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Do you lose your best friend during you watch Anime?
Posted 11/6/09 , edited 11/6/09
I want to know because I almost lost my best friend during I watch Anime/Manga? My best friend keep told that I am avoid from him but I did tell him that I don't but I get think.. Do that Anime/Manga cause that? Please get feedback with me.

Edit: I am sorry about my bad grammer. I don't mean that way. My best friend loves anime but he not watch it all time and i watch it all time but why i am avoid from him because maybe to be I watch anime/manga that i don't talk with him all time. My best friend told me that he won't leave me for that sake but he said he was sick that during i talk with him then watch anime same time.. My best friend and I are best friends for 10 years.


If you want delete this forum topic and fine with me..
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Posted 11/6/09
No, you lose your best friend in a gunfight.

Posted 11/6/09
well it really depends on what anime i watch, If I watch a action shonen anime like dbz or naruto then most of my friends will watch them with me. If i watch moe or harem animes like Sugo Chara or Tora Dora they don't tend watch those generes with me but oh well, funny thing is did get one of my friends to watch love hina and chobits lol
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Posted 11/6/09
'Sorry I did not understand what your asking?'

My love for anime is in my personal life. Most people do not know about it, and those that do know about it do not judge me because I do not act like some crazy fan-thing.
If you lost friends because your watching anime, one there not real friends, two chances are your laying your love for j-anime on thick and freaked them out!

'Do not blame loosing your friends on J-anime. They never was a real friend of yours in the first place. Or you scared them off do to your own actions not because you watch J-anime.
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Posted 11/6/09
most of my friends know that i watch anime. some of them watch most of the same things that i do. then i have some friends that make fun of me because i watch anime, but they still talk to me and hang out with me because we really are friends (though they like to call anime "cartoons"). like darkphoenix said, if they left you because you watched anime, then they really werent your friends. so forget about them and find yourself some friends who will appreciate you for who you are and what you like.
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Posted 11/6/09

My best friend keep told that I am avoid from him but I did tell him that I don't but I get think.


The heck...
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Posted 11/6/09 , edited 11/6/09
hmmm.
I'm not completely sure of what you said because of you grammer mistake.
But I think I get what you mean.

(What I'm about to say is just my personal oppinion. so dont take what I say like the words from the bible or anything....)
this is a serious responce so if your going to read it read it all.

So you think you will lose a very impertant friend or your boy friend (I'm guessing from you saying "him") because you put too much time into watching anime or manga.
If this person is just a friend of yours; I dont think your personal hobby will get in your way of friendship. not to be too harsh.. but I think a true friend would not abbandon you just because you put too much time into you hobby.
If this person is your boy friend or a very very impertant person to you. not putting enough time into them will affect your relationship with that person. that person may not hate you, but for that time your relationship will deteriorate. You may be able to get your relationship back, but to get in to lower standings with a person you think is important to you I think is a sad thing. You may be in a situation that you cant do anyhting to keep that relationship and that cant be helped. But if you have a chance to get into a better relationship with a person it would be a good thing to take a chance.
I think to keep something important takes alot of effert and to be able to keep that important friend / boyfriend / family / person or even a thing is a great feet in a persons life because I think something important to a person is the most important thing that person will have in their life.
So I sugjest that if this person is truly important to you, you should put more time into your relationship. I'm not saying its going to be easy and that you will always want to be with a friend, but in the end having a friend is a very great thing to have. And who knows maybe that person will become very important person to you that you will want to spend more time with than to watch anime or manga.

I personaly have no romantic experience because I constantly move arround to different countries because my perent works in my nations embasy. I had many friends, and one best friend who I have been with for only about 4 years and havent seen for about 3 years, and I'm telling you that having a great friend was one of the best blessing I have ever had in my life, and it would be sad for me to lose that friend.
Posted 11/6/09


I don't mean that way. I am sorry for my bad grammer. you can check it because i did add edit on it.
Posted 11/6/09
lol?
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Posted 11/6/09 , edited 11/6/09
Don't watch anime for a while and then come back in a month or two.

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or, stop being friends with him >;] you can always make new ones.
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Posted 11/6/09
Well no, I think that the best way to keep a good friendship and anime is a good balance and perhaps good communication skills with your friends. You guys should try to talk with one another more to avoid any more misconceptions.

My best friend knows my obsession with anime and she knows I can't live without it so she understands. We also poke fun about it all the time!
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Posted 11/7/09
Uwah, OP is so cute~

Nope! I have a tendency to keep my anime love on the DL.
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Posted 11/7/09
my computer is my best friend so i can say that animes brings us closer toguether
Posted 11/7/09
Nope, My friend watch anime with me
Posted 11/8/09
Not at all..
My best friend likes to watch with me..
and she loves it..
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