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Is it possible to not be able to love?
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yes, i think it's possible..in the term you are using it "falling in love = feeling something specially to a particular person"
if you're not interested in romantic relationships. dont push yourself to be like the romantic people. who really are into the dating game.

IMAO..love cannot be narrowed down to mere feelings True love is genuinely caring and sharing your life to the people who matters to you.
Posted 1/31/10
I dont think anyone between the ages 0-19years old
knows what love truey is because we are still learning life it self.
We dont know what we want yet, you know what I mean.
And everytime I hear girls at my school or even my friends.
who say they are "in love",
i literally laugh at them because they dont know what they are talking about
we are only what 13-14 years (well my friends)
and we arent going to be with the same bf for the rest of our natural born lives,
we will have plenty boyfriends til we find the "right one"
Its not always like how it is in the animes guys XD!
this is real life .
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Yes, it's possible. Consider the fact that there is such thing as asexual.
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i dont think so..i think everybody would love someone....hehe:) it doesnt need to be opposite gender...it can be like parents/friends/ someone who u are close with:)~^^
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I guess so. There are people who fall in love and others who don't
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I guess so. There are people who fall in love and others who don't
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Being in love can be heartbreaking.

Best if you stay single.
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yeh. i think i have that problem lol
Posted 2/1/10

mystic17 wrote:

it's possible. don't have a thorough explanation for it, but people do feel like they'll never be in love or have that sensual attraction to the opposite sex. I feel that way lol :3


But that doesn't mean you're truly unable to love.

Humans are selfish, violent creatures by nature, but I think we're all also capable of loving.
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You are a guy.
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Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


Some things i have found that can cause this.
A horrible relationship or past event that affects your feelings.
Depression can also cause this.
I am sure there are a number of reasons that can cause this.
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Posted 2/1/10
No.
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Jclapo wrote:

I've been wondering lately if I'm incapable of falling in love. I've met some really nice girls but have never felt anything in particular.Lust is a different matter but is it possible for a human to not be able to love?


I think it was Shakespeare that said, Every passionate relationship began passionately.

But when it comes to love, I see a lot of misunderstanding of what it is. The Greeks have 4 words for love, each holding a different meaning. However, all hold but 1 common theme. It's simply caring for someone. If they're sick, you care...and if they're sad, you're with them. It's the love you have for family, certain friends, and intimate partner. The love for your girlfriend/lover/wife (éros) just has the added intimacy factor.

"Love" is something that grows and needs to be nurtured. It may start with infatuation, it may not. But you won't truly get it unless you really engage and put yourself out there in the relationship...whether it's with friends, family or lover.
Posted 2/1/10

Molly_Monroe wrote:


But that doesn't mean you're truly unable to love.

Humans are selfish, violent creatures by nature, but I think we're all also capable of loving.



I agree, but it's still hard to find that 'special one' that individuals search for in this sad-filled world =T
Posted 2/1/10

mystic17 wrote:


Molly_Monroe wrote:


But that doesn't mean you're truly unable to love.

Humans are selfish, violent creatures by nature, but I think we're all also capable of loving.



I agree, but it's still hard to find that 'special one' that individuals search for in this sad-filled world =T


That's true..I guess it depends on what you mean by "unable."

Unable could mean that you just don't have the chance to love. But that doesn't mean you aren't able to FEEL love for anything, and that's what I meant.

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