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Well, in here, we all know how hard it is living with your younger sisters/brothers, or even older sisters/brothers, be it other relatives or not, such as cousins & such.....

Here, we would like to know how everyone feels about having someone like that in our life, we can discuss them & solve it together if you need help, or you can just say how you feel~!

If you don't feel very comfortable, you can put it in *spoilers* or just don't do anything, it's really your choice, since here, we just want to have FUN!!!


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I will start then, I have a twin sister, but we're fraternal, we have LOTS in common, same taste, etc. But she's taller than me & we look different as well.....

I also have 2 little step-sisters, one 10 years old, & another one is 7 years old. Although we get along sometimes, we fight a LOT...T^T
So if I have to say, then yeah, living with siblings is a big problem to us....but I can't live without them either....it's that complicated....

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Posted 6/24/09
meee .. i hate my brother because they give more importance to him than me even though i'm more talented than him .. >.<
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meee .. i hate my brother because they give more importance to him than me even though i'm more talented than him .. >.<



hmmm, well, thats not true!!! >_<" they may give more importance 2 him maybe cuz he's younger than u? & u definitely have an awesome talent!!! so i dont think u should b let down just cuz of that. if u want 2 b more outstanding, then u should do things that u r good @ & show it 2 others!!! & we may notice that we're not treated equally sometimes, but still, great things do happen 2 us, we just dont notice it~
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hmmmm.....me have 2 older bros and one sis...my sis is 23 now soon 24 (she lived with my grandma her life just visits us) my bro is 20 going to be 21and my other bro is 18 going to be 19 soon lolz close B-days anyways im the youngest of all im 15 long way before im 16 i can get pissed at my bros but never my older sis she is like my best friend ever! me bro thats 18 tought him self to play piano read music and play guitar he is amazing talented bro my 20 year old bro kinda the bad one heh but had a good job but spends his money like crazy...and last my sister who is 23 my only sis she is in collage planning to be a professor in collage to teach biology i think she is the very smartest one out of all the kids to me cause she got straight A's like all her life in school well my bros and sis r very talented im not really the one who is talented i got nothing so my goal to be special like my elders that im learning Japanese fully and also i want to get into the drama area something special and gets me notice i want to be special like them...
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hmmmm.....me have 2 older bros and one sis...my sis is 23 now soon 24 (she lived with my grandma her life just visits us) my bro is 20 going to be 21and my other bro is 18 going to be 19 soon lolz close B-days anyways im the youngest of all im 15 long way before im 16 i can get pissed at my bros but never my older sis she is like my best friend ever! me bro thats 18 tought him self to play piano read music and play guitar he is amazing talented bro my 20 year old bro kinda the bad one heh but had a good job but spends his money like crazy...and last my sister who is 23 my only sis she is in collage planning to be a professor in collage to teach biology i think she is the very smartest one out of all the kids to me cause she got straight A's like all her life in school well my bros and sis r very talented im not really the one who is talented i got nothing so my goal to be special like my elders that im learning Japanese fully and also i want to get into the drama area something special and gets me notice i want to be special like them...


no worries heaven-chan! we all have our own talents! we notice our own gifts sooner or later, it just takes time~ by d looks of it, u sure have some REALLY great siblings there! they sure have LOTS of talents! but that doesnt mean that u have 2 give up, u can do watever u want & surpass them in something soon! so long as u dont give up, & just hold on 4 a little bit, & u can surpass them if u want 2~ so its basically about whether u want to or not, it really has nothing 2 do w/ whether u can or u cant, its ur determination that counts~
Posted 7/5/09
ummm.....well I have a brother but he gets really annoyin and I just can't stand him most of the times but he acts all nice and peaceful to me(someimes) before he gets mad and goes on a destuction rampage through the house!!0.0 He is kinda scary sometimes but I can't lay a hand on him cause....I dont know I just can't!! My best friend tells me I should but I dont have the back bone to do that to my little brother even if he tryin to hurt me or someone else!!>.<
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angel052894 wrote:

hmmmm.....me have 2 older bros and one sis...my sis is 23 now soon 24 (she lived with my grandma her life just visits us) my bro is 20 going to be 21and my other bro is 18 going to be 19 soon lolz close B-days anyways im the youngest of all im 15 long way before im 16 i can get pissed at my bros but never my older sis she is like my best friend ever! me bro thats 18 tought him self to play piano read music and play guitar he is amazing talented bro my 20 year old bro kinda the bad one heh but had a good job but spends his money like crazy...and last my sister who is 23 my only sis she is in collage planning to be a professor in collage to teach biology i think she is the very smartest one out of all the kids to me cause she got straight A's like all her life in school well my bros and sis r very talented im not really the one who is talented i got nothing so my goal to be special like my elders that im learning Japanese fully and also i want to get into the drama area something special and gets me notice i want to be special like them...


no worries heaven-chan! we all have our own talents! we notice our own gifts sooner or later, it just takes time~ by d looks of it, u sure have some REALLY great siblings there! they sure have LOTS of talents! but that doesnt mean that u have 2 give up, u can do watever u want & surpass them in something soon! so long as u dont give up, & just hold on 4 a little bit, & u can surpass them if u want 2~ so its basically about whether u want to or not, it really has nothing 2 do w/ whether u can or u cant, its ur determination that counts~


arigato! thats so much nice to say i won't give up my goals ^__^ **huggz** thx for being so supportive!
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ummm.....well I have a brother but he gets really annoyin and I just can't stand him most of the times but he acts all nice and peaceful to me(someimes) before he gets mad and goes on a destuction rampage through the house!!0.0 He is kinda scary sometimes but I can't lay a hand on him cause....I dont know I just can't!! My best friend tells me I should but I dont have the back bone to do that to my little brother even if he tryin to hurt me or someone else!!>.<


well, then doesn't that mean that u love ur brother? (as a sibling). i mean, thats a really nice instance. my siblings & i fight a LOT, but in d end, we always end up forgiving each other & making up~ thats wat siblings r 4, right? if we dont fight @ times, it probably means that we dont know each other good enough 2 c our bad sides....(it may sound negative, but it really isnt)~ ur case is really special, since even tho ur brother may hurt u, u always have a heart kind enough 2 forgive, & one of my favorite saying is: "forgive & forget"! he may b scary sometimes, but u also c his good sides, right? well, im sure that d relationship of d 2 of u is great! u support each other when needed, it makes me want 2 b ur sibling as well!! XDDD
Posted 7/10/09

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HitachiinxXxLover wrote:

ummm.....well I have a brother but he gets really annoyin and I just can't stand him most of the times but he acts all nice and peaceful to me(someimes) before he gets mad and goes on a destuction rampage through the house!!0.0 He is kinda scary sometimes but I can't lay a hand on him cause....I dont know I just can't!! My best friend tells me I should but I dont have the back bone to do that to my little brother even if he tryin to hurt me or someone else!!>.<


well, then doesn't that mean that u love ur brother? (as a sibling). i mean, thats a really nice instance. my siblings & i fight a LOT, but in d end, we always end up forgiving each other & making up~ thats wat siblings r 4, right? if we dont fight @ times, it probably means that we dont know each other good enough 2 c our bad sides....(it may sound negative, but it really isnt)~ ur case is really special, since even tho ur brother may hurt u, u always have a heart kind enough 2 forgive, & one of my favorite saying is: "forgive & forget"! he may b scary sometimes, but u also c his good sides, right? well, im sure that d relationship of d 2 of u is great! u support each other when needed, it makes me want 2 b ur sibling as well!! XDDD


awww thx and u mite be rite about it cause I do love my bro in the end!!!=3

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hi hi~ I have two older sisters
the eldest is the most talented one
and my parents always compare's me from her
its so annoying >_< I just wish they would stop comparing!
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hi hi~ I have two older sisters
the eldest is the most talented one
and my parents always compare's me from her
its so annoying >_< I just wish they would stop comparing!


yeah, i understand how u feel...i mean, i've got sisters of my own as well, but i get compared from other ppl.... it feels frustrating, & sometimes it just cant b helped....*sigh* but there r things that we have or can do, that d other ppl cant do, right? im sure of it~ we just have 2 show it, but of course, actions speak louder than words & its easier said than done...but still....whether we dislike something or want something, we have 2 put in effort in order 2 get wat we want, right? but d truth is, this is how i deal w/ things like that: just let them compare. i mean, we know that they r doing things like this 4 our own good & we know that. wat i do is, just do wat they want me 2 do & get over it, tho this is definitely just my opinion, since this is basically how i live my life...~ ><

this may or may not help, but think of it this way: just imagine wat it would b like if they stopped comparing u w/ ur sister, oh, & btw, she may b d most talented one, but all u got 2 do is surpass them, right? (again, its easier said than done....>_<)
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XinkheartX wrote:

hi hi~ I have two older sisters
the eldest is the most talented one
and my parents always compare's me from her
its so annoying >_< I just wish they would stop comparing!


yeah, i understand how u feel...i mean, i've got sisters of my own as well, but i get compared from other ppl.... it feels frustrating, & sometimes it just cant b helped....*sigh* but there r things that we have or can do, that d other ppl cant do, right? im sure of it~ we just have 2 show it, but of course, actions speak louder than words & its easier said than done...but still....whether we dislike something or want something, we have 2 put in effort in order 2 get wat we want, right? but d truth is, this is how i deal w/ things like that: just let them compare. i mean, we know that they r doing things like this 4 our own good & we know that. wat i do is, just do wat they want me 2 do & get over it, tho this is definitely just my opinion, since this is basically how i live my life...~ ><

this may or may not help, but think of it this way: just imagine wat it would b like if they stopped comparing u w/ ur sister, oh, & btw, she may b d most talented one, but all u got 2 do is surpass them, right? (again, its easier said than done....>_<)


thank you so much! never thought of it that way ^^
but still I dont see anything that she cant do which I can *sigh*
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XinkheartX wrote:

hi hi~ I have two older sisters
the eldest is the most talented one
and my parents always compare's me from her
its so annoying >_< I just wish they would stop comparing!


yeah, i understand how u feel...i mean, i've got sisters of my own as well, but i get compared from other ppl.... it feels frustrating, & sometimes it just cant b helped....*sigh* but there r things that we have or can do, that d other ppl cant do, right? im sure of it~ we just have 2 show it, but of course, actions speak louder than words & its easier said than done...but still....whether we dislike something or want something, we have 2 put in effort in order 2 get wat we want, right? but d truth is, this is how i deal w/ things like that: just let them compare. i mean, we know that they r doing things like this 4 our own good & we know that. wat i do is, just do wat they want me 2 do & get over it, tho this is definitely just my opinion, since this is basically how i live my life...~ ><

this may or may not help, but think of it this way: just imagine wat it would b like if they stopped comparing u w/ ur sister, oh, & btw, she may b d most talented one, but all u got 2 do is surpass them, right? (again, its easier said than done....>_<)


thank you so much! never thought of it that way ^^
but still I dont see anything that she cant do which I can *sigh*


well, im pretty sure that u will find something that u r good @...just try & feel proud that u can do some things~ oh, & its ok~ i mean, ur sister may b good @ many things, but u also have d advantage 2 learn from her as well~ just try 2 not b negative & b positive of things~ ^-^
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arigatou guzaimas! tnx u really helped me alot ^^
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