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A Wife Must Obey Her Husband!
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none of the guys have put their actual reaction
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There are muslim countries which do have these 'wives obey only husbands' laws but not all though. It just isnt fair for any wife of course. That's all there is to it. I don't know about sexism or keeping society intact but its a fact.
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these people are fucked.
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24 / F / in yur dark heart
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LOL...........he did lived upto his name................back tot topic..this law is just plain dumb.and the real muslims he is mentioning
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wtf.....
Posted 11/25/09

emberslave wrote:


tenplus1 wrote:

Both husband and wife should respect one another in a marriage, communicate and support one another... The "honour and obey" part I had removed from my own wedding vows when I was married...


Wait... Are you Muslim too, or of a different religion? And "honour and obey"??? WTF???



I was raised catholic but now I have no religeon... and as I mentioned the OBEY part should be removed from marriage vows since it is not needed in a modern marriage...
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tenplus1 wrote:

I was raised catholic but now I have no religeon... and as I mentioned the OBEY part should be removed from marriage vows since it is not needed in a modern marriage...


I see, and yes, I agree with you. Wives don't obey anymore; they nag.

Posted 11/26/09
no one should have to obey one or the other....if they are in love they should want to do things together...that's my guess
Posted 11/26/09
In my tribe the women handle all the business. When a man and woman get married the men live with the womens tribe. so it odd to hear other countries that give so little rights to women. Rome was not built in a day you have to change things slowly. I hope some day soon that change will come.
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bumble_bea wrote:

In my tribe the women handle all the business. When a man and woman get married the men live with the womens tribe. so it odd to hear other countries that give so little rights to women. Rome was not built in a day you have to change things slowly. I hope some day soon that change will come.


Oh my god, really? That's so awesome, since it's usually the other way around. I wonder what would have happened if women had dominated since the very beginning instead of men. You're tribe sounds interesting, so I'd like to learn more about it. ^^

Actually, when the Filipino people were still savages dressed in skins and spears, women were more or less on equal footing with men, unlike the majority of countries in the world during the ancient times. There were laws of course, despite them being tribes people, forbidding murder, theft, trespassing and rape. While women in other countries were cringing and crying silently about the fact that they had little to no rights, our women were able to hold gov't positions, which means they could become chief of a tribe, but of course, more often than not only during special circumstances. I think I remember reading something that said that the eldest child will inherit the riches, whether or not it's a boy or girl, but then again, I'm not so sure about that.Our ancient documents and writings were burned by the Spaniards when they colonized us to convert us into Christianity, so there's not much of a past to talk about.
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Posted 11/26/09
things are always going to change eventually.
Posted 11/27/09
if it were me, there is no way i am going to obey a guy! even if he is my husband
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Posted 11/27/09
It's really normal for women in Muslim communities to be their husband's slaves but now with modernisation it's changing little by little.
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Posted 11/27/09

Kippu wrote:


"It's a tiny minority of woman here who want this new law; the intellectuals. The poor and illiterate women of this country, the real Muslims, are against it."


O_O So you have to be dumb to be a real muslim?




=__=;


I was waiting on someone catching that little nugget.

what is even more telling is how upset the Muslim leaders and hardcore followers would be if someone other than a Muslim was to say those exact words of them. " to be a true Muslim you need to be poor and illiterate" too bad most of those revered leaders can read and most are rich guess they just don't meet the criteria of being true Muslims.

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