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How can you get over a guy/girl?
Posted 5/18/07
Well, i am asking this question because well I can't get over this guy. I need some feed back so i would have an idea.
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Posted 5/18/07
I'm sorry to say that there is usually no easy way. Just be strong I think you will find that after any relationship in which you really cared about you're partner, you will still think of them from time to time even years later. It's just one of those things that is a little painful but life is full of.
Posted 5/18/07
by eyeball i guess cause that what i do heheheheh

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Posted 5/18/07
thanks for ur advice Knightwyvern. Do you have any suggestions, to stop thinking about that person?
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Posted 5/18/07
hmm.. I usually never thought about forgetting someone because I'll always think of him as a friend just not the feelings we/I used to had or you can always try making new friends and keeping yourself busy with lots of fun! ^^..
Posted 5/18/07
thanks for the advice thinkgreen. I will try to be busy and not think of him.
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Posted 5/18/07
Try to take up the time you would normally have to think about this person with some activities you really enjoy. Don't mope around and brood over him. You will feel much better if you stay active and busy. Also, do not be tempted to "check up" on this person. I know it can be a very enticing thought, but it really isn't worth it.
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Posted 5/18/07
haha if you're going to say you'll try.. you'll probably be trying too hard... just have fun... and don't choose to be busy like making plans everyday because you want to... the idea here isn't really to get over him.. its actually for you to move onto a new happiness :] .. esp with your girls! haha
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Posted 5/18/07
Very well put TG, we must think alike.
Posted 5/18/07
Thanks again thinkgreen.. I really want to move on and be friends with him and then i can talk to him like we are freinds.
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Posted 5/18/07
haha thanks knightwyern

hey..it's great that you're having an idea what you want to do.. but remember in this kind of situation of course all girls want to move on haha however to be honest most guys still gets a weird feeling about being around their ex so... eventually when you'll try talking to him he's probably going to have a completely different reaction.. haha so don't worry about it.. and if this keep up... don't strangle yourself to still be great friends.
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Posted 5/19/07
well... do something else...like sighing up for kendo or jundo
Posted 5/19/07
I`m still friends with my exes , you never really get over someone who has been that close to you. You just have to realize that they will always have a place in your heart , and no amount of wanting will change that.
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Posted 5/19/07
one month drinking,then one month dating,one night stand etc.,then a new girl/boy-friend
and finally after three months meeting the ex and finding out that you already got over him/her.
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Posted 5/19/07
wat are you guys thinking for now!?
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