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Sex Isn't about love anymore?
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Posted 10/28/12
It's still a important issue in my region :))a
culture still roles :))
Marriage then sex.

Posted 10/28/12
Meanings have been lost due to people placing their desires in certain things. Humanity has been at fault for loving what it doesn't need, and that is moving towards a global issue.
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How come is it OKAY for love NOT to be about sex, but not okay for sex NOT to be about love.

You see someone attractive, you chat her up and its ON. She is interesting, exciting and funny, your emotions are running haywire.
Attraction is NOT a choice!
Why would you refuse yourself the thrills of life, especially when you are living only once? For the sake of a woman you are in relationship who has been nagging on you for two days because you forgot to put down the toilet seat?

Besides, what is sex without emotions?
What is love without sex?
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Posted 11/14/12
There is a difference between sex and making love. Sex only involves the basic human body's carnal desires while love making involves a harmony with body and soul.
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Posted 11/15/12
Well, in the Roman Empire era, it was considered a great honor to "do it" with anybody, male or female. They would just straight up do it in public baths in front of everyone quite a bit of the time. They had no restrictive morals regarding sexuality. Same goes with the Greeks, to a lesser degree. Yet, in the British Victorian Era, such things were considered to be an atrocity, and was to be kept secret at all times. If you are talking the degradation of the meaning of sex, you have to understand that the meaning of sex is not absolute. It is relative and varies by culture and time era. All that we are seeing is a shift of thought regarding sex, and should be seen as natural.
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Posted 11/22/12
Sex was never about love, pro tip.
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Posted 11/23/12
Yup, the media's fault. Nowadays finding a fuck buddy is a walk around the block. Eh, sex is fun, so i'm not complaining
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Posted 11/25/12

kyonkunsuzumiya wrote:

Sex was never about love, pro tip.


Couldnt agree more i dont see why two consenting adults cant just go have a good time. As long as both people are clean and disease free there is not really any downsides to it. I think that love is influenced by it and can influence it but you can definitely have sex without love and theres nothing wrong with that.
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Posted 11/26/12

olebull1 wrote:


kyonkunsuzumiya wrote:

Sex was never about love, pro tip.


Couldnt agree more i dont see why two consenting adults cant just go have a good time. As long as both people are clean and disease free there is not really any downsides to it. I think that love is influenced by it and can influence it but you can definitely have sex without love and theres nothing wrong with that.


I mean like, sure love does "enhance" it per say but the actual act of sex itself is just a physical thing you do. It's to reproduce and so it has to feel good biologically, but because it can feel so good I think we've put the idea of sex into two camps. One where it feels good because it's this idea of making such a personal connection and the other one where it feels good cause it just feels good. Neither is really correct, it's just whatever floats your boat, sometimes people just want to have sex and that's it, good for them. Sometimes they want something more, also good for them. Putting all the romantic magic notion into the idea of sex, or even the relationship or the person sometimes is just as bad as idolizing the physical act of it.
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Posted 12/29/12
Sex is Over rated by the Media and Porn industries, Now a days there are more web sites like Myspace,FB, and Craigslist where people can go and Get some and be Done. Sex is fun don't get me wrong I have two Kids, and Me and My wife are happily married almost for 10 years, But that doesn't mean that sex isn't Just a Physical thing for us,

Sex is A bonding thing in a relationship, but others see it as a form of physical interaction which it is but for a purpose, Magazines, Tv, Movies, Video games, and internet make Sex into something it's not. Like I said SEX is Allot of Fun but it's More fun with a person who knows you and knows what you like or what they like to do to you to get your body all horny and wanting some.
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