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Should I stay or should I go now?
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What would you do if the person you love pushes you away and looks for excuses to leave you because they feel they do not deserve you?
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29 / M / Aboard the Hyperion
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If you know that much then reassure the person that that is not the case. If they feel they don't deserve you and you think otherwise, then you just have to let them know and make it work out. If you agree with them, then there's no point in continuing that relationship is there? But more often than not, it's the former case and they only do it because they don't really know what you think unless told directly. For some others, there may still be lingering doubts and you have to keep reassuring them.
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25 / M / Cavite, Philippines
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The proper question is, why does the person think he doesn't deserve you?
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Posted 7/8/09 , edited 7/9/09

thewidow wrote:

What would you do if the person you love pushes you away and looks for excuses to leave you because they feel they do not deserve you?


So many people in this world.
I'm sure you can find a new one (regardless of your looks, personality etc).
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Well, they clearly are having some self-worth issues that they need to work out. I'd just continue doing my best to be supportive and positive around them, and compliment them whenever the opportunity arises. But...honestly, I can't be with someone who has that little self-confidence. I mean, it's cool if a boy wants to be super romantic and say things like "You are wonderful; I don't know how I got so lucky" but if it went to the EXTREME you're describing, there's no way I'd be able to deal with that. I'd be dragged down, and he'd be feeding off my sympathy. I've made the mistake of letting people do that to me before. I'm not letting that happen again.
Posted 7/9/09
I'll just find another person. love comes & goes....
Posted 7/9/09
Take this shit back to general discussion!
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Posted 7/10/09
Boyfriends and girlfriends come and go but friends stay forever. XD
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21 / F / Texas
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Posted 7/11/09
Hmm what to do...

Situation:

Boy: i dont deserve you!
Me: *hugs chu!* I know, so shut up and lets go we got a date you dumbass :D

Best solution for everything!
Posted 7/11/09
that never happens
its our famous guy excuse

sorry but whoever told you that just doesnt want you haha
Posted 7/11/09
I love the Clash

Answer: this is bullshit. No-one ever let herself/himself down with this "Me lame for everyone" crap. Even me who hates almost everything in herself thinks often: "Wait, I'm still too cool for this planet babe".
Posted 7/11/09
Hmmm. I always feel that I'm unworthy for the person I love. Maybe because oftentimes it's true ^_^"
But I don't use it as an excuse because I want to prove myself that I can be suitable for her in some ways. Although I always end up not being satisfied with what I do. .. my love ones can help me by making me feel that I'm still needed in their lives. I seriously want to be needed by somebody. Lawl. I don't know, I have no desire to be liked nor disliked but I want to be needed and to be of help in any way to the people I consider important.
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21 / M / Lowell
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Posted 7/11/09
keep on bothering that person, like bother that person everyday.
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He sounds like a douche...

he really doesn't deserve you.
just told him to drown himself
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22 / M / Massachusetts
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Posted 7/11/09
"Because you're ghetto." JK But maybe.
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