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76 / M / NON OF YOUR GODDA...
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Posted 5/18/07
I got my girl pregnant and we need to find out how to break it to our parents. The worst thing is her parents are hard core catholics so yeah, any ideas how we could let them know?
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Uhmm that's tough I guess prove to her parents that you guys can support a child and that you're both serious about being a family and stuff? dunno how to help you on this one...
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76 / M / NON OF YOUR GODDA...
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Posted 5/18/07
That could work.
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I don't think this is the best place to ask for advice.
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20 / M / Boston
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Posted 5/18/07

mauz15 wrote:

I don't think this is the best place to ask for advice.


Oh come on sensitively is definitely what we're all best at.

There's really no way around just sitting down and bringing it up.
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21 / F / SDF-1
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Posted 5/18/07
Why everyone thinks these forums are for life help?

Try this:

http://www.drphil.com

http://suicidehotlines.com/
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29 / M / North Carolina
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Posted 5/18/07
n0odle, this time I don't think it was funny. Just tell them on the phone.
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30 / M / Phoenix Arizona
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IDK cant help u but i am doing a report on the second u found out ur girlfriend was pregnant i already have about three descriptions could u do me a favor and tell us all how that moment felt and what was going throught ur mind just for information purposes
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26 / F / pepsi vending mac...
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Posted 5/18/07
no matter the situation honesty is the best thing. things would be worse and worse the longer you keep it from them. other than that your kinda on your own. this is why i dont have sex. -no offense best of luck-
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Posted 5/18/07
Hmmm... she should tell her parents, and then you can talk to them. If you say it then all they will do is vent anger. Tell your gf to be sweet about it and hopefully they will understand. But I would consider marrying the girl. Raising children will be hard if she has to do it a lone.
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30 / M / Japan
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Posted 5/18/07
Umm... expect a lot of junk from people here. I kinda agree with Mauz, simply because many people will just make fun of you if you post your problem publicly, although some people are willing to help.:)

seac88 makes a good point: you'll have to tell your parents. How is not the problem, because you did it. What's done is done. You don't have to give flowers or anything, just tell them. The problem is timing. Make it a point too that you're willing to shoulder responsibility for the child as well. I've known a couple people who got into this pinch and are currently living happy lives as we speak. So I guess, if it comes as a consolation, you could do it too.
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28 / M / naha okinawa
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Posted 5/18/07
A. Agree to help parent the child
B. Marry, and raise the child together
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25 / M / Hayward, CA - OR...
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umm...i guess this sounds kind of like a smart-alec comment, but you could just say that you don't believe in birth control either..eheheh
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Posted 5/18/07
This is what happened to one of my little brothers' friend. He was 17 and had a kid except he got the balls to support the baby.
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28 / F / Texxass
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Posted 5/18/07
you were both very very very drunk

VERY
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