First  Prev  1  2  3  4  Next  Last
Cutters
2980 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
23 / M / underwater with b...
Offline
Posted 9/18/09
"It's STUPID"
13258 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
24 / M / O.C. So.Cal
Offline
Posted 9/18/09
addicting? -.-
1475 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / Hinamizawa
Offline
Posted 10/7/09

EverlastingDivinity wrote:


songofSorrow wrote:

Looks like many people here think that everyone who cuts his/herself is a attention-whore, or someone who just wants to fit in a group, or someone in the sentence of ''boohoo, I don't get this or that, so I cut myself because I'm so sad''. Nah, not everyone has that kind of reasons for cutting. Okay, I don't know why other people cut, but my reasons for cutting myself were different.
Yes, I've cut myself. Not anymore, but I've.
Why? because it helped me in some sort of way. It stopped the stress for a short while, and it could kill pain in my inside for a while. I knew it wasn't good, that it actually was kinda disturbing, inflicting physical pain to forget mental pain, but I kept doing it. Why? I've said before....... it did help me.
And things like 'cutting to get attention'? I told nobody, always covered it. Not my parents,not my family, not other people.
Or 'wants to fit in a group'? I knew nobody who cut his/herself, so in which group could I fit in? Not a group of cutters.
Or 'Boohoo, I don't get this or that, so I cut myself because I'm so sad'? .........People who cut themself for something like that.....they're just sick. Got nothing else about something like that to say. Just fucking sick.
Now I've stopped cutting, and I'm really glad that I did stop. Afterwards you think of it as unnessecary.
But what I wanted to mention, sometimes there are reasons, and with that I mean serious reasons why someone cuts his/herself. Not only stupid reasons.


True. I agree. Not all people who cut do it for the attention. Some do it because they want to convert emotional pain into physical pain. They feel that...let's put it this way..."Better cuts on skin than cuts on a heart." Something like that. Okay, I know that there are some idiots out there who do cut for the attention and call themselves "emo," whatever THAT means. But still, we shouldn't generalize.


I'm glad that at least someone agrees with me. Thank you, pal. It gives me hope that not everyone on this world is a hater.
Posted 10/7/09

songofSorrow wrote:


EverlastingDivinity wrote:


songofSorrow wrote:

Looks like many people here think that everyone who cuts his/herself is a attention-whore, or someone who just wants to fit in a group, or someone in the sentence of ''boohoo, I don't get this or that, so I cut myself because I'm so sad''. Nah, not everyone has that kind of reasons for cutting. Okay, I don't know why other people cut, but my reasons for cutting myself were different.
Yes, I've cut myself. Not anymore, but I've.
Why? because it helped me in some sort of way. It stopped the stress for a short while, and it could kill pain in my inside for a while. I knew it wasn't good, that it actually was kinda disturbing, inflicting physical pain to forget mental pain, but I kept doing it. Why? I've said before....... it did help me.
And things like 'cutting to get attention'? I told nobody, always covered it. Not my parents,not my family, not other people.
Or 'wants to fit in a group'? I knew nobody who cut his/herself, so in which group could I fit in? Not a group of cutters.
Or 'Boohoo, I don't get this or that, so I cut myself because I'm so sad'? .........People who cut themself for something like that.....they're just sick. Got nothing else about something like that to say. Just fucking sick.
Now I've stopped cutting, and I'm really glad that I did stop. Afterwards you think of it as unnessecary.
But what I wanted to mention, sometimes there are reasons, and with that I mean serious reasons why someone cuts his/herself. Not only stupid reasons.


True. I agree. Not all people who cut do it for the attention. Some do it because they want to convert emotional pain into physical pain. They feel that...let's put it this way..."Better cuts on skin than cuts on a heart." Something like that. Okay, I know that there are some idiots out there who do cut for the attention and call themselves "emo," whatever THAT means. But still, we shouldn't generalize.


I'm glad that at least someone agrees with me. Thank you, pal. It gives me hope that not everyone on this world is a hater.


Yeah. A lot of people are ignorant and chooses to believe in what they want. : ]
5342 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
23 / F / Upstate NY
Offline
Posted 10/7/09
rofl. used to cut myself back in the day... I was a seventh grade emo girl, woooo!

although I did have some emotional problems (and still do :/), I think I did it for attention, even though I never told anyone... I just wanted someone to notice. Then my mom noticed, freaked out and sent me to a counsellor for a year.

I actually still have this intense urge to hurt myself whenever I get sad, usually I just tell myself it's ridiculous (:
1475 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / Hinamizawa
Offline
Posted 10/7/09

EverlastingDivinity wrote:


songofSorrow wrote:


EverlastingDivinity wrote:


songofSorrow wrote:

Looks like many people here think that everyone who cuts his/herself is a attention-whore, or someone who just wants to fit in a group, or someone in the sentence of ''boohoo, I don't get this or that, so I cut myself because I'm so sad''. Nah, not everyone has that kind of reasons for cutting. Okay, I don't know why other people cut, but my reasons for cutting myself were different.
Yes, I've cut myself. Not anymore, but I've.
Why? because it helped me in some sort of way. It stopped the stress for a short while, and it could kill pain in my inside for a while. I knew it wasn't good, that it actually was kinda disturbing, inflicting physical pain to forget mental pain, but I kept doing it. Why? I've said before....... it did help me.
And things like 'cutting to get attention'? I told nobody, always covered it. Not my parents,not my family, not other people.
Or 'wants to fit in a group'? I knew nobody who cut his/herself, so in which group could I fit in? Not a group of cutters.
Or 'Boohoo, I don't get this or that, so I cut myself because I'm so sad'? .........People who cut themself for something like that.....they're just sick. Got nothing else about something like that to say. Just fucking sick.
Now I've stopped cutting, and I'm really glad that I did stop. Afterwards you think of it as unnessecary.
But what I wanted to mention, sometimes there are reasons, and with that I mean serious reasons why someone cuts his/herself. Not only stupid reasons.


True. I agree. Not all people who cut do it for the attention. Some do it because they want to convert emotional pain into physical pain. They feel that...let's put it this way..."Better cuts on skin than cuts on a heart." Something like that. Okay, I know that there are some idiots out there who do cut for the attention and call themselves "emo," whatever THAT means. But still, we shouldn't generalize.


I'm glad that at least someone agrees with me. Thank you, pal. It gives me hope that not everyone on this world is a hater.


Yeah. A lot of people are ignorant and chooses to believe in what they want. : ]


Yes, or what other people tell them. People follow each other, so they all do that to act cool and stuff like that. 'Let's just bully that emo kid over there, cause then we are so cool'. ugh..... makes me sick.
1475 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / M / Hinamizawa
Offline
Posted 10/7/09

ohmygodBRITTANY wrote:

rofl. used to cut myself back in the day... I was a seventh grade emo girl, woooo!

although I did have some emotional problems (and still do :/), I think I did it for attention, even though I never told anyone... I just wanted someone to notice. Then my mom noticed, freaked out and sent me to a counsellor for a year.

I actually still have this intense urge to hurt myself whenever I get sad, usually I just tell myself it's ridiculous (:


You are honest about the attention-thing. That worths a compliment at least :D.
I hope you can keep up with not cutting yourself. although........ you don't cut anymore, right?
Nah, anyways go on with telling that's it not needed and rudiculous :P

By the way, you are not the only one who has that urge sometimes. You are not alone
13660 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
Detective Agency
Offline
Posted 10/7/09
Yes sir-y, as mentioned

“When kids cut themselves, it releases endorphins and they get a high from it,”
, kinda akin to smoking pot etc?
36522 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
ಠ_ಠ
Offline
Posted 10/7/09
They simply need another source to release their stress on, that's it.

But no, they look for the simplest, closest thing to them. And assume it's alright to do if it makes them feel better, whereas it isn't alright.

This is why I fear for my generation. They don't fucking think.
5342 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
23 / F / Upstate NY
Offline
Posted 10/7/09 , edited 10/7/09

songofSorrow wrote:


ohmygodBRITTANY wrote:

rofl. used to cut myself back in the day... I was a seventh grade emo girl, woooo!

although I did have some emotional problems (and still do :/), I think I did it for attention, even though I never told anyone... I just wanted someone to notice. Then my mom noticed, freaked out and sent me to a counsellor for a year.

I actually still have this intense urge to hurt myself whenever I get sad, usually I just tell myself it's ridiculous (:


You are honest about the attention-thing. That worths a compliment at least :D.
I hope you can keep up with not cutting yourself. although........ you don't cut anymore, right?
Nah, anyways go on with telling that's it not needed and rudiculous :P

By the way, you are not the only one who has that urge sometimes. You are not alone :D


hooray for not being alone!!! :D
and nooo I don't cut, definitely not. The scars are too hard to cover up anyway roflrofl, the worst I'll do is hit myself on the arm or something lmfao.

I'm good now (:

thanks for caring! this actually sort of made my day
11733 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
M
Offline
Posted 1/2/10
I don't understand the point of cutting. I just don't get why people would want to hurt themselves even more if they're already hurt emotionally.
Posted 1/2/10
It's tragic that people have to physically mutliate themselves to feel better or achieve a "high."
1437 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
30 / F / In an underground...
Offline
Posted 1/2/10


Yeah. A lot of people are ignorant and chooses to believe in what they want. : ]

Phew. I'm glad I read all that. I was starting to think that no-one could empathise with others feelings.... It's no good to generalize

833 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / F / Boston
Offline
Posted 1/2/10
I don't support cutting yourself but I don't think that all of the ppls who cut them selves r attention whores, some of them r, but I think slot of the others r just confused nd hurt. I had a friend who used to cut herself to get away from her problems but yeah... She kinda was an attention whore :/
Posted 1/2/10
i used to cut myself 'cuz i had family problems & addiction problems..
i don't do that anymore though... i find it stupid now. =p
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.