thing is i'm scared she'll tell my secrets ya know ?

wow. she doesnt sound like much of a friend if she treats you that way.
try to talk to her about the way you feel and try to act sincere cuz if shes a true friend
she'll feel bad about the way shes been treating you and maybe she'll apologize.
but if she doesnt. then you'll know shes not a friend.
if she tells everyone about your secrets just deny it and
and start talking to the counselour.
if your not satisfied with my answer then just contact one of my moderaters by private mail
and they will be glad to help.
Posted 10/11/09

gothkid101 wrote:


erika-chan1996 wrote:

Etto,well,I have this one friend who i really LOVE . But she doesn't trust me and i kinda' find her very proud. She's always boasting and she keeps saying that she's way smarter than me . I well,do forgive her even though she doesn't apologise.But it isn't fair cuz' whenever my friends or I do something wrong to her we HAVE to apologise and we do,without her telling us. She always says that she's way smarter than us,well I know she is but she doesn't have to say it that way right? There was also this one time where my friend joked and said that we were both ugly and my friend thought he only said that i was ugly and she laughed at me. Then,i told her that he also said that she was ugly and she said that i was wearing specs so i was ugly,not her.I seriously can't take her! Butbut,she's the only close friend I have ... and my other friends well ... they aren't really trustable ? Well,I don't really care if i lose her but,the thing is i'm scared she'll tell my secrets ya know ?

wow. she doesnt sound like much of a friend if she treats you that way.
try to talk to her about the way you feel and try to act sincere cuz if shes a true friend
she'll feel bad about the way shes been treating you and maybe she'll apologize.
but if she doesnt. then you'll know shes not a friend.
if she tells everyone about your secrets just deny it and
and start talking to the counselour.
if your not satisfied with my answer then just contact one of my moderaters by private mail
and they will be glad to help.


Yosh ! I'll try that in school later ! Arigatou~ Nyaa ~x D
Posted 10/12/09
Ne,she got angry ;^; She said that she actually hated me and she kept saying that she did nothing wrong. She ignored me today ... She even tried to take my friends away,as if she wanted to make me ...all alone ._.''
TT3TT''
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Posted 10/12/09

erika-chan1996 wrote:

Ne,she got angry ;^; She said that she actually hated me and she kept saying that she did nothing wrong. She ignored me today ... She even tried to take my friends away,as if she wanted to make me ...all alone ._.''
TT3TT''

find a new group of friends.
shes not worth it

Posted 2/25/10
-SIGH-
I just feel so bad.. my friends. They keep on arguing. Even though i'm not really that close with them. And the girl i told you last time, the one i LOVED the most, we're not together anymore. I do wish we were still together, like we used to be..-sigh-
I seriously can't understand why people change ...
Anyways, i do have a group of friends, but they don't seem to care about me anyway..
They "act" like they do but they actually don't. Sometimes, when i try to talk to them about my problems, they'll just ignore me or say, "oh."
You know? When they always need my help, i will ALWAYS advise them..
They really can't be trusted actually. They backstabs me most of the time, which i usually forgive because i'm a person who forgives & forgets. But, at home, i feel like i'm all alone. No true friends i feel so alone. I sometimes wonder if i should just, be alone or stay with them..
It's really hard to find true friends so uh yeah..
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