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Are YOU afraid of FALLING IN LOVE, if you've been HURT TOO MUCH before?
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Posted 8/17/09

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no, i have never been in love so i do not know the pain of being heartbroken


Wecome to the club ,I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels that way ..

Is it better to have loved and lost, or never have loved at all? The question is unfair and can not be answered. Many that have loved and lost, wish they never would have loved. It would erase the pain in thier heart, soul. Ones who have never loved like you and I often wish they had. They get tired of hearing how great it is from those who are having a great experience because they have someone who cares for them and wonder “why not me?”

which is how I feel ,it suck when you love and fail but at least you know what love feels like but it suck even more when you don't right ?

I'm sure you have the same feeling as I do ..

i do share your feelings

and that is a very good opinion. i agree, i think it is better to have loved and failed because it is very painful seeing alot of people in love and thinking "why not me?"etc.
everytime i see a couple in love i think to myself why are they so lucky. it is very painful

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Posted 8/17/09

KevoH wrote:


foxy12 wrote:


KevoH wrote:

no, i have never been in love so i do not know the pain of being heartbroken


Wecome to the club ,I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels that way ..

Is it better to have loved and lost, or never have loved at all? The question is unfair and can not be answered. Many that have loved and lost, wish they never would have loved. It would erase the pain in thier heart, soul. Ones who have never loved like you and I often wish they had. They get tired of hearing how great it is from those who are having a great experience because they have someone who cares for them and wonder “why not me?”

which is how I feel ,it suck when you love and fail but at least you know what love feels like but it suck even more when you don't right ?

I'm sure you have the same feeling as I do ..

i do share your feelings

and that is a very good opinion. i agree, i think it is better to have loved and failed because it is very painful seeing alot of people in love and thinking "why not me?"etc.
everytime i see a couple in love i think to myself why are they so lucky. it is very painful



Many ppl tell me 'don't fall in love because it sucks' but I think it's unfair and selfish for them to tell me that just because they falied doesn't mean the samething will happen to me right ?cuz how do they know maybe things will work out for me and if they don't then at least it'll be like a learning experience ..

But your only 15 so don't lose hope ,I'm 20 years old and no guy has ever ask me out not even once ,imagine how that feels and I'm starting to lose hope because of it

I wouidn't mind being in love even if it's unrequited .It's enough for me just knowing the feeling ,why did i reach a point where I don't mind being in an unrequited love any way ? what's wrong with me ?am I this hopless ..those in love don't know how lucky they are .T T

WAW ,I'm so depressed
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Posted 8/17/09

foxy12 wrote:


KevoH wrote:


foxy12 wrote:


KevoH wrote:

no, i have never been in love so i do not know the pain of being heartbroken


Wecome to the club ,I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels that way ..

Is it better to have loved and lost, or never have loved at all? The question is unfair and can not be answered. Many that have loved and lost, wish they never would have loved. It would erase the pain in thier heart, soul. Ones who have never loved like you and I often wish they had. They get tired of hearing how great it is from those who are having a great experience because they have someone who cares for them and wonder “why not me?”

which is how I feel ,it suck when you love and fail but at least you know what love feels like but it suck even more when you don't right ?

I'm sure you have the same feeling as I do ..

i do share your feelings

and that is a very good opinion. i agree, i think it is better to have loved and failed because it is very painful seeing alot of people in love and thinking "why not me?"etc.
everytime i see a couple in love i think to myself why are they so lucky. it is very painful



Many ppl tell me but I think it's unfair and selfish for them to tell me that just because they falied doesn't mean the samething will happen to me right ?cuz how do they know maybe things will work out for me and if they don't then at least it'll be like a learning experience ..

But your only 15 so don't lose hope ,I'm 20 years old and no guy has ever ask me out not even once ,imagine how that feels and I'm starting to lose hope because of it

I wouidn't mind being in love even if it's unrequited .It's enough for me just knowing the feeling ,why did i reach a point where I don't mind being in an unrequited love any way ? what's wrong with me ?am I this hopless ..those in love don't know how lucky they are .T T

WAW ,I'm so depressed


yeah it is unfair for them to say that to you because the pain of loving and losing, and the pain of never loving are completely different. Each of those might be more painful the the other to different people, so they shouldnt tell you "'don't fall in love because it sucks'"
because it might be more painful for you to never fall in love.

i already know that i shouldnt lose hope, but even if your 20 the same advice applys to you. you may feel like there is no longer any hope but there always is.

your right though those in love and those who have been in love dont know how lucky they are

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Posted 9/18/09
maybe????!?
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Posted 9/18/09
i say no because I have never fallen in love.......
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Posted 9/18/09
Maybe- I don't really know myself too well at this point... I'm not interested in a relationship anymore but this might be a psychological "yes I don't want to date again". There's also the fact that I never actually found out why I had to break up, the detective spirit is constantly burning inside of me to find the truth but on the other hand, I really don't want to backtrack into that since I'm over the depression period & all.
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Posted 9/19/09
Probably doesn't matter to me. Not everyone is the same.
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Posted 9/24/09 , edited 9/24/09
Maybe. Maybe I'll be afraid, but who knows if I ever destined to fall in love again.
Posted 10/1/09
yah .... cuz it hurts badly as if ur heart been stabbed
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Posted 10/1/09
Its to complicated, and I'd rather live life without falling in love,.,,... so NO
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Posted 10/1/09
u cant control ppl's feeling so...having 2 b dumped by a person u like wouldn't make me afraid of loving again
but i will b more careful in if we can trust this person or not..will he be better or just look more inside him?
it would take longer but i wont b afraid
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Posted 10/1/09
No, I already tasted the bitterness part of love.. Therefore, I'm buckled up and ready to go take a chance on a new life starting with experience backing me up.. The sky is the limit when it comes to love.. You get hurt, you learn from it..
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Posted 10/1/09
well , i never been in love, i think it is hard for me to fall in love coz of my nature, but wht u know may be someday i wil fall in love with somebody... may be care less about tht
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Posted 10/1/09
NO coz that's life ,love life isn't perfect in this world..If you've been hurt too much that is the destiny , I admit i would like to be hurt coz when it rains it pours and the sunshine again and it will bloom. That means he/she isn't worth it theres GREATEST you will encounter you have just to wait for it.
Posted 10/1/09
Love comes from the intense feeling of attraction you see between all creatures that desire to support each other and/or mate. For humans, we have broadened it into something beyond that with complications and the potential of such fathomless pain or towering heights of joy. We all need affection from someone at times. Many people will walk a path without love and others will be extremely dependent on it. I have never known romantic love myself. I chose to look at things from an analytical perspective. I observe the behavioral patterns of people who are in love and draw conclusions from that. Humans often find that no matter what they do, someone comes along to change their lives forever. I wonder if all people have that special someone just waiting predestined for them. It seems so, but it is of course not that simple. We have to go out there and find whoever it is that we might fall in love with or we will never see them. If love never finds us, we are often challenged to find reasons to keep living on, let alone enjoy life.
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