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Fafnirsbane wrote:

If you have the right mindset you can force yourself not to give a damn thereby eliminating any emotional pain (this is not recomended since it can also drastically limit your sensitivity for other emotions)


Too late for me as well; I'm really withdrawn from normal emotions, rather normal behaviour; killing is nothing more than an incident in my life; I'm very numb when it comes to feelings. However I'm not saying I'm a cold hearted b**** either! I express myself through my writing, when somethings not right i do take it out on people, but it is my beloved creations who take the fall!! Cutting use to help; didn't like the scars it left, rather than cutting; self inflicted pain is better; or causing pain towards others can relieve one as well.

ARt is also a good outlet, unfortunately it is not one of my traits or talents.

This one will probably frustrate rather than relieve but it works for me at least; Open up a calc or engineering book and work some problems out, though i'm pretty sure for some it'd be a torment.

Sleep does help; you forget your worries and wake up to find it's a new day or at least you killed some time.

You can also be mischiveous and plan to torment someone!!! Kills time and takes over all your thoughts; I'm not saying to bully someone either, just make them pay for deeds done.

For now can't think of anything else;
Sit in your room and day dream; or maybe even create someone to care; someone who wont offend you; but depend on you; someone you can trust; someone you can torment and depend on; knowing they'll always be there, awaiting your dominion.......Just dont introduce them in public lest it is the Cookoo's house you seek.
Oh and make sure they never take over the thoughts in your head or you'll find yourself disappearing in the eternal darkness you reside in.

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I pour my heart out into my journal...I've always used my writing as a tool to basically get all the toxic thoughts in my head out. If that doesn't work...well there's always alcohol. Yeah yeah, I know it's cliche for a writer to be an alcoholic...but I'm not an alcoholic...yet.
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LOL, i write and drink...i have these poems that i wrote when i was drunk, at the time, i thought they were really good, the ones i can read are crap. lol.
*i don't drink to get drunk, it just kinda happens sometimes cuz i'm a lightweight*
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i blast my music
i run for as long as i can around my neighborhood while listening to music blasted up
i breathe a deep breath
i punch, throw, kick, and yell into my pillow
i paint
i sculpt
i write things i don't like anout omeone
i scream my head off until i can't take it anymore yell stuff like dammit! asshole! and such
i make fake plans to kill them which i know i'm not crazy enough to fulfill

thats how i cope
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Talking to someone and thinking to yourself is probably the best way to help. If you do other things, you only distract yourself rather than fixing the problem.
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So many extremists! Not many people here have found a happy median. I believe the key is balance, you shouldn't try to be numb, you shouldn't be a cry baby.
I found my best outlets are;
Music
Video Games
TV
Friends
Sports
My pet
Eating
Did i mention games, yeah well it gets another mention.
BTW i don't reccoment cutting, its kinda creepy (and EMO, which I don't like very much)
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I read. alot. When I'm hurting it's nice to just withdraw into someone elses world and forget about my own.

I try to aviod writting poetry when I'm angrey or sad because it always sounds pathetic. Sometimes I paint or draw but that leaves evidence of my pain behind that I hate finding later so I try to aviod that too, with less sucess than the poetry.

Cutting is stupid. Why try to solve pain with more pain? I think that's just roundabout, illogical, and I don't get it.
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26 / F / どこかな~
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I watch dramas and avoid thinking about my problems. xD I'm in denial.
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Sex and drugs.
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Posted 5/21/07

n0odle wrote:

Sex and drugs.


realy
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i cope with eatin good food and listining to music
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^ Don't double post. Or else mauz will come down and castrate you.. and everyone else here just for fun.


AJac wrote:

I read. alot. When I'm hurting it's nice to just withdraw into someone elses world and forget about my own.

Same here. ^^
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^i read a lot too. or i'd talk to myself or to my 'imaginary' friends (no wonder i'm turning into a schizoid!). i usually draw and paint if something's really bothering me. i also walk a whole lot more when i have problems.
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i just pick up my ipod and listen all day... music is an effective med for all those weltschmers...
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A bottle of beer, some cigz and a lot of music. Works fine for me!
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