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what would u do if ur girl/boy friend said they were too embarrassed of u to show u to their parents/friends
Posted 10/7/09

Versailles89 wrote:

I would wonder what's wrong, is it me he's embarrassed off or is it his family that's the problem?...But I would accept it for now and wait until he feel more comfortable... mostly beacuse there might be some underlying reasons.
If it continues on without any answers I'll consider breaking up with the guy.
It's not worth it to be with someone who's ashamed of you!


best answer EVA!!!!
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Posted 10/7/09
Yes yes! We need more information, is this a race issue? You'd be surprised how many Asian parents tell their kids to bring home only asian g/bf's
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Posted 10/7/09
my friend is not embarrassed to bring me home but her parents already dont like me. they blame me for corrupting her with alcohol and boys when really it was the other way around
Posted 10/7/09
then they dont really love you. being shameful to show ones love off doesnt make sense
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Posted 10/7/09 , edited 10/7/09
Man, a majority of the posts so far are by narrow-minded fucks who take no consideration for the other side.

They need to either settle their personal feelings for bringing someone they like home or being able to openly hang out and know their friends accept it. It's not always because they are "ashamed", "cheating", or some other moronic excuse. Plus, there is always the judgment that is brought out with introduction to such a thing so it's no wonder if they feel that.

As for my answer, I wouldn't care. It's their choice whether or not they would wish to do so. I'd wait until they felt like it.
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Posted 10/7/09

RaikuRoak wrote:

Man, a majority of the posts so far are by narrow-minded fucks who take no consideration for the other side.

They need to either settle their personal feelings for bringing someone they like home or being able to openly hang out and know their friends accept it. It's not always because they are "ashamed", "cheating", or some other moronic excuse. Plus, there is always the judgment that is brought out with introduction to such a thing so it's no wonder if they feel that.

As for my answer, I wouldn't care. It's their choice whether or not they would wish to do so. I'd wait until they felt like it.


Thank you. I wanted to say this, but couldn't figure out how to say it properly.
I completely agree (:
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20 / F / Scattered Memories
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Posted 10/7/09
I would dump them because their embaraased of u.
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22 / F / PLANET FIERCE BABY!
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Posted 10/7/09
dump them instantly. i wouldn't even ask or care about why they're so embarrassed by me. if a person can't love you for who you truly are, then they don't really love you. people need to love every quirky quirk about their partner :]
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22 / F / Philippines
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Posted 10/8/09
then that probably means its breaking up time.
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23 / F / NZ
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Posted 10/11/09
lol. if he would be embarassed why court me in the first place?

@topic: break up with him
Posted 10/12/09

xiLurvex wrote:

i'll make the "wtf?!" face. :O


are u makeing it now wait now?.......... how about now?
Posted 10/12/09
It's okay. With parents like yours, I would be embarrassed too
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22 / F / Galaxy
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Posted 10/13/09
I wouldn't care less , it's there personal life.
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Posted 11/9/09
I'd wonder if he's embarrassed because he doesn't like me, or he's embarrassed at the way his family would tease him if they saw how he's like with me. If its that he doesn't like me I'd ask him WTF. If its the other one then I'd say awwwwwww and ruffle his hair
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22 / F / >ReaDIn'
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Posted 11/9/09
Dunno
at first i'd be kinda pissed
but then understand the suitation.
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