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Is it possible to not be able to love?
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Posted 12/24/09
Perhaps love at first sight isn't you then?

Sometimes you can only fall in love with someone after you've gotten to know them. I'm not very social and don't hang out with many girls(internet excluded), so it's not surprising I haven't met my special other yet. There were a few girls I've met who I could easily see myself falling in love with if I got to know them a bit more.
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Aren't those people called emo?
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i think it's possible, but ionno. i only fall for some guys who falls for me first :/

but on the other hand, you have another option like this guy if you really" can't fall in love 8D
case closed ?w?
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Nope, that's not possible.
Posted 12/24/09 , edited 12/24/09
No I don't believe it is. I just think some people are not honest with their own emotions or don't know how to reconize and accept them for what they are. Some people don't know when they are having a good time, because they cannot even reconize the feelings you have when you are very happy.

It's hard to view ourselves objectively about how we feel, and that is why it can be very difficult for some people to know if they are capable of love or not. Or in some cases, they have never pushed, or had all the right buttons pushed that require a spark for that particular person. Like for me, I tend to fall for girls who take an unnusual ammount of interest in me because it is so obvious when somebody likes you but it makes you feel good that somebody is thinkin about you.

so in return, I repay that feeling by dreading over the fact that they like me and beat my self over it if I know that by all logical being in love with this person is as irrational as it gets because I know that the circumstances are perfect for love but realisticly it can NEVER work out because after all, she has a 3 year old baby, and I don't have a job, and she is looking for a long term commitment, and I am not ready for one... Especially seeing as I don't want kids right now, I HALF TO LIVE MY LIFE STILL!!!! All that crap that makes love suck.

Love is a irrational thing. And the irrational part although great feeling, sucks. People who say they are incapable of love are trying to escape their own emotions. Or have simply never reconized love when it was their, or have simply not have the right mixture because they are strange indeed. But deffinently not loveless!!!

It's so damn irrational it doesn't defend you from falling in love with a self proclaimed "evil and psychotic bitch". Which was the last person on my list of "Falling in love with". Happened anyways. WTF
Posted 12/24/09

hikobuf wrote:

Aren't those people called emo?


No emo's are all emo because they don't "feel loved". They are the ones always going XOXOXOOXOXO because they needs hugs and kisses from strangers to feed their heart and go on whithering because it gets attention, rather than finding it in more traditional places like from family.
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Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


actually...i don't love anyone =/ not even my family....sure i CARE but i don't really love them
though i ♥ 2D stuff
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maybe you've just know the same type of girls
but one day you'll meet a girl who's different from the rest
and you'll want to hold onto her.
if you finally can't imagine living without that person then you'll know you're in love.
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everyone always talks about love as some mystical thing having to do with god or magic or the way you feel at any given moment. True love is when you find someone that has the same values and senses about life as you do. If you can't find someone to fall in love with, it's most likely because you haven't figured out who you are yet. You need to find that out first... find out who you are as a person, make sure your life is in order, and then when someone (guy, girl, whatever sex you're attracted to) comes into your life that shares the same views as you do... that can grow into love.

Don't wait around for the perfect person to come into your life and magically make everything "ok". Determine what you want for yourself first, in your own life. If you don't know who you are first, then you can't really know what you want... so any feelings of "love" will just be of the moment and purely ephemeral.
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Posted 12/24/09

animemusiklover wrote:


Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


actually...i don't love anyone =/ not even my family....sure i CARE but i don't really love them
though i ♥ 2D stuff ;)


^This,so many anime girls that I love and some anime boys(no homo).Love goes beyond wanting to get in bed with someone.
Posted 12/24/09
I really dont know. But you've never felt anything? Nothing? Never? Ummmmm maybe your looking for that one special person to come along? Am I the only one who thinks this sounds kinda like twillight? With the "only one" and the "special someone" thingy?
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if you're a weird creature from hell , then it's possible.
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If you're a robot then it's possible, otherwise, you're just gonna fall in love at one point of your life
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Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


youve got your whole life ahead of you.
or perhaps your gay and dont know it ;D
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3very1 can fall in love..
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