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Why do people think Guys can't Cry!?
Posted 10/12/09 , edited 10/12/09
Guys can cry. Most aren't physically incapable of it. And I'm not a guy so I don't exactly know everything, but I think the stereotype put on men kind of stops them from doing it. It's not manly to cry.

I'm not gonna lie -- I'm not turned on by guys who cry. But with my image of my dream guy -- someone who's got muscles like everywhere and is all for justice (I'm WAY too into Blaxploitation) -- that's no surprise.
Posted 10/12/09
guys can cry....just they look like a fucking pussy if they do cry for no damn good reason....but if like there's a death in the family then thats a very valid excuse
Posted 10/12/09
Oh, we cry. It just takes more to make it happen... usually.
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Posted 10/12/09
Cause to most people it shows a vulnerable side to a sex that it supposed to be masculine and stong.
Although I must point out it depends on what the guy is crying for. You can take the stongest man in the world that is all ANTI-TEARS and witness them getting notified that a loved one close to them passed away and watch them sob.
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Posted 10/13/09
i cry but i dont care,haha
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Posted 10/13/09
Ok ill open up. Im a guy and I cry. I can care less about what people think about me. Its their problem not mine. If they dont like me then they should just leave me be. I'm an emotional person. Sometimes when I get overwhelmed with anger I cry because all the emotion is too much for me to handle. I also cry when I get extremely fusterated and stressed out by my parents because I hate being annoyed and stuff, which is basically what I see my parents do to me, annoy me,lol. Being annoyed is one of the most worst feelings ever, someone keeps on running their mouth even though you seriously tell them to stop over and over again, its like freakin tourture, or at least for me it is. I also cry for basic reasons, such as a death in the family or the death of a friend or somethin. The death of a pet would also count. Also sometime depending on their situation, if I see someone else cry, it makes me want to cry, sort of like if you see someone laughing their ass off youll feel like laughing ur ass off.
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Posted 10/13/09
The only guy who would absolutely not cry for anything, even a death, is an emotionless or near emotionless one. Or he could have cried so much in his life that all of the tears dried out, although that can be replaced wih crying blood, which is sort of messed up.
Posted 10/13/09
If a guy says that he never cries, kick him in the balls. That'll make him shed a few tears
Posted 10/13/09
cause people have no feelings for men xD
Posted 10/13/09
It's not that men can't cry xD It's just too strange to see a guy cry.
When I see a girl cry, I'll go confort her or asked her what happened and such things
But I wouldn't be able to know what to do if I see a guy cry I do ask what happened, but other tahn taht, i don't do anything.
If someone cry is because they are expressing their pain, and it's good but their eyes will become swollen xD
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Posted 10/13/09

Earthqauke wrote:

I just wonder why people think that men can't cry, if they do does that mean they're weak? Tell me your opinion. Don't trash anyone on their beliefs or opinions. Be open about your thoughts and don't be afraid to speak out. Here's a sneak peak of something I made myself where a guy "DOES" cry...

Mark: I'm sorry... I'm so sorry!

Mark began to CRY.

Mark: I didn't... mean to hurt you... I'm sorry Tereasa. I love you.

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SO,,, WHAT'S WITH THE DIALOGUE OR MONOLOGUE..?

ANYWAY,,, THEY THINK CRYING IS OVERRATED

AND IT IS UGLY TO SEE MEN(I MEAN THE ADULTS) CRYING..

BUT I THINK A LOT OF GUYS THINK CRYING OKAY....

I SAW A BADGE WORN BY A GUY --
WRITTEN IN BOLD LETTERS.. "BOYS DON'T CRY"
THEN BELOW IN A SMALLER FONT: "REAL MEN DO"

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Posted 10/14/09

lysis wrote:


Earthqauke wrote:

I just wonder why people think that men can't cry, if they do does that mean they're weak? Tell me your opinion. Don't trash anyone on their beliefs or opinions. Be open about your thoughts and don't be afraid to speak out. Here's a sneak peak of something I made myself where a guy "DOES" cry...

Mark: I'm sorry... I'm so sorry!

Mark began to CRY.

Mark: I didn't... mean to hurt you... I'm sorry Tereasa. I love you.

P.S please close if this is a duplicate


SO,,, WHAT'S WITH THE DIALOGUE OR MONOLOGUE..?

ANYWAY,,, THEY THINK CRYING IS OVERRATED

AND IT IS UGLY TO SEE MEN(I MEAN THE ADULTS) CRYING..

BUT I THINK A LOT OF GUYS THINK CRYING OKAY....

I SAW A BADGE WORN BY A GUY --
WRITTEN IN BOLD LETTERS.. "BOYS DON'T CRY"
THEN BELOW IN A SMALLER FONT: "REAL MEN DO"



lol nice xD I love that "boys don't cry, real men do" It takes a real man to show his emotions
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Posted 10/14/09

RainingWolf wrote:

Ok ill open up. Im a guy and I cry. I can care less about what people think about me. Its their problem not mine. If they dont like me then they should just leave me be. I'm an emotional person. Sometimes when I get overwhelmed with anger I cry because all the emotion is too much for me to handle. I also cry when I get extremely fusterated and stressed out by my parents because I hate being annoyed and stuff, which is basically what I see my parents do to me, annoy me,lol. Being annoyed is one of the most worst feelings ever, someone keeps on running their mouth even though you seriously tell them to stop over and over again, its like freakin tourture, or at least for me it is. I also cry for basic reasons, such as a death in the family or the death of a friend or somethin. The death of a pet would also count. Also sometime depending on their situation, if I see someone else cry, it makes me want to cry, sort of like if you see someone laughing their ass off youll feel like laughing ur ass off.


lol exactly! I'm an emotional person too
Posted 10/14/09 , edited 10/14/09
The reason why many people say men can't cry or feel emotions like women do, most probably from their early childhood experiences for example where they come from. I hear many parents tell their sons, men shouldn't cry because they need to be strong, this is just stereotypical role. Thus, this leads to gender characteristics which is common in our world, so I wouldn't be surprised to hear something new. But, this doesn't mean that men can't cry, many men cry and feel emotions it just varies from where you come from, like the cultural background and environment and such....It will be hard to change this gender role that been there for so long, because many generations already learned to adapt this behavior, but there is always hope :).
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Posted 10/14/09
well for me I don't like if my BF is a crybaby but I'm ok if he does cry sometime I mean even guys are human so they can also cry but not all the time
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