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Sex Isn't about love anymore?
Posted 8/19/09
I think kids these days are watching too much shit like American Pie.

On a serious note, I guess it's just how sex is meant to people. I mean, as for me, I don't believe that you have to love someone to have sex with them. They're two different components. You can love without having sex at all, right?

The world has changed a lot throughout the years, especially since when sex was seen as something so discrete and between partners that they never liked to speak about it with one another let alone anyone else. Now it's been made so open, through the media... and lets face it, porn for example.

People are changing, kids are being brought up differently. Let's face it. Sex isn't going to be seen the same as it used to. At least to a lot.
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Posted 8/19/09

mystic17 wrote:

eh, don't like playing the blame game since many things contribute to this. but mainly is people's fault.


I agree even if the media shows that kind of things its UP to the PEOPLE to follow the flow or not
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Posted 8/19/09
Why only blame the media?
What about the parents that dont know how to give them a good slap in the face or spanken in the booty.
Second teachers now tell kids USE PROTECTION what kind of * is that?
its basically telling them "its okay if you have sex as long as you use condoms or use birth contro"
Now schools are trying to let nurses give birth control to kids in schoool...what the....
thats even trying to help them do it.

The media kinda too, but not alot.
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Posted 8/23/09
i should blame the media and all the freedom we have.

FREEDOM. we abuse it much and use it wrongly.
Posted 8/23/09
live in the future, not the past imo.

just becos the past was like that, stop complaining how the future changed.

there will always be a passed to look back on and compare in every generation, to not be too influenced by that is how mankind will move forward and avoid downfalls.

it's not too bad.

imo
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Posted 8/23/09
sex IS about love....use to be lol bt yes its not abt love anymore. plp only want pleasure n guys want the girl's body n all tht so nt anymore.
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Posted 8/23/09 , edited 8/23/09
I would say it's societies morals that have ruined it and the twisted opinion of the word Love.

Sex without love is nothing more that an emotionless act of breeding........an act based on instinct, like animals. Love is what makes sex for Humans different than animals because it put's more meaning into it than simply breeding. (Love - a strong affection for or attachment or devotion to a person or persons.) Love and lust are to different things; love is an emotion and lust is an action, go read your dictionaries. To love someone means to care for them more than yourself or your desires and wishes. To lust for someone means to crave for them.

In my personal opinion sex is meant to give a part of oneself physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually to another for forever: and is meant only for a person who you want to have a part of you. For scenarios of "False Love" I'll say this. Stay with a person you think you may love for a long time [year(s)] and try to understand who they are (Their dreams, ideals, thoughts, opinions, etc..) Spend time together without having sex or anything along those lines and I can guarantee it will bring out weather you actually love the person, or if it was just a fluke of the moment:)
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Posted 8/24/09

tweexar wrote:

i should blame the media and all the freedom we have.

FREEDOM. we abuse it much and use it wrongly.


I beg to disagree.
As what you have stated WE abused freedom.

Freedom and Media are wonderful gifts given to us,'our generation', but we abused it. So it means, WE are to blame.

In my POV, sex became more on physical because of the sin called "Lust" - one of the seven deadly sins/Capital vices. This kind of things have been happening ever since the occurrence of the said "Sins". But humans has the power to resist these sins, we have the what so called 'Free-Will'. We make our own decisions. But sad to say, most of us were been persuaded by this 'Lust/Pleasure'. So, again We are to blame.

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Posted 8/24/09

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tweexar wrote:

i should blame the media and all the freedom we have.

FREEDOM. we abuse it much and use it wrongly.


I beg to disagree.
As what you have stated WE abused freedom.

Freedom and Media are wonderful gifts given to us,'our generation', but we abused it. So it means, WE are to blame.

In my POV, sex became more on physical because of the sin called "Lust" - one of the seven deadly sins/Capital vices. This kind of things have been happening ever since the occurrence of the said "Sins". But humans has the power to resist these sins, we have the what so called 'Free-Will'. We make our own decisions. But sad to say, most of us were been persuaded by this 'Lust/Pleasure'. So, again We are to blame.



i agree. =.=

but you didnt understand well the point of my reply. well, i can assume that you dont want freedom to be blamed? but instead it is the "we" and our desires?

let me ask you, do you think you can buy a lollipop that you really really love f your mom locks you inside the house and wont let you go out?
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Posted 8/24/09
People always blame the media. But darling people run the media. It's people,it's everyones fault really. I don't believe sex was ever about love,and love was ever about sex to start with. You might have sex with someone you might love,and you have might not with someone you love. ^-^
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Posted 8/25/09

tweexar wrote:


hello1993 wrote:


tweexar wrote:

i should blame the media and all the freedom we have.

FREEDOM. we abuse it much and use it wrongly.


I beg to disagree.
As what you have stated WE abused freedom.

Freedom and Media are wonderful gifts given to us,'our generation', but we abused it. So it means, WE are to blame.

In my POV, sex became more on physical because of the sin called "Lust" - one of the seven deadly sins/Capital vices. This kind of things have been happening ever since the occurrence of the said "Sins". But humans has the power to resist these sins, we have the what so called 'Free-Will'. We make our own decisions. But sad to say, most of us were been persuaded by this 'Lust/Pleasure'. So, again We are to blame.



i agree. =.=

but you didnt understand well the point of my reply. well, i can assume that you dont want freedom to be blamed? but instead it is the "we" and our desires?

let me ask you, do you think you can buy a lollipop that you really really love f your mom locks you inside the house and wont let you go out?




I didn't mean that freedom should be stirred away. What I want to imply is to USE freedom wisely just like "Vote wisely".

regarding your question; My answer is "NO". It is not bad to eat lollipop and sweets, but it is when you abused it. So your mom would probably lock you up when you abused the freedom she gave to you.

Another example is in Drug Users, you shouldn't blame drugs for making people insane, It's the abusers who must be blamed right?
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Posted 8/28/09
sex =/= love .
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Posted 8/28/09
sex certainly doesn't equal love....
but love can equal sex...
lust, however, exists in both
love can be born from lust,
lust can be born from love
all three are separate things that go together so powerfully because it's sooooo.... old
we have millenia of sex, lust, and love
the normal combination of these three have changed over time (to probably lust, sex, love, then lust again in that order)

sidenote: love can be all kinds of things, finding someone alike you, finding someone who complets you, finding someone who wants you for you, etc. so sex can lead to love (its getting harder to find someone to befriend and then go up the relationship ladder without getting physical earlier than love has time to form)

note: i believe love is caring for the other person and wanting him/her to be happy

bottom line: love is confusing but sex is certain (i rambled too much )
Posted 8/28/09 , edited 8/28/09
...since when does sex have anything to do with love? I thought it was all about reproduction and fun.
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Posted 8/28/09
tottaly agree. did anyone see tht commercial that said something like " mom, dad, can we talk about sex? im not your * instert gayyy nickname here * anymore " i saw liek a giant billboard about sex and im like ummm.....theres children here O.o
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