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Posted 5/19/07 , edited 5/19/07
After watching several episodes of aishiteruze baby, I saw yuzuyu and shouta and cried for them. So do you think raising a children is really that hard? Whose fault is it? Are the children in our modern life are neglected due to their selfish parents who care only about themselves? Or there is not much understanding between the child and parent?

I felt that the parents are responsible since they are the one who decided to create that life, so they should bear full responsibility and not just escape the problem or blame it on the child for their mistakes.

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Posted 5/19/07
Of course the parents responsible! You cannot expect a child to care for themselves or have the mental, physical, emotional, or any other kind of maturity to live for themselves. You can hardly hold kids accountable for their own actions, much less the actions of their selfish parents.

People who hurt children are, in my book, the lowliest scum in the world. Mothers and fathers who neglect their children are no better!

That's my opinion. It's the parents fault and said parent should be chastised and nutured.
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Posted 5/19/07
I've watched Aishiteruze baby before but i forgot what it's really about. Anyway, raising a child is probably harder than you think. Not that I know anything of but I hear a lot of parents say how difficult and stressful it is. But yea the parents have to bear with that cuz it's their responsibility.
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Posted 5/19/07

SeraphAlford wrote:

Of course the parents responsible! You cannot expect a child to care for themselves or have the mental, physical, emotional, or any other kind of maturity to live for themselves. You can hardly hold kids accountable for their own actions, much less the actions of their selfish parents.

People who hurt children are, in my book, the lowliest scum in the world. Mothers and fathers who neglect their children are no better!

That's my opinion. It's the parents fault and said parent should be chastised and nutured.


This saids It all right here. Also alot of parents blame there probalems on kids when in fact they done nothing.
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Posted 5/19/07
if the fucking parents didnt want a child they should of used protection or better yet not done it at all

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myheadhurts wrote:

if the fucking parents didnt want a child they should of used protection or better yet not done it at all



true......

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Posted 5/20/07
wow all this rage from an anime...and don't forget if it wasnt for child abandonment then those who cant have children would be sol (shit out of luck), nd not every child given up is unwanted some parents truly can't take care of their child no matter how much they want them, thats what foster care is for, or they give their gives to parents they chose so they can have a better life...don't be haters....

and if an anime upsets you that much try watching Nobody knows thatll really get the flood gates open...about something that happened in real life although its a much nicer version then what really happened...which if you see the movie its no walk in the park itself

And most of you are kids anyway you have no idea what its like in the real world to say what ppl should do

Now as for the movie example I gave you that mother could have taken care of her kids and ppl like her are the douches but dont lump every one in the same category...
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Posted 5/20/07
in this case .. parents..
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36 / M / Main: California...
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Posted 5/20/07
How do i reply in this forums is this like normal forums or is this a little bit different~????
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Posted 5/20/07
^ huh?

yeh...I liked Aishteruze baby... is all I'm gonna say.
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Posted 5/20/07
Of course it's the Parent's responsibility to care for their children; they're there to teach a child how to be a proper adult. It's their reponsibility to teach their children what acts are tolerated by society and that for their actions there will always be consequences that effect them and the people surrounding them. They are there to make their kids realize that the decision they make and choose will have an effect in the world however little or huge it may be, they need to be prepared to face it. That education is important in their future. They are there to help them develop into what they want to become.

However nowdays something is going wrong; parents abandon their children in front of t.v., video games, computer, or leave it up to them to decide what happens. Some just give up all hope when the child starts to act up. Sometimes it's not even the child's fault that they get in trouble, it's the parents who are not clear about their expectations; when they get in trouble and when they dont!! I hate it when they do that, leaving it up to chance as to how their parents are going to react to what they did.....maybe I'll get hit, maybe grounded, maybe yelled at, or maybe nothing will happen...all depending on the mood that their parents are feeling. The kids are not stress relievers, Parents should not take it out on their children!!! That is why there is sooo much troubled youth!!!

They expect the schools to become the parents; education about the courses and the real world. WHen it is them that should be teaching their children about life and the course they should take; I'm not saying they should control the kids life either, just set them on the right path, or support the path the child chooses. Parents should become more responsible themselves; the problem however is that no one receives a manual when they have a child; what they need to do is to try and fill the needs of the child and try hard in raising the child to do their best. "sigh"
That's what I think!!! Though sometimes there exists kids who are definetly screwed up twisted Ochibis!!! Those well...oh well
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Posted 5/20/07
^ Good post.
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29 / F / California
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I, on the other hand, think parents should neglect their children. From what I see with the people around me, those who were neglected in their childhoods are more responsible and alert of their surroundings. They have no problem taking care of themselves because they are already used to it and they are a lot smarter because they tend to take the initiative to self-learn.

It's nice to have some support every once in a while, but parental love spoils children.

However, for those who took the wrong path will eventually increase the percentage of youth crimes. These children will learn life the harder way.

If people think they're lonely, get used to it. They can only depend on themselves.
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26 / F / どこかな~
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Posted 5/20/07
I think that parents are responsible for their children. If they can't provide the necessary care for the child (or children), they never should have had them to start, or, they should find a way to get them the care they need (ex. foster care, mentioned before). It's not right for a parent to blame his/her child, nor is right for them to neglect their child.

I don't think parental love spoils children. It depends on the type of love the parent is giving the child. Certainly, there are parents that hand-feed children money since they were young and they grow up believing the world revolves around them, but there also parents who come home without nothing but a hug for their children, but still work their hardest to give their children the love and care they need. Those children don't become spoiled (not usually, at least).

Being a parent is definietely hard work, and its never easy, no matter how much experience one has, but its important to never give up and simply neglect the child. They don't deserve that, because at the very least, they didn't ask to be born into the world to simply be neglected.
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a neglected child has less than 50% probability of living a happy life in his teenage years. i should know, since im a neglected kid as well. but there's also a greater chance that this child will become more responsible and successful in the future than those who have experienced a great childhood with their families.

in my opinion, its the parents' fault. a typical kid isnt gonna be a rebellion if his parents arent doing something bad or unacceptable for him. and besides, the parents are mature enough to know what their kids want and what they should do to satisfy them. parents need not to spoil kids, but they should at least listen to what they say and not boss them around instead. and since they are the ones who made, bore, raise, and take care of their children, they should be responsible enough and see to it that these kids are on the right path. yes, i know that its so difficult to raise a child, but if the parents dont or cannot take full responsibility of it then they shouldnt have made one in the first place. kids arent wise and mature enough to understand all of parents' damn problems so instead of tormenting them, scolding or yelling at them, they should instead try to make them understand the fucked up things they're undergoing through.

phew.. is this essay good enough? lol
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