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Posted 11/27/09
This topic is to talk about the good and bad things about Brake ups and how to deal with them. Why are some brake ups not a bad thing and why some brake ups are a really bad thing. Tell us how you feel on some brake ups and how did you deal with them.

Posted 11/27/09
i felt like it was a gud break up with my ex gf amanda for me because she was just useing me to get off when she could not cheat on me with other men and women and she also had a very bad drinking and partying problem and she is emo like me but she told me almost every day that she was going to kill her self and that her life was pointless if she could not get sex and she cut her self every day and hung her self like five or six times for that reason when she got very drunk and depressed but thankfuly she was saved by one of her best friends and me each time but i could not take her brand of uber crazyness anymore so i dumped her for the last time and hooked up with my current gf briauna who is not emo but close enough to it to be confused for emo and gladly for me is not nearly as crazy as my latest ex gf amanda was and still is
Posted 11/29/09
my boy friends whitout any reason has leave me.... TT-TT

hes always say did i love him or not even ive say i love him soo much but we break.....TT-TT
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Posted 12/1/09
well 1 of my brake ups was a good thing cuz the more i got to know him the more i found out that he still loved his ex but not only that the big thing i am glad we broke up is cuz he lied to me about some things like he said he never smoke or want to smoke in his life and he told me and my mom this but then i found out around his 18 b-day and when he was 18 he did smoke and the 2nd thing he lied to me about was that he said he will and would not ever drink and i found when he was 20 he drank and he over drank and when was 21 he over did it with drinking. the thing is that i dont really mind ppl drinking and smoking its that he lied to me and my mom about it and he over drank. i dont like when ppl go over board with the drinking.
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Posted 12/2/09
welll good when you found the other person is bad person, lier or something like that .
And the worst thing wnen it breaks the hearts in deep
yeahhhh some of them
1- wnen you found you gave your heart to someone dont Deserve it .

2- when you love in deep and on other hand the others Not serious Not care about how to grow the relationship
Posted 12/18/09
if you just find out that you are living in a lie! you will out of it with dameged heart but life is go on .
Posted 12/23/09
my last break up was a matter of age so idk if it was good or bad
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Posted 1/6/10
Break-ups without reason are bad because then the one who got broken up with is totally confused and has no idea what he/she did wrong.

they've got to have a reason otherwise they're just pointless, but the good thing about break ups is that sometimes, if you['re that strong of a couple and get back together, you guys would be a stronger couple because that shows that you can endure through any type of situation. But, if you break-up because you feel it's better for you two to be friends, that's still a good thing and at least you guys can still communicate by being friends and still being close.
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Posted 1/12/10
well mine was a total bad for my part i left my first bf just because i liked alot another guy i saw everyday of my life but in the end he broke up with me because he did that on purpose because he wanted attention over another girl, i was so mad and sad, it took me at least 2 weeks of crying over how stupid and idiot i was, i went back with my ex-bf he wasnt sure about me then, but he finally decided to be together with me, i felt happy and a bit angry because he had told me he felt sorry for me, but i feel like i deserved that, now he assure to me he loves me alot, and i love him sooo much
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Posted 1/25/10
The worst heart-ache I've ever been through was when I was 18 and I fell in love for the first time. They were 4 years older than me and much more mature. I was very childish and played the Jealous game a lot and didn't even know it. A lot of people told me I was too pretty to be going out with someone who looked like they did... But I didn't care one bit. I overlooked the physical flaws and saw that they were really a great person in general. Even now whenever someone says something bad or condiscending about my ex I still defend them a little.

What really hurt me was the way we broke up. I ended up getting a text saying that they were going to be deployed in a year!!! What was a bigger stab in the heart then being left because they were leaving in a YEAR was that I finally gave in to our relationship being more than just kissing. I finally gave in to the physicial, a week before they decided to break up with me.

I don't know if it was the fact they just didn't want to date me and use me, or if it was really the deployment. I don't know and I'm starting not to care anymore now that I've got someone ten times better in every way.

I still see this person whom broke my heart around my college every so often... They never look me in the eye. I wonder why that is?
Posted 2/1/10
do you mean they as in more then one person or they as in talking about someone in the third person and i think it was both he or they did not want to use for a year then make you fall deppen in love with him or them and then break your heart even worse
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Posted 2/24/10

wwe wrote:

well 1 of my brake ups was a good thing cuz the more i got to know him the more i found out that he still loved his ex but not only that the big thing i am glad we broke up is cuz he lied to me about some things like he said he never smoke or want to smoke in his life and he told me and my mom this but then i found out around his 18 b-day and when he was 18 he did smoke and the 2nd thing he lied to me about was that he said he will and would not ever drink and i found when he was 20 he drank and he over drank and when was 21 he over did it with drinking. the thing is that i dont really mind ppl drinking and smoking its that he lied to me and my mom about it and he over drank. i dont like when ppl go over board with the drinking.


Wee break ups are never fun they make ya sad and feel bad .



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Posted 2/24/10

Aeko2 wrote:


wwe wrote:

well 1 of my brake ups was a good thing cuz the more i got to know him the more i found out that he still loved his ex but not only that the big thing i am glad we broke up is cuz he lied to me about some things like he said he never smoke or want to smoke in his life and he told me and my mom this but then i found out around his 18 b-day and when he was 18 he did smoke and the 2nd thing he lied to me about was that he said he will and would not ever drink and i found when he was 20 he drank and he over drank and when was 21 he over did it with drinking. the thing is that i dont really mind ppl drinking and smoking its that he lied to me and my mom about it and he over drank. i dont like when ppl go over board with the drinking.


Wee break ups are never fun they make ya sad and feel bad .





yeah must can be but that 1 brake up that you see up there was a good thing cuz all he did was lie to me
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Posted 2/24/10

wwe wrote:


Aeko2 wrote:


wwe wrote:

well 1 of my brake ups was a good thing cuz the more i got to know him the more i found out that he still loved his ex but not only that the big thing i am glad we broke up is cuz he lied to me about some things like he said he never smoke or want to smoke in his life and he told me and my mom this but then i found out around his 18 b-day and when he was 18 he did smoke and the 2nd thing he lied to me about was that he said he will and would not ever drink and i found when he was 20 he drank and he over drank and when was 21 he over did it with drinking. the thing is that i dont really mind ppl drinking and smoking its that he lied to me and my mom about it and he over drank. i dont like when ppl go over board with the drinking.


Wee break ups are never fun they make ya sad and feel bad .





yeah must can be but that 1 brake up that you see up there was a good thing cuz all he did was lie to me


We got to learn it sometime right ?
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Posted 2/24/10

Aeko2 wrote:


wwe wrote:


Aeko2 wrote:


wwe wrote:

well 1 of my brake ups was a good thing cuz the more i got to know him the more i found out that he still loved his ex but not only that the big thing i am glad we broke up is cuz he lied to me about some things like he said he never smoke or want to smoke in his life and he told me and my mom this but then i found out around his 18 b-day and when he was 18 he did smoke and the 2nd thing he lied to me about was that he said he will and would not ever drink and i found when he was 20 he drank and he over drank and when was 21 he over did it with drinking. the thing is that i dont really mind ppl drinking and smoking its that he lied to me and my mom about it and he over drank. i dont like when ppl go over board with the drinking.


Wee break ups are never fun they make ya sad and feel bad .





yeah must can be but that 1 brake up that you see up there was a good thing cuz all he did was lie to me


We got to learn it sometime right ?


yup thats why the brake up was a good thing
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