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Sex Isn't about love anymore?
Posted 7/15/10
What is love anyway these days? Growing up in this sort of society (13) I've really notices love is naught more than a lust for multiple things nowadays.
I mean sure, often times OTI relationships seem more immaculate than IRL
Because people can pretend
And hide,
And still be perfect no matter what
Now why do I not think love is any bit more than rare
Multiple reasons
Sadly, many women are materialistic, often only getting with some poor bastard for money
And us men are so controlled by our sex drive that we can't help it when a pretty blonde is grinding on us.
Of course, I'm not saying love is impossible.
Often times I'll see anyone, ranging from ages 10-70 walking about, holding hands, looking so very contented.
Honestly, I'm envious of those relationships.
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It's hard nowadays
Posted 7/15/10
This is an interesting topic but I'll add by saying this:

#1 Although technology has greatly sped up the processing of information many things have remained stagnant throughout the ages.

#2 If you don't agree just take another look at history, "When in Rome do as the Romans do" yeah which means orgy time & the new Spartacus series depicts this well.

#3 In fact sex has fallen from grace for a long time all over the world & kids were exposed to it much more in the past then they are today.

#4 The total blame doesn't fall on men "Myself being a man" but men do play a large role in this shame. Why else would most "Western Nations" have more females than males? Western country's tend to treat woman better & don't necessarily rely on birthing a male. In a place like China "My wife is Chinese" there is an ever increasing shortage of woman.....why? My point is that when you have so few men around the world with multiple wives & treat woman like objects then in that sense sex has lost its grace. But not completely with everyone.
Posted 7/17/10
I think it's the media and the parents. All they show on TV is sex. Some kids don't have enough love at home and seek it somewhere else. Friends are pressuring other friends to "just do" it. Kids are becoming pregnant more younger and more often.... I don't know anymore. What is LOVE anyway?
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Posted 7/18/10 , edited 7/18/10
'Bahh A pile of bullshit.'

Bunch of people who do not even know what love is.



"" O its not about love anymore..! """


Hate to brake it too you it have never been about love. It has always been about survival and instincts nothing more.


To claim its more than that is to demonstrate no understanding of what love is or the reality around you.

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Posted 7/18/10

Yumi-no-ai wrote:

I think it's the media and the parents. All they show on TV is sex. Some kids don't have enough love at home and seek it somewhere else. Friends are pressuring other friends to "just do" it. Kids are becoming pregnant more younger and more often.... I don't know anymore. What is LOVE anyway?


It's pretty sad isn't it ?
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Posted 7/19/10
Agreed!Sex may not totally be about love,but in my opinion I think it should be with someone you know you'll enjoy it with.Most girls I know who've had sex before 16 felt like sh*t afterward.I blame, parents,media,and pressure.
Posted 7/20/10
L is for the way you look... at me!!
Posted 7/21/10
Personal Opinion:

No matter how much good looking a bitch can be, if I ain't interested I will never get interested to touch her.

Love probably is name people call for something they can't explain. Takes something for people to get some balls in approaching a stranger. The least we know... lack of interest will always mess things up.

If we are just to fuck anybody just because of the urge then we can just use any sockets available or if not. We can just make some sockets at home or buy some toys for ourselves for immediate release of passion or something or whatever you call it.

For people who don't believe in love, then what do you call that irresistible passion you feel about people? If there's no thing as love we won't see the beast and the ugly. Or you name them...
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Posted 7/22/10
When I feel a lot of affection and love.
Like a strong, non-physical attraction.


It is easier for me to cum.

Other times when it feels routine and just for pleasure, it takes me aggggeeesss

For some reason, the desire to be closer and to be affectionate makes me reach orgasm faster and stronger.
But then again it's also after Ive had a jealous rage about some guy


and cosplay is always fun, so i guess i know what you mean










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Posted 8/19/10
i dont think the media and parents are to blame. it’s simply our peers.
just because everyone is ’doing it’ other people want to fit in and not be the odd one out, and be known for being ’fridgid’. it’s silly i think. everyone seems to be having sex to look cool, grown up and have a story to tell. it’s pretty bad. where have us kid’s childhoods gone? D: why can’t we wait to grow up, wait to have sex with someone we want to, and be comfortable with, not just some random person. it does make me sad, also, because there are people in my school (about 11/12) who are having sex already!
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Posted 8/19/10 , edited 8/19/10
Fun read so far I do believe media is part responsible but seeing as how many good points have already been brought up I don't have much to add... The only thing I haven't seen is the concept of love being an adhesive which keeps both parents together to ensure a higher probability that their offspring would survive to a point in which they can care for themselves and continue propagation to ensure the parent's genetic legacy.

Unfortunately, the problem I see with the above theory would be to then argue that all organism that pair-rear their offspring utilize "love". So in that vein, I'd like to point out that I'm only restricting the idea to humans. I'm not much of a biologist but human beings do care for their children for a considerably longer period of time than most other animals right?

Anyways, that's pretty much all I can try to contribute. Subjectively though, I do think love is a lot more than just an instinct . I guess think of it this way: sex while useful for reproductive purposes can also alleviate stress etc so it doesn't always have to be about love.
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Posted 9/4/10
Look at history, many marriages didn't involve love at all. You can't say this is the fault of the media or whatever that sex has no love. Even marrying someone you love is a rather "new" idea. Many didn't even love their spouses before marriage when it was expected that they had to have sex.

People's views on marriage and sex have changed in the past couple 100 years. Check out some of the historical sex practices. I mean, we've found ANCIENT EGYPTIAN PORN. People have always, since the beginning of people, wanted to have sex for fun.

Biologically speaking, sex IS for enjoyment, people aren't going to want to reproduce if it's a horrible process. There doesn't need to be love involved in it. Not everyone needs that element. What two or more consenting adults do is between them. Look at sex in animals too, it's used by bonobos for conflict resolution.
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Posted 9/22/10
Yes, we can't deny that sex to some isn't all about love anymore.

No one is to blame but the devil. Because of various devilish reasons and mainly uncontrollable temptations, girls and boys make it out without love.
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Posted 9/23/10
Only silly little girls fall for that one. A boy will tell he loves you bout after sex he will find another girl. the male at this age is far more interested in the conquest of the hunt. They will tell you anything to have sex. romance novels are a young girls enemy if you take that stuff to hart.
Posted 9/24/10

tarakelly wrote:

Only silly little girls fall for that one. A boy will tell he loves you bout after sex he will find another girl. the male at this age is far more interested in the conquest of the hunt. They will tell you anything to have sex. romance novels are a young girls enemy if you take that stuff to hart.


O_______o wow something smart but on a side note if the world ever became ill agian on low population i don't think we would care about love to have sex, we would have it in order to re-populate much like they did back in the dark ages when the bubonic plague was around.
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