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Sex Isn't about love anymore?
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Posted 9/24/10
consenting adults having sex is none of your business
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52 / F / Atlanta GA
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Wow way off the mark about ( Sex Isn't about love anymore? ) It sound more like a business transaction with you ?
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Hmm....

Well, I've always thought that "sex" and "love" were two very different subjects. After all, the way I thought about it, when was sex ever about love? Isn't sex just a way for animals and humans to spread their genes and procreate and such? And if that isn't it, isn't sex just used to relax...or enjoy yourself...or to release tension, or something like that?

I mean, sure two people who love each other could, well, would have sex, and it could be a nice, intimate moment between them...but when you really get down to the nitty-gritty, love isn't really needed when it comes to sex.

After all, two people could be deeply in love and still not have any sex, right?
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Two becoming one is a holy experience. It should be enjoyed within the covenant of marriage, and I'm thankful that mine involves a very intense love!!! But if it didn't, the vow I made before the LORD would take precedence. Sadly, the media does not portray such a picture of intimacy as I'm describing EVER. (((((HUGS))))) sandi
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the racist american media don't portray real life
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there's no one to blame....the true is ''WE'' started it first....Parents!!plz..dont blame them....they teach us what good to us and it up to us to listen or not........but i really agreed that sex isn't about love anymore,most of couple will having sex when they dating.....
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Personally i dont think that sex has ever been solely about love. Love generally leads to sex, but not all sex is due to love. I think what has changed in the world is people have become much more open about their sexual activities than they were before. Before sex was a big taboo, and now people speak of it more openly. Therefore before it seemed like people only had sex for love, but that could possibly be because people did not tell others about sex they had outside of love before. That doesnt mean they didnt have it, it just means it was not talked about.
I would even dare to say with the years, the amount of sex overall has decreased. People now a days have less free time than before. If you think about the 17th and 18th century, once the sun went down, there was very little to do once the sun went down. I would think back then, when people were in their houses when the sun went down and had really nothing to od, they would probably have sex in the daily basis. It really was not derived solely from love, in that case there would be a strong boredom influence to it.
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It is true that sex isn't about love anymore. People just do it because they like it and because they just want it. it has turned into a horrible sin!
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Posted 12/26/10

Angelicious3 wrote:

It is true that sex isn't about love anymore. People just do it because they like it and because they just want it. it has turned into a horrible sin!


the sex lives of people are none OF YOUR BUSINESS
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Posted 12/26/10

Angelicious3 wrote:

It is true that sex isn't about love anymore. People just do it because they like it and because they just want it. it has turned into a horrible sin!


What's wrong with people doing it because they like it or want it?
And sex never has been only about love.

lmao ~horrible sin!!!~
u r funny!
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sex was never about love it is about the procreation and protection of our species on this planet. Love might have some affect to do with the person that your mating with but the soul purpose of sex has always been to persevere and pass on our genetic code so that our species survives.
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"The state has no business in the bedrooms of the nation" - Pierre Troudeau
Posted 12/28/10

Cecilthedarkknight234 wrote:

sex was never about love it is about the procreation and protection of our species on this planet. Love might have some affect to do with the person that your mating with but the soul purpose of sex has always been to persevere and pass on our genetic code so that our species survives.
We're not trees, when there are deep and complex sociological forces in human sexuality.
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DomFortress wrote:


Cecilthedarkknight234 wrote:

sex was never about love it is about the procreation and protection of our species on this planet. Love might have some affect to do with the person that your mating with but the soul purpose of sex has always been to persevere and pass on our genetic code so that our species survives.
We're not trees, when there are deep and complex sociological forces in human sexuality.


let me ask this dom if humanity was on the verge of extinction what would we do then? We would have no choice but to forcibly mate with one another in order to make our species survives, it has happened in the past during plagues and It will happen again. I am no saying that love does not exist all I am saying that it is a human emotion that has evolved with us as our species get's older.
Posted 12/29/10 , edited 12/29/10

Cecilthedarkknight234 wrote:



let me ask this dom if humanity was on the verge of extinction what would we do then? We would have no choice but to forcibly mate with one another in order to make our species survives, it has happened in the past during plagues and It will happen again. I am no saying that love does not exist all I am saying that it is a human emotion that has evolved with us as our species get's older.
That's only when you unwittingly reduce "humanity" down to solely populating the human specie. When diversity through individual dignity is needed for survival of the fittest. I mean really, when there are nearly 6.8 billions of us, while there's not enough full-time employments. You tell me do we have an aging-population crisis? Or something else entirely.
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