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Showing bra straps...?
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Posted 6/15/09

gabsgobygab wrote:

Okay so a guy friend of mine kept trying to hint at me that my bra strap had slid down my shoulder,
it took a while for me to get what he was going on about, when I finally got it (he's not a very good hinter) I asked him why he was so uncomfortable/odd about it, he replied “you'll understand when your older” huh? Sometimes I don't get this dude

Q1. anyway what I want to know is, do you you feel uncomfortable/odd if you see someone's bra strap? I mean its just a bra strap what's the big deal right? just tell the girl casually

Q2. What would you do if you were the person in my guy friends situation?


how old is he?

q1.not really but weird if she's way younger then me,lol.

q2. have no idea, probably tell if if originally you didn't have it like that.

and if she kept getting close, now that just blows the lid,lol.
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Posted 6/15/09

gabsgobygab wrote:

Okay so a guy friend of mine kept trying to hint at me that my bra strap had slid down my shoulder,
it took a while for me to get what he was going on about, when I finally got it (he's not a very good hinter) I asked him why he was so uncomfortable/odd about it, he replied “you'll understand when your older” huh? Sometimes I don't get this dude

Q1. anyway what I want to know is, do you you feel uncomfortable/odd if you see someone's bra strap? I mean its just a bra strap what's the big deal right? just tell the girl casually

Q2. What would you do if you were the person in my guy friends situation?


Aww you friend must be shy or he likes you and that made him shy............. yeah i dunno i suck at this.

Nothing wrong with bra straps showing. I see that every where. Not uncommon. Yes maybe once upon a time in the middle ages it was almost a crime. But i don't think they had bras then.
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I thought I will offer an alternative viewpoint on this.

Bras are underwear, and some people do get uncomfortable when they are visible, if someone is uncomfortable I think they cannot be blamed for it. Girls can be very laid back when it comes to bras, some will treat bra straps as outerwear and think nothing of them showing more than normal clothing.

I am one of those people who get uncomfortable, not all bra's do it, I am guessing it depends on the bra that is worn and how it integrates with the top. A bra strap falling of the shoulder makes me uncomfortable.

I live with my sister who wears strappy and sleeveless tops a lot and her bra straps are wide and distracting, they do often fall down which is a problem for me as I get uncomfortable and distracted. Luckily she always pulls them up right away when it happens so they dont hang down her shoulders all the time.

We have talked about it before when I asked her if she can fix her bra strap falling and the short story is she told me she does all she can by adjusting the strap short and there isnt much else she can do, she does pull her bra straps up a lot before they fall down so she doesnt just let them slide off all the time.

Now she didnt take offense to what I said but I also havent mentioned it again, she tries to keep them up and I respect that. I do feel it might make her look slutty when they fall down whilst she is working or out in public but I assume she always pulls them up immediatly so they will never be off her shoulder for very long.

Here is another thought as well, when she wears sleeved tops the problem is actually more distracting. Since without sleeves she can fix her strap very easily just sliding it back up her arm onto her shoulder, but with sleeves she has to put her opposite arm down the inside of the sleeve to grab her bra strap to get it back up. She is very distracting when she does this and its obvious what she is doing, whilst when sleeveless she can look like she is just itching her shoulder or something.

To the girls who think anyone who is uncomfortable is crazy, would you think showing thongs or men showing their pants is ok? if not what is the difference?
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Posted 6/15/09
Its just a bra strap o.o...
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I think your friend is shy, not immature.
There are different types of people in the world, and if I were a guy, I'd feel akward too seeing that.
It's even more akward to say, hey your bra strap is showing.
Of course, this is assuming you guys aren't very close...
If you guys are close friends... then maybe he is SUPER shy.

If I was in the same situation as your guy friend, I won't say anything.
I mean, it's kind of obvious when your bra strap has slide out of place...
So I'll assume you don't care, and if you don't care, then why should i?
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ur friends a pussy
does he saw 'eewww cooties' too?
'fix ur bra'
is it that hard to say?

my graduation grade (<3) is soo straightforward about sexual stuff
girls say 'suck my dick'
and the guys say 'smell my cameltoe'
the horniest things ever and we dont give a crap lol
Posted 6/15/09 , edited 6/15/09
if it were me i woulda just finished the job and unhooked your bra...
with my teeth
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A1. It's a bra strap, happens all the time, learn to live with it.
A2. I'd pull it then let go (: Elastics are so fun.
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qwertyuiopz wrote:

ur friends a pussy
does he saw 'eewww cooties' too?
'fix ur bra'
is it that hard to say?

my graduation grade (<3) is soo straightforward about sexual stuff
girls say 'suck my dick'
and the guys say 'smell my cameltoe'
the horniest things ever and we dont give a crap lol


...a little too specific, if I do say so myself.
Although I have to agree with the second part.
My friends are the same way. I find it hilarious.
Sometimes, I may even throw in a line or two (:
Posted 6/15/09

ChickenPrincess wrote:


qwertyuiopz wrote:

ur friends a pussy
does he saw 'eewww cooties' too?
'fix ur bra'
is it that hard to say?

my graduation grade (<3) is soo straightforward about sexual stuff
girls say 'suck my dick'
and the guys say 'smell my cameltoe'
the horniest things ever and we dont give a crap lol


...a little too specific, if I do say so myself.
Although I have to agree with the second part.
My friends are the same way. I find it hilarious.
Sometimes, I may even throw in a line or two (:


why is ur name chicken princess...=_= ?
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-Turbo- wrote:


ChickenPrincess wrote:


qwertyuiopz wrote:

ur friends a pussy
does he saw 'eewww cooties' too?
'fix ur bra'
is it that hard to say?

my graduation grade (<3) is soo straightforward about sexual stuff
girls say 'suck my dick'
and the guys say 'smell my cameltoe'
the horniest things ever and we dont give a crap lol


...a little too specific, if I do say so myself.
Although I have to agree with the second part.
My friends are the same way. I find it hilarious.
Sometimes, I may even throw in a line or two (:


why is ur name chicken princess...=_= ?


Because my mom used to call me that due to my hairstyle and the fact that I was a spoiled little girl XD
Posted 6/15/09

ChickenPrincess wrote:


-Turbo- wrote:


ChickenPrincess wrote:


qwertyuiopz wrote:

ur friends a pussy
does he saw 'eewww cooties' too?
'fix ur bra'
is it that hard to say?

my graduation grade (<3) is soo straightforward about sexual stuff
girls say 'suck my dick'
and the guys say 'smell my cameltoe'
the horniest things ever and we dont give a crap lol


...a little too specific, if I do say so myself.
Although I have to agree with the second part.
My friends are the same way. I find it hilarious.
Sometimes, I may even throw in a line or two (:


why is ur name chicken princess...=_= ?


Because my mom used to call me that due to my hairstyle and the fact that I was a spoiled little girl XD


haha oh okay X)
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Posted 6/15/09
pssh what a pussy. the first thing i would say is "hey baby is anything else coming off with that bra strap?"
Posted 6/15/09
incase there are pervs checking you out and stuff
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