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Why do people think Guys can't Cry!?
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Posted 9/19/09
Wow so about the spelling I'm on my iPod atm ^_^
Posted 9/20/09
Guys have a man pride.
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Posted 9/20/09

Sekushi_Sushi wrote:


Yiruma wrote:


Sekushi_Sushi wrote:


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Sekushi_Sushi wrote:

Who thinks men can't cry?


just people in general.


People under the age of 10, maybe. I don't think most people are that ignorant.


Well, my view on it is that men like to give off the image for being strong. I guess over the years, it seems that crying became a sign of weakness, so guys try not to cry?


Oh, I agree that men *try* not to cry. I mean, it's just the "norm", you could say, if you're a man, to try and act tougher, right? But I just think that there's not many people who think that guys can't cry.


so u people are saying... if someone close to you died. u cant cry...?
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ofc men can cry, but there is simply no need to..
why would we cry? wut does it solve? wut does it do?
it does absolutely shit, so why do u cry?
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Posted 9/20/09

_DarkHeart_ wrote:


Sekushi_Sushi wrote:


Yiruma wrote:


Sekushi_Sushi wrote:


Earthqauke wrote:


Sekushi_Sushi wrote:

Who thinks men can't cry?


just people in general.


People under the age of 10, maybe. I don't think most people are that ignorant.


Well, my view on it is that men like to give off the image for being strong. I guess over the years, it seems that crying became a sign of weakness, so guys try not to cry?


Oh, I agree that men *try* not to cry. I mean, it's just the "norm", you could say, if you're a man, to try and act tougher, right? But I just think that there's not many people who think that guys can't cry.


so u people are saying... if someone close to you died. u cant cry...?


What? No. Read my post again, broseph. 8|
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Posted 9/20/09
i think it because of their image..i mean.. guys are really.. masculine/tough and all..so..it's kinda weird to see one crying..because..most guys that i know rarely cry..they're always holding back so they won't ruin their "tough image"..
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Posted 9/20/09
It's not that they can't cry, it's that they don't want to. They feel they have to be manly all the time and all of that bull.

Personally, I prefer a man who doesn't feel bound to that. Shows they're not some emotionless freak.
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Posted 9/20/09
Hmm in that case, is it a weakness amongst most men? Crying = character?
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Posted 9/20/09
yeh men cry is it dat fascinating? o.O
well mayb it can b quite rare to see them cry sometimes~
Posted 9/20/09
I feel like I lose if I cry .
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Posted 9/20/09
Trust me.. guys can cry too. Theres no law that certain genders cant or can cry.
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Posted 9/20/09

divine_newb wrote:

ofc men can cry, but there is simply no need to..
why would we cry? wut does it solve? wut does it do?
it does absolutely shit, so why do u cry?

This. I've had close relatives die and it doesn't affect me at all. Crying isn't bringing them back.
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Posted 9/24/09
LOL

I'm so sorry but that... thing you made, made me laugh

Anyways i don't think that guys can't cry. They are perceived that they shouldn't cry and be strong. Though i understand that the perception is to make them appear cool, there are certain situations that if they cry (full on, like bawling their tears out) there has to be a reason for it. =)
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Posted 9/24/09
Our tear glands have dried up and can no longer be used
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Posted 9/26/09 , edited 9/26/09

ElroyJetson wrote:

Guys crying is just the ultimate turn off. I don't like sissy men, I usually make them cry a lot. Don't get me wrong, a guy who cries when someone dies or after/ during a traumatic experience and things like that are okay but most of the time it is just unacceptable.


When guys cry it shows that they must be in pain.. it doesn't mean they're a sissy
I'm sure if you'd cry a lot and guys said it was a turn off you would be mad..
That is unacceptable what you said.. they are human beings like us who have feelings too
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