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Post Reply Falling In Love With...Anime Characters?
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An innocent crush over an anime/manga or video game character is perfectly normal at any age. However, when that crush blinds you from reality (say, you think that anime boys and/or girls are better than real life boys and/or girls), is really bad.

I mean, in this forum, I've found tons of threads saying that; why real life boys and/or girls cannot be as nice, good, pretty, hot, etc.as anime boys and/or girls?! As long as we know they aren't real is ok. If you're so into an anime character, find yourself someone who shares similarities with the character (s) you like. Not necessarily physique, but personality too.

Personally, I've always liked anime boys more than male celebrities, and my husband (who has Naruto's personality, and Ren, from Nana, physique) had always prefer anime girls over female celebrities. Is not bad, as long as you keep your feet on the ground.


Is kinda weird, but when we were dating, we told each other that one of the reasons we were going out was because we share similarities to several anime crushes we have.
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HAHA. i do reality checks all the time V_V.
REality sorta sucks lol.
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Posted 5/19/09
Yes.. And it's not abnormal... It's natural.. Coz I only fall in love with anime.. I never have a human crush... Purely anime.. I know this may sound abnormal but I feel guilty by just saying that that human person has good-looks.. It feels like I'm betraying my anime beloveds..
Posted 5/23/09
Well i think its alright but its painful to not be able to do something about it i fell for many.... girls more than 20 since i was 6 year , hahaha well here there are some photos!

Lacus

C2,C.C

Moka

i REALLY DONT KNOW who she is but i like!

SIA from Shuffle!!

Kawaii!! so cute!! * *
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Posted 5/23/09
__ is stupid. =.= It's just a stupid screen.
Posted 5/23/09
ZERO IS HAWT
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...Is absolutely fine... I guess but as long as you don't neglect the 'real' people around you : ]
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Posted 5/23/09
falling in love with anime characters is not abnormal...
i havent fallin in love with a character yet
but im starting to like a character and wished he was really real
wich will be impossible ^^


I <3 NEURO@!
Posted 5/23/09
i have a crush on so many anime characters!!!!
cos sometimes, no, usually they're better than real ones!!
Posted 5/23/09
Sure why not? Having a crush on a anime character isn't that different than people having a crush on a telivision or movie actor.
The roles that these actors and actresses play on tv/movies are probably completely different than who they really are once the cameras stop -- so they aren't "real" either. And how much does a fan really know about the celebrities they crush on? Only what the celebrity puts out their as part of their image campaign.

Plus where else can you pick a guy to like who's got say ankle-length purple hair or who happens to be a golem "referencing Zelgadis from the SLayers franchise" who I happen ot have a crush on at the moment? Well books I suppose but with anime -- you can see the object of your "affection" whereas with book characters you have to imagine what they look like.

I do wish that the men in the real world could be as cute, cool, musically talented, in possession of ass-kicking ninja skills, and dress as fashionably as anime guys do. But that's not gonna happen -real guys aren't that perfect or that simple. So for now I'll keep grooving on Zelgadis.
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Posted 5/23/09
I think developing a crush on an anime character is perfectly fine, it's what makes people fans of certain anime. For example, I really wish Roxas and Night Tenjou was someone I know in reality, since I developed a small crush on him. That makes me a Kingdom Hearts and Absolute Boyfriend fan at heart. Putting your real feelings and implying them into anime (or games) is what starts fans off. Most people who watch anime just watch for the characters, thats what MAKE anime (or games), so to me, its all normal to develop a crush on them. Same anime reflect to certain people's lives, and certain people fans know or used to know, so sometimes its not all fictional.

Though, like FlameKiss stated, its not normal to make an anime or game character something so desirable that someone would let down another person who loves him/her. From that, they need to get into reality more.

Though, to have a girlfriend/boyfriend and have a crush on/love an anime character seems a bit weird to me too... I don't think that's normal either. That shows desperation, that the person rather have a fictional character to be their loved one then the person they hold (and can ACTUALLY "hold") dear to them.
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i do not think it is a bad think..

there are a lot

here are some pics

look at me i am 39 and love all the stuff like a i was in my teen and or 20's
some time i wish i was younger so i can fit in
i have nothing in cumin with people my own age
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Posted 5/23/09
Haha, if only anime guys existed, right? XDDD
I tend to find anime guys better-looking than celebrities.........
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Posted 5/23/09
lols.
guilty.
fallen in love with like so many...
including:
Vampire Knight: Kiryu Zero, Kuran Kaname
Special A: Takishima Kei and other male member of the Special A ( )
Skip Beat: Tsuraga Ren, Sho Fuwa

don't think there's anything wrong with falling in love with anime characters...
it's not my fault guys in reality aren't interesting JKJK
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