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what would u do if ur girl/boy friend said they were too embarrassed of u to show u to their parents/friends
Posted 9/27/09
i think id be really pissed and then ask why she would be embarrassed of me and probably break up with her
Posted 9/27/09
What a long title that is.

Hmm. I would encourage them, and say, "My dad will make you mow the lawn if you don't." Or, help him with the backyard! xD
Posted 9/27/09
I don't really know. My current girlfriend had a really hard time introducing me to her parents.

Probably because we are from very different cultures. That alone can probably affect how someone feels about introducing you to their parents. Eg. your customs may be different in your culture and may be seen as impolite in hers. In which case, you may embarass her.

Also, another factor may be religion. My girlfriend's family are Christian, they don't really accept the fact that I am agnostic or my pansexuality. That could also lead to hesitation.

Yet again, a third factor is personality disorders and such. I was diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome. Due to that, she was probably afraid I would make some family "faux pas" around her family. And thats just something mild. Imagine trying to introduce someone with Borderline personality disorder or something similar. It would be very difficult to explain or get them to learn to deal with.

Overall though, I would try to find out what is making her be embarassed to introduce us and try to help her ease it into being a possibility.
Posted 9/28/09

dark215000 wrote:
i think id be really pissed and then ask why she would be embarrassed of me and probably break up with her
Don't be so rash when you can hardly see yourself clearly with you being so angry. If she can't help herself but to feel embarrassed being with you, even though it might hurt your own feeling for knowing it, you should also consider that she still wants you for herself. Perhaps then you should think about if it were up to you, would you show her to your parents.

It's always good to talk things out before making rash decision. That's something you don't get see in today's fictional romantic relationships popularized by mass medias.
Posted 9/28/09 , edited 9/28/09
The topic is more appropriate in the General Discussion. Anyway, this is just too self-contradicting. If she really likes you, she won't even have that kind of feeling. I mean, why should she?

Moved to General Section~
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Posted 9/28/09
Te-he , I doubt this may not even apply to everyone.

- Just for curiosity? Is this really happening to you or you just made this thread because you were bored?
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Posted 9/28/09
he/she is ashamed by u :3
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Posted 9/28/09
Get her pregnant
Make her to abort the baby
If she asks why
"It's embarrassing"
Posted 9/28/09
go meet them yourself x3 /buytake some towels and dishes with you, pretty ones =D
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Posted 9/28/09
Ouch.

Break it off, probably. If I'm too "embarrassing" to be seen with, then it's probably not going to work out anyway.
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Posted 9/28/09 , edited 9/28/09
I'd try and understand the situation and figure out a way to calm their nerves. Of course, I'd be hurt, but this is a new family I'm trying to join, so we've got to reach some common ground. The real problem enters when he doesn't WANT to do anything about the situation, or even try.
Posted 9/28/09
Dump him >>>> without even thinkin
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Posted 9/28/09
am i ugly? HUHU
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Posted 9/28/09
Well that hasn't happened yet...
But if it did I'd keep bugging them to tell me why
Posted 9/28/09
Kill them? Yes...I would be very pissed off and will dump them right there and then, not worth it if they think that.
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