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what can you do to make your friend happy?
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Posted 6/17/09
Doesn't help thinking short term with people that are depressed.


You'll only cheer them up for a time period of amazing.. (at best) half a day. Which might lead to them feeling even more miserable.

"She/he visits me only out of pity, I'm so pathetic...."

For me, one of the most important things to get out of my main depression, was to able to really pour my heart out to a psychologist.
Though I did consider suicide at one point, I thought to myself, about my reason for depression, and how my death would affect those near me.

My train of thought was concluded with a realization.

Life's too precious to be so easily thrown away. To take suicide, is equal to spitting in the face of those that care/know you, and telling them to fuck off to hell. Especially towards your parents.

It doesn't even matter if your parents "suck", show them your made of better stuff than that and become someone strong.

Meh, why do I bother.
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Kippu wrote:


have a friend that really want to die and i always try to make her happy. she always trying to cut her wrist.. need help


If your friend is cutting herself, and saying she wants to committee suicide, I suggest you make her go and talk to a councilor.
Or if she's one of those emo people, that think cutting is cool, and act sad sometimes just for attention. I say slap some sense into her, and tell her you're not her puppet. She can keep herself entertained without dragging you into it.
Killing yourself is a cowardly way out of life. If she's having such a tough life. Tell her to run away and start a new one.


Plus, if she's under 18 and is talking about committing suicide openly, she can be admitted to a psych ward and get to be locked up for a couple weeks. :/

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AHTL wrote:

Doesn't help thinking short term with people that are depressed.


You'll only cheer them up for a time period of amazing.. (at best) half a day. Which might lead to them feeling even more miserable.

"She/he visits me only out of pity, I'm so pathetic...."

For me, one of the most important things to get out of my main depression, was to able to really pour my heart out to a psychologist.
Though I did consider suicide at one point, I thought to myself, about my reason for depression, and how my death would affect those near me.

My train of thought was concluded with a realization.

Life's too precious to be so easily thrown away. To take suicide, is equal to spitting in the face of those that care/know you, and telling them to fuck off to hell. Especially towards your parents.

It doesn't even matter if your parents "suck", show them your made of better stuff than that and become someone strong.

Meh, why do I bother. <_<


ILY.
That is all.

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Thanks, I guess CountessD.



Fun fact, or well, not so fun.

The reason people take suicide, is amazingly enough, not always because of lack of friends/social life.

Sometimes people go through a shock that is so big, that they can't cope with the sorrow/despair/pain, or that person hides it too well, or (again) the friends (or sometimes, "friends") don't understand/know what to do, or how to help the person in question.

I read a story, of a girl who took suicide, because it became known to everyone on her school; that she had had done sexual things with her boyfriend.

We're talking about a girl, with outstanding grades, a fair amount of friends and nice parents.

All gone, because someone thought, "Hey, lets send this sms telling someone about her sexual experience, and I'm SURE that person won't send it to someone else again."


Sometimes, I feel like kicking someone hard.
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Posted 6/17/09
get him/her wasted
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Posted 6/17/09
Have sex with them.
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Posted 6/17/09
Tell her, "Don't be a pussy, life is life. Fucking deal with it, everyone else has to."
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Posted 6/17/09

TheYeager wrote:

Have sex with them.


I second this.
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Posted 6/18/09
the chick friends, probably replying to their feelings, my friends, probably still hanging out,lol.
Posted 6/18/09
I give them gift or say funny things ` or either tickle tickle*
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Posted 6/18/09
i am emotionless most of the time....they're the one's to make me laugh...

haha<3 it's opposite
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M / in your heart :)
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Posted 6/19/09
I'll do my best thank you guys...
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Posted 6/19/09
Talk to them in my FOB accent.
Posted 7/16/09
Post in Personal Advice thread instead please

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