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Assuming or Expecting?
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Posted 8/12/09
I agree with you

assuming is assuming .. it's all in your mind as you said

and it looks alike what scientist does ,, he put his assuming but not expecting that will be true 100%

until he makes some experiences to prove his assuming

but expecting .. you expect someone to do what do you want

and then suddenly nothing .. it will hurt


ummmm .. I don't know ,, maybe sometimes assuming hurt


oooooo.. it's really confusing me


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Posted 8/12/09
Well, I think assuming is overall worse than expecting...

imo, when you assume things, you hold on to the belief that what your believing is the whole truth(although i know its not always like that, but still...) and if you turn out to be wrong, you can really hurt people that are in the situation

As humans, it's inevitable that we expect things that we want and to assume things that we want to believe
But I guess both are pretty bad, it just really depends on what kind of situation it is...
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Posted 8/13/09
all i know is that both assuming and expecting disappoints me
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Posted 8/13/09
based upon experiences....expecting something & you fail to have is more heartbreaking than assuming....assuming is just something that you just think but it can be impossible to happened or to have it....while expecting, your thinking something that is 99%-100% sure of to be happened and your just waitng..waitng until you die...arrrgh.and thats really sad...aaaaaayz
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Posted 8/13/09
wonder which is easier
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Posted 8/16/09
uh i guess excepting cause its like your ............. my brain hurts
Posted 8/16/09
i agree that expecting is worse
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Posted 8/16/09
go to the dictionary and look up the 2 words.
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Posted 8/16/09
Uh..this kind of confused me a bit.
But I think I know where you're headed.

I think that expecting would hurt more..like if you expect more from a person.
assuming something, is just like waiting to be proved wrong or right.
Posted 8/16/09

ambheng wrote:

uhm...just to share what about the assuming and expecting goes on...
last night i got a text message from my friend...it's a quote saying that expecting does not hurt us..but assuming does...

i just replied that what is the difference between assuming and expecting...why does she say that assuming hurts us than expecting while in fact, i think, expecting comes after assuming...and vice versa. Here is my point..i think that expecting does much hurt us rather than assuming...why?..you can assume without expecting that person to do a next step...its all in the mind...while expecting, you wanted more and REALLY expect something to happen..right?...


so here is it...what do you think much more hurt us in a situation?assuming or expecting?....

share you opinions please...thanks...


if u REALLY think about...........
they're BOTH gonna hurt u NO MATTER WAT....


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Posted 8/16/09

garcon wrote:

all i know is that both assuming and expecting disappoints me


LOL
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Posted 8/16/09
Expecting something is to Know that someing will or should happen, therefore it can be both harmful and peaceful, on the otherhand Assuming something is to think you know it is going to happen and is mostly a negative feeling to someone. However, whats worse is demanding something. That always pisses me off if its not Job Related.
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Posted 8/17/09
both really sucks. when i assume i also start to expect from what i have assumed
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Posted 8/17/09
assuming hurts more
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Posted 8/17/09 , edited 8/17/09
i prefer assuming.
expecting is more like, err hoping or somethin'?
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