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Sex Isn't about love anymore?
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        Making Love = Romantic Loving Sex
        Fucking = For The Pleasure

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Actually it has nothing to do with the media. Go read about the royal houses of the middle ages in Europe for example. You think they had all those illegitimate children by accident? Many people have always only cared about the physical act. I have even seen documentaries where collectors own Roman statues of orgies and ancient Egyptian phallic toys. This isn't exactly a recent development. The fact that one of the seven deadly sins of Christian belief is "Thou shalt not covet another mans wife" should speak volumes.

However the chemical reaction in your brain means less than nothing. Your subconscious, memories, dreams, life experiences, emotions, etc etc do not boil down to a chemical reaction in a test tube. The sum of a human being and their life is a little more than that.
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Karkarov wrote:

Actually it has nothing to do with the media. Go read about the royal houses of the middle ages in Europe for example. You think they had all those illegitimate children by accident? Many people have always only cared about the physical act. I have even seen documentaries where collectors own Roman statues of orgies and ancient Egyptian phallic toys. This isn't exactly a recent development. The fact that one of the seven deadly sins of Christian belief is "Thou shalt not covet another mans wife" should speak volumes.


The media does play a big part however. Mass media has made us realize how slutty (for lack of better term) humans are in general. If mass media had never developed, we could still delude ourselves into thinking that most couples spent hours a day just holding hands on the beach and constantly sent love letters to each other. That seems to be what most people today think it was like for most people in the past due to lack of education about sexual norms throughout history.
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Maybe there are a few truly clueless people out there but it was not really news to me. How can you be surprised by this? The average person sees an attractive member of whatever sex they prefer walking down the street is normally going to think "Wow I would like to get with that!". It doesn't take a very big intuitive leap to figure that some people would do more than think about it.
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You can't watch any movie without sex, drugs and killing in it. Movies and ads are getting worse and worse.
I rarely watch movies because thats all it has in it
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Posted 7/12/09
It never was.
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Sex was never about love, ever since multicellular and multi gendered plant and animal species first appeared it's been about reproduction. Some species also figured out it was fun and felt good, so with some species its about that too.
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Sex was never about love for you guys^

It is about love for alot of other people. It's something subjective, so speak for yourselves.
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sex is not about love, it's about fucking for the pleasure~~~
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superpower4life wrote:

sex is not about love, it's about fucking for the pleasure~~~


Amen to that brother.

Interesting point to consider is that if sex wasn't fun, would hte human species have died out, or would it be less abundant as it is now...
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Kodachi_Zami wrote:

You can't watch any movie without sex, drugs and killing in it. Movies and ads are getting worse and worse.
I rarely watch movies because thats all it has in it


Funni u say that...some ppl would say they watch more coz of all that
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I NOW JUST WAHT YOU MEAN. at the age 8 i learned about sex and i thought it was grouse. but later i thought it was fun, the point is that the things they put on tv and movies are not for KID OR TEENS. only adault so pregntse isnt a proble anymore. but i do believe that sex is only for the one u love. im still a vergen and im in love but im to young so wa wa wa. keep in mind about the life you want to live and dont forget it.
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Yei wrote:

Sex was never about love for you guys^


...Or anyone else who doesn't have a fairy-tale perception of what love and sex are like. Which seems to be most people.
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Cuddlebuns wrote:


Yei wrote:

Sex was never about love for you guys^


...Or anyone else who doesn't have a fairy-tale perception of what love and sex are like. Which seems to be most people.


Fairy-tale perspective? It's not really far-fetched to incorporate sex with love, and this topic has a point if you think it is.
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Yei

Fairy-tale perspective? It's not really far-fetched to incorporate sex with love, and this topic has a point if you think it is.


I don't think it's far-fetched, just not as common as many people expect it to be.

By fairy-tale perspective, I mean the idea that you will only have sex with the person you truly love, and it will be magical and wonderful and flawless every time, and you will live happily ever after until death do you part with no real problems in between. Most teenagers expect love and sex to be that simple, when in reality I don't think there are many people who only have sex with someone that they love. They'll most likely think they've fallen in love when it's really just infatuation, then they'll go ahead and have sex with the person because they think they love them, but later find out that it was just lust.

I don't know if any of that made sense, I kind of started rambling. But my point is that few people today and throughout history have had sex only with someone they truly love. It's usually just lust, and people tend to confuse that with love (i.e "love at first sight").
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Cuddlebuns wrote:


Yei

Fairy-tale perspective? It's not really far-fetched to incorporate sex with love, and this topic has a point if you think it is.


I don't think it's far-fetched, just not as common as many people expect it to be.

By fairy-tale perspective, I mean the idea that you will only have sex with the person you truly love, and it will be magical and wonderful and flawless every time, and you will live happily ever after until death do you part with no real problems in between. Most teenagers expect love and sex to be that simple, when in reality I don't think there are many people who only have sex with someone that they love. They'll most likely think they've fallen in love when it's really just infatuation, then they'll go ahead and have sex with the person because they think they love them, but later find out that it was just lust.

I don't know if any of that made sense, I kind of started rambling. But my point is that few people today and throughout history have had sex only with someone they truly love. It's usually just lust, and people tend to confuse that with love (i.e "love at first sight").


Even so lust and love are just about the same thing. If your to look at the human brain it is the same part of the brain. Love is only the feeling of need and mix in the lust for someones body into it. There really nothing else to the idea of love.
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