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Teenage Love?
Posted 12/22/09 , edited 12/22/09
I never actually had a boyfriend or even liked a boy.
But I have noticed that girls really make it seem like such a big deal.
But in the end, they end up crying because the boy they "loved" screwed them over.
I dont want to fall in love, especially in this stage of love.
I wonder, how do you know when your in love or when its just another fail relationship xD
I just dont want to hear another girl cry about a relationship they thought was going to last "forever"
Thats all bs to me, we are all so young, we dont know what love really is.
Posted 12/22/09
^wow we're the same.
I never been in a relationship bfore & recently I'm thinking what's its like to be in Love?
issit good & what does Love really means anywae.
Posted 12/22/09
You feel love, its not just "I like him" you get physical things like butterflies in your stomach when you see them...that sort of thing.
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Posted 12/22/09
Without dating others, falling in love, getting heartbroken, how are you ever going to know what kind of man you really want? You need all that experience in order to decide if you're really in love and what you find attractive. If it weren't for all my ex's. I wouldn't be able to compare how I feel for the guy I'm with now and if I really like him or not.
The more experience you have in the field of love, the more you realize how much you really love someone.
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never been in a relationship and yeah most of the time their hearts end up getting broken
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But what you guys aren't realizing is that the heartbreak is usually worth all the butterflies and happiness not to mention experience you gain from it.. all good things come to an end, so get over it and have funnnnnn (:


Wow, I sound like a hallmark card. Sweet.
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Posted 12/22/09 , edited 12/22/09
i got tired of hearing girls cry for boys.....
thats why i dont like boyfriends....its better as friends..
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Posted 12/22/09
Love is such a weird thing when it's aimed at someone romantically...
It seems to me anyway. I'm gonna keep away from that area for as long as possible.
I mean if you get into a relationship. You're going to have to actually spend time with that someone!
Isn't that just a drag for an introvert...
Posted 12/22/09
When you're in love you want to see that person, and you just can't help but smile when you see them. Its a feeling like no other, at least thats what the book says XD
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Posted 12/22/09
Love is blind, but it opens our eyes. I wonder why is everyone looking so forward to a relationship without any sadness,without getting heartbroken. It will happen, at least once, in all kind of relationships - puppy love,true love,teenage love..only couples which have gone over them will find the true meaning of love
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Posted 12/22/09

xSweetcrave wrote:

I never actually had a boyfriend or even liked a boy.
But I have noticed that girls really make it seem like such a big deal.
But in the end, they end up crying because the boy they "loved" screwed them over.
I dont want to fall in love, especially in this stage of love.
I wonder, how do you know when your in love or when its just another fail relationship xD
I just dont want to hear another girl cry about a relationship they thought was going to last "forever"
Thats all bs to me, we are all so young, we dont know what love really is.


Same here... I haven't been in a relationship before, never liked a guy and is wondering the same thing...
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Posted 12/22/09
Whilst I agree a little with the whole 'gathering experience' thing, you all have to understand that when boys go through puberty our hormones pretty much scream "SEX!" every 5 minutes. I know it might be stupid and whatnot, but there it is. It's an unavoidable truth.

Now combine that with declining moral standards in today's world, and you get a large reason why 90% of teenage romances end in tears. She wants comittment, he wants sex. Now i know for fact that some men aren't like that (To pre-empt the rage that will be incoming from some guys on here), but the fact remains that a lot are, and you have to realise that there is a very good chance that the boy you 'love' is going to stay with you until you decide to sleep with him and then he'll move on.

I'm not trying to put you off men, a lot of us calm down a lot as we hit our twenties (As do a lot of women ) But still, go ahead and enjoy your youths, but please always make sure to at least listen to what your head is telling you and not just your heart, and always, ALWAYS use protection. And excuses like "We were drunk" or "We didn't have any" will not suffice. If you have none, and he has none, tell him to get stuffed and keep your pants on. Responsibility is a two way street people, it falls on both of you.

Losing your virginity to a bastard is one thing, ruining your life over it is another.
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Posted 12/22/09

xSweetcrave wrote:

I never actually had a boyfriend or even liked a boy.
But I have noticed that girls really make it seem like such a big deal.
But in the end, they end up crying because the boy they "loved" screwed them over.
I dont want to fall in love, especially in this stage of love.
I wonder, how do you know when your in love or when its just another fail relationship xD
I just dont want to hear another girl cry about a relationship they thought was going to last "forever"
Thats all bs to me, we are all so young, we dont know what love really is.


yeah:) ^^ i know what u feel....lolx:) ^_ ^!!

we're the same....and its true that we dont know what love really is....

some girls like a guy....and make him as her boyfriend...and say that she love him FOREVER so seriously like they are gonna marry...that's just so stupid...and then later on- she would break up with him coz she like another guy and do the same thing...its so weird.....teenager love are like up and down...its hard to know.....
Posted 12/22/09 , edited 12/22/09
You'll know you've fallen in love when you have no care about what happens to you and the only thing you think about is that person and the rest of the world is a just a blur. When just looking at them you cant help but smile and feel butterflies and all warm on the inside.
Its the most amazing thing in the world to feel, but also can lead to the worst feelings :/.
I date girls and be with them in the purpose of finding someone i could live my life with and fully love FOR that always and forever. To find out what i do like, what i dont like, and gaining that experiance.




quintus_fontane wrote:

Whilst I agree a little with the whole 'gathering experience' thing, you all have to understand that when boys go through puberty our hormones pretty much scream "SEX!" every 5 minutes. I know it might be stupid and whatnot, but there it is. It's an unavoidable truth.

Now combine that with declining moral standards in today's world, and you get a large reason why 90% of teenage romances end in tears. She wants comittment, he wants sex. Now i know for fact that some men aren't like that (To pre-empt the rage that will be incoming from some guys on here), but the fact remains that a lot are, and you have to realise that there is a very good chance that the boy you 'love' is going to stay with you until you decide to sleep with him and then he'll move on.

I'm not trying to put you off men, a lot of us calm down a lot as we hit our twenties (As do a lot of women ) But still, go ahead and enjoy your youths, but please always make sure to at least listen to what your head is telling you and not just your heart, and always, ALWAYS use protection. And excuses like "We were drunk" or "We didn't have any" will not suffice. If you have none, and he has none, tell him to get stuffed and keep your pants on. Responsibility is a two way street people, it falls on both of you.

Losing your virginity to a bastard is one thing, ruining your life over it is another.


I mostly agree. my last relationship it was reversed of what you said though.
I want committment and she wants something else.. not someone else, nor sex, but more to just live her life i suppose you could say?
but other than that, yes safe sex, always lol. Also not just girls, but everyone should realise, sex can improve a relationship just as much as it could destroy one.. Be careful, its not something to play around with if you want something serious.

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Posted 12/22/09
is sucks to live in reality dont it? yeah, life can be rough when it comes to love....but i have no such experiences so i cant really say much on the subject....
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