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Who's Never Been in a Relationship at all?
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I never had one i have been a loner all my life. Feel in love with only oe person and that was it i never feel in love again. I realize i really hate people with a passion i dont anyone but myself. I have survived this long by myself why do i need to bring another headache into my life. Not to mention i live in Florida not many gay live in Florida which makes it harder to find someone. I suppose i would date someone it they came up to me and asked but i really dont need or crave it. i like being alone.


I feel the same way too,I had a crush on someone (No ,it was not love) but it turned out that he had a girlfriend but I didn't really hurt me much because I wasn't not in love or anything but I was sad because I couidn't get to love him -I hate being with my family as well but It's not good -Being lonely can drive you crazy ..



That is true love can make one do crazy things i have learned that over the many years. Being with someone would be good but then again i can survive being alone.


I understand but still you shouid try and have fun with people -It's true how love makes you do crazy things sometimes ..



Yes true i understand you i really havent had anyone come up to me in anyway. if someone was to approach me then i be than happy but...things dont seem to work that that way for me. I willing and able to experience new love from anyone looks arent everything to me.
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GrandX wrote:


foxy12 wrote:


GrandX wrote:


foxy12 wrote:


GrandX wrote:

I never had one i have been a loner all my life. Feel in love with only oe person and that was it i never feel in love again. I realize i really hate people with a passion i dont anyone but myself. I have survived this long by myself why do i need to bring another headache into my life. Not to mention i live in Florida not many gay live in Florida which makes it harder to find someone. I suppose i would date someone it they came up to me and asked but i really dont need or crave it. i like being alone.


I feel the same way too,I had a crush on someone (No ,it was not love) but it turned out that he had a girlfriend but I didn't really hurt me much because I wasn't not in love or anything but I was sad because I couidn't get to love him -I hate being with my family as well but It's not good -Being lonely can drive you crazy ..



That is true love can make one do crazy things i have learned that over the many years. Being with someone would be good but then again i can survive being alone.


I understand but still you shouid try and have fun with people -It's true how love makes you do crazy things sometimes ..



Yes true i understand you i really havent had anyone come up to me in anyway. if someone was to approach me then i be than happy but...things dont seem to work that that way for me. I willing and able to experience new love from anyone looks arent everything to me.


I don't care a bout looks either .I haven't been asked by anyone in my whole life ,NEVER , those of us like that aren't lucky .Most of my friends who are dating are all younger than me (13 to 16 ) ..I'm sad because I couidn't get to experience relationships when I was younger like most ppl have and now ,I feel like I'm too old for it ..


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You're never to old to experience love it always manages to creep back into to heart somehow. Just give it time and one day you will see love will face to face with you.
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I haven't.
I'm not into the dating scene; I prefer being single~
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Well, I haven't met anyone of my standards which mainly is a guy who has a deep relationship with Christ and his word. Also I haven't even been in contact with guys really. I am in an environment so liberal and guys are probably gay. Plus, I haven't been attracted to anyone and I don't think any guys have been attracted to me lately.


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You're never to old to experience love it always manages to creep back into to heart somehow. Just give it time and one day you will see love will face to face with you.


Yeah ,I just hope it won't be one-sided ..I know what you mean but I wanted to at least experience relationships so I can learn and grow from it ...but now it's too late . ..lollll
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GO ME. =\ Also, crap luck+shyness= bad combo.
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Well, I haven't met anyone of my standards which mainly is a guy who has a deep relationship with Christ and his word. Also I haven't even been in contact with guys really. I am in an environment so liberal and guys are probably gay. Plus, I haven't been attracted to anyone and I don't think any guys have been attracted to me lately.


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It's seem like your looking for someone who has similar standards but that's too hard to find ,don't you think ?
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No, because I have to put my faith in Christ no matter how impatient i may be
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Youll be fine you seem like a complete sweet heart and a kind soul anyone would be lucky just to have a chance to make you truly happy.
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No, because I have to put my faith in Christ no matter how impatient i may be


Your a very spiritual person and I like that ^ ^
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Youll be fine you seem like a complete sweet heart and a kind soul anyone would be lucky just to have a chance to make you truly happy.


you seem sweet youself ^ ^ and thanks -what a bout you ?have you had an experience ,be it a relationship or unrequited love ?
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I've never have been in one and don't want it to happen untill i find the right person. It angers me how other people veiw relationships as a hobby or as what is "cool." I think relationships should be taken seriously and you shouldn't feel like you cannot survive without a partner, if you do, you fail as a person (really). People should learn how to enjoy life by themselves and if you can find the right person for you, he/she should just add to that enjoyment. I never lie to people about it and im not embarrased to say it. Yeah I get teased alot by my siblings/friends but at the end of the day im still proud that i am me. Everything has its right time.

And for those who think they are cool and are probably saying "hes just saying that because hes never had the chance." I have rejected plenty of girls (btw im not proud of this i felt sad for each one of them that i have encountered) and I have never ever EVER taken a step to approach a girl or flirted with one or tried to get with one for a fact. At the end of the people who like you will like you for your true character unless they are stupid or have not come to an understanding of what love really means and what it stands for.
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GrandX wrote:

Youll be fine you seem like a complete sweet heart and a kind soul anyone would be lucky just to have a chance to make you truly happy.


you seem sweet youself ^ ^ and thanks -what a bout you ?have you had an experience ,be it a relationship or unrequited love ?


Hard to explain i was in love with some one yet i was ashamed of my feelings so u denied them i never told that person how i truly felt even though they knew. They waited for to say i love them and i ran scared there were testing me to see if i truly i love them. I failed they ended moving away so i never got the chance to express my love and now i live with regret what if i would have taken the chance. Would they reject me would they except me? Now ill never know its haunted me for years.
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I've never have been in one and don't want it to happen untill i find the right person. It angers me how other people veiw relationships as a hobby or as what is "cool." I think relationships should be taken seriously and you shouldn't feel like you cannot survive without a partner, if you do, you fail as a person (really). People should learn how to enjoy life by themselves and if you can find the right person for you, he/she should just add to that enjoyment. I never lie to people about it and im not embarrased to say it. Yeah I get teased alot by my siblings/friends but at the end of the day im still proud that i am me. Everything has its right time.

And for those who think they are cool and are probably saying "hes just saying that because hes never had the chance." I have rejected plenty of girls (btw im not proud of this i felt sad for each one of them that i have encountered) and I have never ever EVER taken a step to approach a girl or flirted with one or tried to get with one for a fact. At the end of the people who like you will like you for your true character unless they are stupid or have not come to an understanding of what love really means and what it stands for.



Exactly ^ ^..I've been always thinking a bout it -why do people go on realtionships when they are not gonna get married at the end anyway ?what's the point ?you always get hurt ..right ? whats the point of having a gf/bf at such an early age ? if you love that person so much even though your young (13-15)then why don't you just get engaged to secure your marrige in the future ..why don't they take it seriously?

Your seem like a great guy and I know it's hard for you to reject those girls but you can't force yourself to love someone ..very good answer ..

But why do ppl think we're losers ?






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