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Sex Isn't about love anymore?
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Lately I've been noticing that sex has become more about only the physical aspect and less and less about the emotional kind of thing. Is this all the media's doing? Has something so sacred fallen so far as to be a way of profit? Everywhere you look now-a-days there's sex, The movies, ads, banners, clothing. It's all centered around sex(By all I mean most...) I hear it way to much, I'll be walking somewhere and they'll be 13-14 year old kids talking about how they'd love to -censored- their teacher, or another classmate. Who do you blame though? The media? Parents? Teachers? I just don't know, it's really quite sad that something so beautiful can be molded into simply a physical enjoyment...Thoughts? Opinions?


(Please only reply if your going to be mature about this...)
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Posted 7/7/09
That's so true.....but in this case, I think the media is to blame. I mean really....you can't watch any movies these days without some sort of sex scene or implied sex scene....it gets the young minds thinking and hormones rolling
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Yup Yup I agree^
After all the media puts out there the masses are more desensitized towards what the act truly means.
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eh, don't like playing the blame game since many things contribute to this. but mainly is people's fault.
Posted 7/7/09
umm sex is never about love, it's about producing more people for the planet and carrying on your legacy sure you do fall in love and sex with people then have sex with them but you don't have to love someone to have sex with them >.<
Posted 7/7/09
yeah i agree
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Well sex is sex and \ove is love, and when you share love with someone the sex is different that then sex without love. Sex isn't just about love and love isn't just about sex. There isn't anything wrong with having sex because it is only natural that the body wants to mate. When in love though your sex life is much different than that of just having sex with a random somebody. I wonder if that makes sense to people because it's worded really weird :
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I blame...the media! Everywhere i go it usually has to do sumthing about sexual things in advertising,commercials,even in school(ESPECIALLY in SCHOOL), and yea, it seems like its not for emotional love anymore...
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I blame society as a whole.
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I blame parents for letting the media raise their kids instead of doing it themselves. But even before mass-media existed, sex was rarely about love. In fact the media helps people to see the connection between sex and love, to the point where many people see them as the same thing.
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I think the media, the parents, and the new programs of educations have a little part of the blame.

I know what you are saying, and I feel sad too, but we must think that life styles are constantly changing and that we don't have control over all this situation.

Unfortunately sex is becoming more and more physical, and though as I said before that the responsibility is of each one of us, I would blame the media the most because it does have sex everywhere!!!!!

But I guess that as long as you and your partner keep your own thoughts and feelings about sex, it really doesn't matter.
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Well I would have to say everyone, if there 13 or even 12 year olds sayin they had sex already one the parents might be encouraging them or don't know, nd the media is basically sex this sex that, and most of all the ppl around them... Sum teens think it cool and that the shit now, but its stupid how they go off to get a bf or gf 4 sex and that there life revolves around it....

They may think that all to life and a relationship but one day there going to wake up thinkin "wow wat i get myself into".
So as long as they follow ppl and stuff there going to end up having sex . They need to think for themselves. And it is kinda sad, I made be a Teen but at least i know how to respect myself and body.
Posted 7/7/09
It's not the media in itself, It's just the world these days.
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I think it's just human nature to not look at sex so sacredly and more just physically, and the media and society in general exploit that, so it has lost most of it's emotional value. For me, sex is supposed to be sacred and about love, sex without love just seems so unfulfilling and too emotionally problematic.
Posted 7/7/09
Question is how many who can still be in love, like for eternity, without having sex, even once?









meh. Those only happens in Korean movies such as The Classic.
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