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Is it possible to not be able to love?
Jclapo 
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Posted 12/23/09
I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?
Posted 12/23/09
it's possible. don't have a thorough explanation for it, but people do feel like they'll never be in love or have that sensual attraction to the opposite sex. I feel that way lol :3
Posted 12/23/09

Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


Everybody is capable of falling inlove..
Maybe you haven't seen that someone yet
Posted 12/23/09
Well, unless you're gay. But that's another case because it looks like you don't even like guys.
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Posted 12/23/09

Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


i'm in the same boat as you. though i don't consider it a big issue because i'm not looking to get married too soon.
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Posted 12/23/09
maybe they're not THE ONE?
or maybe you're just not ready (or do not want) a relationship yet? (subconsciously)
or do you have other things which you prioritize more like... career?
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Posted 12/23/09
Don't sweat it.

Sometimes you just don't feel like you're attracted to people. Nothing to worry about, you're obviously just waiting for the right person to come along.

It's perfectly normal, somone will come along soon enough and take your interest, you just have to stop looking too hard for them!
Posted 12/23/09 , edited 12/23/09
This.

Maybe this might sound weird coming from someone younger than you, but you're only 22 dude, you've got plenty of time left.
Posted 12/23/09
Love isnt something you have control over, its like what Sushi said, dont sweat it, someone will eventually come also, if that person leaves, its not the end of the world either, although it feels like it.
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Posted 12/23/09
I suppose it's possible, but I think it's more likely you just haven't found the right person yet.
I bet you're the kind of person who will find one love and stay devoted to them all your life.
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Posted 12/23/09

jemimah_1120 wrote:


Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


Everybody is capable of falling inlove..
Maybe you haven't seen that someone yet


This is probably the answer your looking for .
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Posted 12/24/09 , edited 12/24/09

Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


Love will come to you on the moment, place and situation you never knew it would..
-learned from experience.. V

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Love will come to you on the moment, place, situation and person you never knew it would..
-learned from experience.. V

Posted 12/24/09
Yes, You get hurt so many times you become numb or you are just born that way........
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Posted 12/24/09

Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


if youre incapable of falling in love, then you must be thinking of being a suicido, for one thing, we all love ourselves, rather you know that or not.... say, hold a knife, and try to cut yourself. theres the thing known as instinct that is hard to surpress, and most likely you wont be able to cut urself, and if you do, not super deep.


so saying you dont love yourself, dont sprout some feces
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Posted 12/24/09
I don't really know about. Ask God about it, if you believe in him. I don't really know.
For me I just love somebody.
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