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Do your parents hate you?
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19 / F / California
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Posted 8/12/12
my mom hates me when i give an attitude, or get bad grades, or when i forget to do my chores...
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Posted 8/26/12
My parents split before I was born so I never really met my dad but my mom loves me :3
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Posted 8/27/12
i dont think my dad hates me but i think he is a little dissapointed in me because when my mom had me he expected me to grow up to be a jock and all that i mean i work out but i just dont play sports and get crazy about it like other people i think anime took that position
Posted 8/27/12

shinigami2513 wrote:

No, they love me far too much. They have really stunted any chance I have of becoming an artist. Need some daddy issues to rage against damn it.


I'm not sure why, but this made me laugh quite a bit.
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My mom wanted me to be a medical doctor, and she had a meltdown when I changed majors. Funny part was that after my thesis defense, she felt the need to tell me she still wished I had become a doctor... Irony... My dad's a genius, but he's deranged, easily the craziest person I've ever known. I never ask myself if he's proud of me, because it's always felt like he was on my side and just glad I actually made it out of my teens alive. At this point it's just me and my old man. Everyone else decided they didn't want to stick around forever.

...... Suicide is understandable when someone is stuck in a state of suffering, but it's never understandable when it's someone you love. Some people look at it like the person murdered your loved one, and blame and hate them. But I have the same hereditary issue, so I know how they must have felt. Oddly enough, when my brother went, he left me all of his stuff and lately I've been wearing his clothes. Somehow it makes me happy. It doesn't feel creepy, or morbid to me.

hmmph, maybe it's because I grew up with his hand-me-downs? meh... trying too hard to understand myself... like as if I get a reward if I manage to figure myself out... bah
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Posted 8/28/12
I think most parents don't hate their children, they hate the things we do, the choices we make. Specially when you are in your teens. I think most teens at one point or another think their parents hate them. When I was a teen I thought my dad hated me. We had big fights, and said a lot of ugly things to each other. I got away from my parents as soon as I could. For a while I did hate him. But hating someone only makes you into an angry unhappy person. So I got over that.

Now that I'm a parent myself I realized he was just angry that I turned out so different than what he wanted me to be. He cares about me, and yes he loves me in his own way. It is because you love your child so much that you want the best for them. From the moment they are born you unitentionally build this ideas in you head of what this child will be like when she/he grows up. I guess when the child doesn't meet those expectations it might be really hard for some parents to accept. My father wanted me to be so many things that I didn't want to be, or was not interested in. And to this day he is disappointed.
Communication is the key in any relationship. Unfortunately for my father and I, we did not know how to tell each other how we felt. I never told him the way he treated me made me feel hated, and just plain miserable. So now we have a very distant relationship that we cannot fix. So I think if anybody you love makes you feel sad or hated, you need to speak to that person and let them know. Specially if it is a parent.
Posted 8/28/12
I don't think they hate me, just disappointed in me. Or is that kind of the same thing?
Posted 8/28/12
I don't think so. They just don't understand me and vice versa so it only feels that way sometimes.
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Posted 8/28/12
sometimes their annoying i'm not sure about hating them, and sometimes i feel like they pick out favorites since i have 4 sisters
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No, no they don't. They love me, and I know they do, no matter how many fights we've been through. Nor do I hate them. They may not understand me, or how I feel, but nobody does. I don't consider that a bad thing. But that's beside the point, my parents love me, and I love them. The End.
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They didn't hate me, but they never really liked me either. They kept me fed and gave me a place to stay, and occasionally took an interest in my life, but for the most part they just sort of took care of me out of responsibility more than anything else. While they never said anything i'm almost certain that I wasn't planned, and whenever they said they loved me it sounded hollow and fake like they were only saying it because it was what they were supposed to do.
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Posted 8/28/12
no, but they were disappointed in me in high school. they thought i was unmotivated and will live in a cardboard box in my future. i have proven them wrong by this point, but still not that motivated.
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Posted 8/29/12
No, but they think I do drugs, have tons of sex, and worship Satan. All of this while having no social life and staying home.

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Posted 8/29/12
I hope not.
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Posted 8/29/12
no and they enjoy when i pay them a visit
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