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Why is it considered "Hot" when 2 girls kiss but is "Distubing" when 2 guys kiss?
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Posted 12/12/09
I've always wondered about this.
When you see two girls people consider it "hot"
But if you see two ordinary guys kissing it's considered "Nasty"
And don't bring Yaoi and Yuri into this please..
Posted 12/13/09
people are stupid. enough said :3
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just how guys see's thing
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Posted 12/13/09
Dunno, 2 girls turn me on, 2 man.. Sigh.. I guess it has something to do with fetishes? / instincts..
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Posted 12/13/09
You say not to bring yuri and Yaoi in, but the topic is somewhat related and there is a somewhat related thread
why are ppl against yaoi and not yuri?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-205557/why-are-ppl-against-yaoi-and-not-yuri/

Well I think its really based on one's preference.
For example, I do indeed find shoujo-ai hot until right before they have sex. And as for men kissing men, its not hot but funny instead.
Posted 12/13/09
umm i am the opposite, i rather seeing two guys kisses then seeing the female kiss
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Posted 12/13/09

makimaki_sataandagi wrote:

You say not to bring yuri and Yaoi in, but the topic is somewhat related and there is a somewhat related thread
why are ppl against yaoi and not yuri?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-205557/why-are-ppl-against-yaoi-and-not-yuri/

Well I think its really based on one's preference.
For example, I do indeed find shoujo-ai hot until right before they have sex. And as for men kissing men, its not hot but funny instead.


I never said "Why are some people against Yaoi and Yuri"

Yaoi and Yuri and real life are completely different

Yoai and Yuri are made up anime to satisfy the viewer.. it isn't real
Real life is some thing that is real and is taken seriously no matter if you're against it or not..
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Posted 12/13/09
You know men. They always want what they can't have.
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Posted 12/13/09
In a guys point of view, seeing 2 girls kiss is double the action,
you can look at, not 1 but 2 girls at the same time.
But if its 2 guys kissing, Any guy would feel disturbed.
*-To me it doesn't matter, as long as they don't try and kiss me.
I guess it would be the opposite for girls.
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Posted 12/13/09

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I never said "Why are some people against Yaoi and Yuri"

Yaoi and Yuri and real life are completely different

Yoai and Yuri are made up anime to satisfy the viewer.. it isn't real
Real life is some thing that is real and is taken seriously no matter if you're against it or not..


Of course you didn't mention it. And women kissing women might not necessarily mean that they're into each other. But Yuri doesn't mean that women have to be into each other. It means that its the art or rather the scene of engagement with one another of the same gender, it does not necessarily mean interest is found within it.

Is what depicted in Yuri and Yaoi that different from real life? Honestly I don't know but I believe that the sexual urges are definitely real. Yes the original motive of Yuri or Yaoi is to paint a sexual experience whether delightful or not, but it still has to be based on reality no? The feelings, the desire, the orgasms even the characters themselves do have their own fair share of character background. Because there are Yuri and Yaoi that have a storyline instead of just raw sex.

Also a Yuri or Yaoi with a strong storyline can be captivating because it shows the struggles of homosexuality in the modern world. And when humans are challenged, there's bound to be some interesting shit going on.

And the link posted is, why are ppl against yaoi and not yuri?
not as you said.
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But you're not getting it.. I know they don't have to be in to each other..
But Yuri and Yaoi is not the same as real life
Just because it has the same gender getting it on doesn't mean it's the same thing
Real life isn't some storyline you can end it 20 episodes Yoai and Yuri are made up
Real life is a real bond between two people
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Posted 12/13/09

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But you're not getting it.. I know they don't have to be in to each other..
But Yuri and Yaoi is not the same as real life
Just because it has the same gender getting it on doesn't mean it's the same thing
Real life isn't some storyline you can end it 20 episodes Yoai and Yuri are made up
Real life is a real bond between two people


Sure you can't end real life in 20 episodes.. so according to what you said, if I wrote a biography in 300pages..it means its not based on real life events?
Yuri and Yaoi may be fiction, but you have to ask, which came first? real life or works of fiction? Real Life did.. so there's bound to be a connection between the 2. Yuri definitely has to be based on real life events, to make it more believable to have the audience accept them. Because if everything were the fantasy of woman jerking off at a picture of Jessica Alba, how would the author convince the public to accept such content, or characters as real people. I'm sure plenty of Yuri/Yaoi authors would like their work become acceptable in the public's eye, and to do so, you need to express each character's emotions properly, to show just how human they are whether they have different sexual preference.

If you meant that, if you saw 2 girls kissing beside the road as your interpretation of your argument, then well it is still yuri no? It is still the act of intimacy between two females no? They're kissing so they definitely have a bond.
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Look, everyone has their own beliefs
And the last time I checked we weren't talking about writing a "300 page bio" of 2 people or
a person "Jacking off to Jessica Alba".. (which are all real life) we were talking about Yaoi/ Yuri and real life..
But do you really see any animes based on a real life story?? even if it was it still wouldn't be real. I sure don't see any, are all made up..
Anime has no emotion or passion.. it's just a made up Japanese cartoon with a story line
Yaoi and Yuri are not real.. this could go on for pages.. so it would be best if we would just stop quoting each other
befor we both get a warning
Posted 12/13/09

shirayukiIce

Look, everyone has their own beliefs
And the last time I checked we weren't talking about writing a "300 page bio" of 2 people or
a person "Jacking off to Jessica Alba".. (which are all real life) we were talking about Yaoi/ Yuri and real life..
But do you really see any animes based on a real life story?? even if it was it still wouldn't be real. I sure don't see any, are all made up..
Anime has no emotion or passion.. it's just a made up Japanese cartoon with a story line
Yaoi and Yuri are not real.. this could go on for pages.. so it would be best if we would just stop quoting each other
befor we both get a warning


Obviously, he's telling you that the idea of your thread is similar to the yaoi/yuri one, not that he's confused with real life or anime. I will let you keep your thread since the other one has more than 100 pages. So, chill.
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Posted 12/13/09 , edited 12/13/09
It's not 2 girls kissing that is considered hot, but two SEXY/BEAUTIFUL/CUTE girls kissing is accepted as arousing...If two fat and ugly girls would do the same in public, ppl would defenetly be against it...Cruel but this is reality...

It's all about preferences and tolerance...

As for me, I have a very delicate taste in girls so I only feel aroused or excited if girls I find sexy kiss...
If totally 'average' girls are doing it, my judgement depends on their personality - if they do it just for show as an act of whorish behavior, I'm against it...
If they are in love or just joke a bit around, I have nothing against it but doesn't find it hot or anything...

With guys I'm mainly the same...
If the guys are fit into the categorie of hot, sexy or cute ( meaning girly ), I find their gay/bi tendencies erotic or cute...
I really like the so called 'kissing emo boys' vids, since those guys are mostly cute or sexy...

I'm also into fanservice of Asian boybands/entertainers/idols - I know it's just for the show but still...Hot is hot

Edit : About the matter of yuri ( actually girls' love ) and yaoi ( actually boys' love )...
Mainstream/fanservice GL and BL has less to do with reality...
The girls/boys in such manga/anime are most of the time heterosexual who somehow find themselves attracted to a person from the same sex...
This formula is especially true for girls' love ment for guys...
We usually - there can be exceptions - don't hear the characters admitting homosexuality, they just 'act homosexual'...
This is very typical for Japanese ( maybe other Asian ) cultur - ppl make a huge difference between ACTING gay and BEING gay...And that is mainly the base of fanservice aimed by men idols for women...
Boys' love manga/anime can contain homosexual characters but it's common that they meet a heterosexual person and fell for him...

Only a VERY few procent of manga deal with homosexuality in it's most close form to reality...
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